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Posted Tuesday August 14 2007, 12:16 pm
15/f
a few days ago i found out that this one kid who i used to be best friends with is a virgin, and everyone said he wasnt. but he told my one friend he was, and he said that the only girl he would ever wanna do it with is me. well, i turned him down a while back. and we havent talked since. everyone thinks he likes me, and thinks i should talk to him. but im like scared. i dont wanna get hurt again, like i did, the last time we stopped talking. i mean, i just got over that a little while ago. and its been a year almost. i just dont wanna feel that hurt again.
what should i do? i really miss him though..
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Waiting for Mr. Right
Posted Tuesday August 14 2007, 10:23 am
I think I have found mr. Right, but he just broke it off with me because he needs to search himself. The other day I let him know that I was going on a date and he told me later that it hurt him. He alluded to us getting back together after he figures this out and asked if I would move with him if he left after graduation. I said yes. I left the conversation feeling optimistic about us getting back together. The problem is I don't want to wait for him becuase he may never come around. I am dating this other guy, but I know it hurts him and I don't want to be with anybody, but him. He still comes over and it feels like he does this to keep me from spending time with other guys. should I be a bitch and demand that he stop coming over o...
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Fine line..hookups with my best friend
Posted Tuesday August 14 2007, 2:50 am
I've known my best friend for almost 4 years. He knows that I like him, and we've hooked up twice. The first time we planned on it, the second time he made a move and it just happened. The second time messed with my head a lot, because I wasn't sure if he made a move because he had feelings for me or if he was just horny and wanted some action (I came to find out it was because of the second). We've both acknowledged that it didn't mean anything, but it's made things weird between us. When we talk online we're normal, but when we're at work together we avoid each other and don't make eye contact. I don't want to see the friendship end because of this. I've asked him to hang out, but he hasn't been around much. I'm afraid, though, th...
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cant find anyone
Posted Tuesday August 14 2007, 1:06 am
i have a problem. i cant let any guy in my life. i guess its that im afraid of relationships and my expectations are too high... help?
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I want him to want me
Posted Tuesday August 14 2007, 12:16 am
i love it when this boy plays hard to get but when i can have him i dont want him AT ALL
why?!
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help
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 11:23 pm
i like this kid alot
and i really kinda want him to know that
without actually telling him.
but i dont wanna make it THAT obvious
and like whenever i i.m him i feel like im annoying him because i am ALWAYS the first one to say hi.
so i dont really like iming him anymore.
im stuck here haha helppp :}
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summer love
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 11:05 pm
how do you get over summer love :S? its been a month nd a half and i have a boyfriend but tday i found oujt that my summer love fucked with someone and i cant stop felling this and hating it !
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No Call?
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 10:26 pm
Soo the other night i went out with some friends..and i met one of my friend's brother. He really didnt talk to me the whole night until after i left one of my friends texted me and said that her bro said i was real cute and he wanted to get to know me...soo he wanted my number. Well i gave to her and its been a couple of days and he hasnt called or texted me..i dont know if he either forgot or what..what should i do..and what do you think?
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does lust and infatuation go away?
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 9:55 pm
15/f. I like a guy who is older than me. I like him more than a friend. But I am beginning to think it's just lust and infatuation. Do these feelings go away on their own, or do I have to do something about it? Because I can't help but think about him 24/7 when I know I'm like the LASTTTTTT thing on his mind. Lol. Thanks.
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year anniversary
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 8:57 pm
14/f
Me and my boyfriend have our year anniversary on Sept. 21. And im trying to make it really specially so i decided i wanted to do a bunch of stuff for him.
Here are some thing we did on other special days: Gone to movies, Gone to funland, made dinner, bought dinner, made cookies, given money, gotten flowers, bunch f stuff.
Well im like running out of ideas!!
Any one have any great ideas. I want it to be really special and im starting early because of that, and for the fact that if i need money i will need to start saving.
Thanks a million in advance!
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Boyfriend and my Best Friend Part 2
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 8:48 pm
I am new at asking for advice so I am not sure if there is a way to add on to the last post.
I just want to clarify "lost interest" we still have sex but he has lost excitement.
He no longer cares to kiss or anything, he just wants to get to the point. Me being naked does nothing(I don't think I have a bad body) and he doesn't make it romantic anymore. We have discussed this problem, and I am not sure if anything came out of it. I learned that I want it more than him, and he is sick of doing it in the "same old places". I try to make him happy sometimes it is hard.
I talked to him about the best friend thing, and it was not worth posting until I caught him looking at pictures of her. He knows it hurt...
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boyfriend drama
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 8:37 pm
15/f
so this guy im dating broke up with me this morning because there was a lot of drama and people presuring him to brake up with me because this other guy whos kinda popular at my school wants to go out with me so he was getting his friends to try to get my boyfriend to brake up with me because he thinks my boyfriend doesnt treat me right, a lot of people tell me that and i really love him but i found out yesterday he cheated on me with my cousin.. i got mad more at my cousin then him and i said we could work it out, if it was any other guy i would have dumped him but i lost my virginity to this guy and he basically lives at my house and i dont want to leave him but i no i should and so he said today lets brake up for a couple day...
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Him
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 8:29 pm
14/f
so i like this guy and i dont know if he likes me
how do i show him i do?
and how do i know if he does?
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ok i like this guy?
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 6:51 pm
ok this might sound kind of supid, but i really like this guy name chris and i meet him through myspace and i might see him thursday night, but we have things in common and all, but like i don't know if he likes me back..its just iam scared of him not liking me, what should i do to tell him that i like him, but i've only known him for about 4 weeks now and we talk to each other everyday pretty much. i just got out of a relationship so iam just looking for someone.
i don't know hes very differnet from the last person i went out with its kind of hard for me to stand up for myself in a relationship but hopefull i'll get used to it.
well i just need your adivce or oipion
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does he llike me
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 5:51 pm
I know this guy and were kinda friends but i really like him I call him some times and he told me he likes talking to me he's a tease so i don't know when he's serious.what do I do do you think he might like me.
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Stil Like imm
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 3:56 pm
Okayy i like my ex, Im 15 hes 17
Idk, I have his number, and we saw each other for a month, and i think theres stil something between us 3 months after we split. And i see him around and he waves or nods at me like, and i want to get his attention again, start texting him again without sounding too interested..But i dont want him to think like 'Wtf she texting me for..?' So Something a bit flirty, maybe relates to tha past (or would that sound tacky?) ..
If Yuu get me..
any ideas? xxx Jus to start me off like..
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idk
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 3:27 pm
my boyfriend whos not circumsized smells.. idk what to do
its like know matter what he does he always does
help what should I do??
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Trouble with older boy
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 2:58 pm
Hi..im a 14 turning 15 yr. old girl thats has a BIG crush on this older guy but i don't know how to tell him i want to be more than friends with him...i don't know what to do...
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love
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 12:38 pm
Well .. lots of lads have been asking me out recenly for some reason and all of them are to good of mates .. but this one lad really really made me blush .. and i told him the same as the other lads that it will ruin friendship and things .. but since then i cant stop thinking of him and i say to my self i dont like him in that way but he wont get out of my head .. do i love him but not realise ?? im really confused .. i have been out with him before but he cheated on me ,, so i new then how much he really loved me ! he has been saying that he does love me like no-one else and that he was sorry for what he did .. im falling for him I THINK i keep saying i dont but i cnt get him out of my head !!!!!! what should i do help me someone please !x
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obsession?
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 6:30 am
ok ill tell you how i feel and see wat you think.
i feel like im obsessed with my bf, i wait for his calls, and wen hes not happy, i feel like its always me thats done something wrong, so then i go do something nice for him or buy him something to make him feel better.
how do i get rid of these feelings of alwayssss wanting to be with him, its like i cant concentrate on my own life. im always concerned with wat he is doing.
so yes, how do i stop this, i feel sometimes i have to pretend that i hate him just to not constantly think of him, its really annoying!!
i feel like if he doesnt spend fri and sat night with me, he'll go out and get drunk u no or play up, which he wouldnt because he doesnt go night...
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