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Boyfriend and my Best Friend Part 2
I am new at asking for advice so I am not sure if there is a way to add on to the last post.
I just want to clarify "lost interest" we still have sex but he has lost excitement.
He no longer cares to kiss or anything, he just wants to get to the point. Me being naked does nothing(I don't think I have a bad body) and he doesn't make it romantic anymore. We have discussed this problem, and I am not sure if anything came out of it. I learned that I want it more than him, and he is sick of doing it in the "same old places". I try to make him happy sometimes it is hard.
I talked to him about the best friend thing, and it was not worth posting until I caught him looking at pictures of her. He knows it hurts me, and he doesn't do it intentionally.
He loves me though; sometimes… it is even hard for me to see it. Well it is when things like this happen. Irony is, he is my first and I want him to be my last. I am content. He is curious.
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Dear Content,
For starters,your way of asking advice was marvelous, it got to the point. Now let's get to the problem. You say that hes tired "the same old places". Go somewhere new, no something exciting, try new things. You also said that you want it more than him. Well..to tell you the truth, it means more for women, and we put more emotion into it than men do. Some men dont put all out until their married. If you're having sex just to get the pleasure and you dont kiss.....then why do it? Why do it if it mean nothing at all? Now lets talk about your Best Friend. Talk to her. Let her know whats going on and how you feel. Let her know this way just in case something does happen, you told her and you let her know, and you did the best you could. Have you talked to your boyfriend about it? About how you feel? You should talk to both of them. But talk to them seperately, for if you sit them both down together, things might get awkward, and then drama appears.
~justlikekandy14~
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