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This guy I like...again...
Okay theres this guy I've liked all of grade 7 and he's in my class and we flirt CONSTANTLY.We had this friends with benifits thing once...(less than doing it more than making out).he's in the popular click I'm...not but I have lots of friends.the guy I like's friend said to him if he goes out with me he'll never talk to him again.
Anyways after out F.W.B. thing the whole school found out while he was at camp...so he got back today nad was PISSED well we fixed it up...he's not mad as long as I tell everyone it's not true I got dared to say it.So I agreeed to.cuz he'll lose his friends cuz they're really superfishal.
I am 99.999999999% sure he likes me.I've asked him out (it was after his friend told him not to go out with me.) he said no...now I can get his friend to tell him he can go out with me...should I ?? Should I ask him out ? ?!?!?! I REALLY like him and trust him.He didn't tell anyone it was all my fault...
Love,
CONFUZZELED
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look sweetie i'm gonna be frank...if he's anything like an of the popular guys in my school then you're right...his friends WILL give him a hard time if he goes out with you...but what matters is if he's brave enough to go through with that for you cuz i know me n my bf went through the same thing except I was the one my friends were giving a hard time...n well i realized i really loved him so i decided to ignore my friends and be with him...and now its been three months and my frnds hav sorta calmd down but its not totally fine...i don't think it ever will be..but what i'm saying is ask him out in private...if he says yes then yay for you but if he says no my advice is to lay off him. i mean it mite be hard to get over him n stuff but its tons better than going out with sum1 who lets their friends run their lives...go for it <3
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i think, you should go for it, who cares about what his friends think about you.
guys are overrated.
but if you like him that much, you should go for it, you should take a risk, and see where everything goes, just don't keep your hopes up so high about him all the time, and if infact, it works out, hope for the best, but be prepared for a heartbreak. guys do stupid things, believe me, i've been there. i hope it works out, and i hope i helped a little.
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I see that you reallyyy like him..
but it doesn't really seem like he genuinely
likes you back.
I went through this exact same thing. You have to really think about the situation as a whole. He may just be the flirty type.. or maybe he hooked up with you just because you happened to be there at the right time. But if he really truly liked you, he wouldn't be so upset with you for getting the word out. This boy seems to be pretty superfical and more concerned about his reputation.
It also couldn't hurt to ask him out.. if you really want. Maybe this way, you can find out if he really liked you. If he were to say no, don't get down about it. You'll probably end up finding someone more concerned about you as a person rather than your social status..
hope the helped :]
-rachael
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It's up to you, but honestly, I wouldn't ask this guy out. He didn't treat you with respect. He was embarassed at the 'rumor' that you were FWB. If he really liked you, he'd go out with you despite what his friends said. Honestly, are they really going to ditch him just because you're going out with him? I live in one of the most superficial, jappiest places in the country and recently a guy in the popular clique went out with someone in a not-so-popular clique, and nobody cared AT ALL.
You've given him enough chances. He's obviously immature and can't handle a mature relationship. Sorry. And also, if I were you, I'd tell people that you WERENT dared to say you were FWB. You shouldn't be walked all over. Don't loose your dignity.
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listen, i know that you might really like this guy and it seems really important to have a boyfriend right now, but if he isnt willing to forget about what his friends think then hes obviously not mature enough to be in a relationship. he wouldnt even admit that you hooked up. his friend doesnt own him and when it comes down to it, he doesnt need his permission to date you if he wants to. its pathetic that he should be so worked up over what people think that hes willing to lose a girl he likes. if he really does like you, he'll come around. you just have to wait for him. and begging his friends fot their approval isnt doing anything for you, its just making them think that your inferior to them, and your NOT! even if it did work out with this guy, hes too self concious to really be seen around with you, so would you really want to be with a guy that you feel like you have to walk on eggshells to be with?? you dont deserve it! be independent and eventually youll find a guy that deserves to be with you.
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