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How to flirt so he knows...
Posted Wednesday August 22 2007, 12:34 pm
Ok well I was trying to flirt with this one kid like mad status. I later told him that I liked him, he likes me to but we aren't going out. When I told him i liked him i was like did you think i was flirting with you before that? And he said no so how can i flirt so he knows that im flirting with him?
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im hella mad
Posted Wednesday August 22 2007, 12:13 pm
well okay a few weeks ago here on advicenators i asked if i should tell this guy that was in my driver's ed class that i like him but things got complicated. well he gave me his number & i told him that i called him & he said that he gave me the wrong number & he said sorry. HE ADMITTED IT! & then i told my friend & she went to go tell him to come talk to me & he was like i don't like her & that he already has a girlfriend and he said that infront of everyone. i was so upset i started crying. and my friends were trying to make me feel better but i just got even more upset. my friend had said that he told her that him & his girlfriend have been dating for like 3 years & i was suprised.. and when he weas wa...
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Being ditched...
Posted Wednesday August 22 2007, 11:55 am
16/f. I've been best friends with this guy for 4 years. Except for literally DAYS of being attracted to him when we first met, months before we were even friends (which wasn't reciprocated), everything between us has always been 100% platonic, and we've both had several bfs/gfs during the course of our friendship. However, for ages because of how close we are other people have been speculating there's something more. Recently he got this new girlfriend, and he has been spending ALL his time for her, and he never sees me anymore unless she can come along and even that's barely ever. He didn't come to my party because he was with her! It's driving me insane and I keep trying to talk to him about it, but he keeps implying that I'm just jealous...
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I've never snogged anyone.
Posted Wednesday August 22 2007, 7:30 am
14/f
Right, I'm 14 and I've never snogged anyone. It might not sound that bad but most people about two years younger than me have snogged someone, and it's beginning to become a real problem.
I'm scared of getting into relationships with people because they'll have had experience and I worry that it will be awkward and they'll think I'm a bad kisser.
I don't like playing truth or dare and always try to get out of it because I might be dared to snog someone, or asked how far I've got. Most of my friends have gone further than snogging, and I'd feel really embarrassed if I had to admit the most I've ever done is kiss someone.
Is there anyway I can get over this and stop being so wor...
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Do I have a problem with commitment?
Posted Wednesday August 22 2007, 7:22 am
14/f
I seem to have a problem, I always like guys that aren't available. Sometimes I fall hard, and then get really depressed because I know I can't have them.
A few times in the past, boys I've liked have asked me out, and before I've had time to think about it, I've said no. And after I think, what did I do that for?
And boys I've liked have chatted me up at parties and I've got away from them quickly. And I always regret it.
Now, I've been in love with this boy for the past 4 months. And he really is the most amazing boy I've ever met. He seemed to be in a really serious relationship with his girlfriend and I'd cry all the time because of it.
A few days ago he told me he likes me as more than a ...
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Poor Boyfriend - Part 2
Posted Wednesday August 22 2007, 3:43 am
If you read my previous question, you'll have some background on my boyfriend. Well now I have a specific situation and need advice. Tomorrow we're supposed to go to an amusement park with some other couples, and I'm the only one who can drive us all. So tonight about midnight, my boyfriend calls and says he doesn't think he's gonna go. Even though his parents said he could, he doesn't want to put that burden on his family, because it's so expensive. And then he goes on and on about how hard his life is, and he can never do anything (which is totally untrue).
So anyway, he said (very sadly) that I could go ahead and go without him if I wanted... or I could stay home and hang out with him. Of course I don't want to go ...
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Waaaah - my Poooooor Boyfriend!
Posted Wednesday August 22 2007, 2:49 am
Ok, I love my boyfriend to death, but there's one thing that really drives me crazy. Every so often he gets on this big self-pity kick, whining about how hard his life is. How his dad is never home because of his job... how his mom can never do things for him because she has to work so hard to run the family... how his parents can't afford to buy him things... how school is so difficult for him and he has to try sooo hard... wah, wah, wah! Yes, I know his life isn't perfect, but whose is? And trust me, he's NOT that bad off.
I try to be really sweet and sympathetic when he gets like this, because I know he just wants sympathy. But then he brings me into it and tries to make me feel guilty. He'll say I can't possibly u...
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New guy making me question??
Posted Wednesday August 22 2007, 2:17 am
I have been dating my boyfriend for a year. Recently we have been hanging out with this guy and I really like him a lot... i found out he likes me too. My boyfriend doesn't know that I have stayed up all night talking to him like hours and hours. I just really like him i can talk to him for forever we have a lot in common. I love my boyfriend and I dont want to hurt him or break up with him for this other guy but at the same time i want to. My bf hasnt been the best boyfriend but whatever. Like my bf tried to have sex with me or kiss me and i'm just completely turned off and i dont want to. Idk why what do you think?
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what do i tell my boyfriend
Posted Wednesday August 22 2007, 12:37 am
I love my boyfriend. i would never in my life consider cheating on him. yet today there were these two guys flirting with my friend and me. they were funny and i liked hanging out with them, so i figured what's the harm. then my friend had to leave so it was just them and me. the flirting got worse. i didn't do anything to encourage them i don't think. i just liked hanging out with them. then i had to go home and one of them offered to walk me. i probably shouldn't have let him, but i did, then he had a long way to go home so i let him come in and rest for a little bit. my mom asked him to stay for dinner so he stayed a lot longer than i wanted him to. nothing happened, we just hung out. now i'm just not sure how to tell my boyfriend. i kno...
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boyfriend/girlfriend who moved.
Posted Tuesday August 21 2007, 11:54 pm
hi 14/f :D
any of you out there, did you ever have long distance relationships that worked out in the end?
if so could you tell me your story? opinons or anything would be awsome :]
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i like a kid older then me. how do i tell him?
Posted Tuesday August 21 2007, 11:51 pm
i am a female=] i love guys. i love one guy in particular. i am 13 going on 14.
yea. ok. so i liek this kid. hes a year older then me. hes in europe on vacation right now. i asked my friend to ask him if he likes me, but i doubt he does. hes in a very popular band where i live, and practically has groupies! well. 12-16 yr old groupies. it just makes me lose hope, liek he has all that to choose from, so why would he choose me? what should i do. i plan on telling him i like/almost love him when he gets back from europe, but i dont know how to do it. i dont want to ruin our frend ship, but i think i need to tell him. i wont be able to get over it if i keep thinkin 'what if'. I NEED HELP!
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havent had a boyfriend
Posted Tuesday August 21 2007, 11:27 pm
ok so im 13 going into 8th grade & i've never had a boyfriend. im not ugly im acutally pretty but im just really tall. im 59 & i know if i was shorter i'd be able to get a boyfriend but now they're all short, & my uglier freinds even get boyfriends before me.. what should i do?
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how do you ask?
Posted Tuesday August 21 2007, 10:56 pm
15/f
how do you make a really good first impression on a guy you're just meeting who knows you are kind of wild. what should you do when you first meet him? like give him a hug and then kiss him later on or what do you say when you first meet him? help please!
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guys
Posted Tuesday August 21 2007, 10:53 pm
are guys turned off by braces?
15/f
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first boyfriend!
Posted Tuesday August 21 2007, 9:13 pm
school is starting soon and i want a boyfriend! like way in the winter-ish we have this thing called "Winter Wonderland", which is like a special dance around Christmastime for 8th graders. and you can go with your friends, but its kinda better if you have an actual guy date! i want somebody special.. but some people just get in relationships really easily.. for me its either that I like them, but they don't like me back, or the opposite. I guess I can be picky at times, but I want my first boyfriend to be someone I wont regret. Plus, I don't know what my parents would say or think.. and if they'd want me to be hanging around this guy a lot, especially if we go on dates and stuff. but I want my first boyfriend to be a good friend ...
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Question about condoms
Posted Tuesday August 21 2007, 8:49 pm
K i was wondering because i am only thirteen and i dont want to get my girlfriend pregnant. When she puts a condom on me niether of us know whether to put the latex over my balls or not. the condom definitely fits since i dont have a very big peter. so all i want to know is if i have to put the condom over my balls or not. thx in advance
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how do i act like im over my ex when i see him at school?
Posted Tuesday August 21 2007, 8:11 pm
how do i act like im over my ex when i see him at school? because i always look down when i see him and stuff so how do i act around my ex boyfriend and how? and im not over him yet and i dont want him to know that im not over him yet please help?
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Shy and Insecure Is there a cure?!!!!!!!!! Help
Posted Tuesday August 21 2007, 8:10 pm
Ok heres the thing I am almost eighteen and Im so shy that I can hardly or never have been able to talk to a guy without hittin a beamer basically. This is due to embarrassment for them incase anyone sees them talkin to a girl that looks like me.
To describe me I have a button nose, I am big boned my hair never stays straight long and I hate myself infact the only thing I like about myself is my eyes but guys dont fall for eyes do they?
I know this will prob sound sad to most but I need tips any tips you can give on how to be a little less shy and insecure.
Thanks for any help you can give.
soz its long.
lxx
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My Sister's Boyfriend's Brother...
Posted Tuesday August 21 2007, 8:06 pm
Okay... sorry if this gets long. So I'm gonna be a seventh grader this year. And I have a HUGE crush on my older sister's boyfriend's brother. He's going into 9th grade. I have never even talked to him before, but he's pretty funny and really cute. And single. ;)
I don't really think it would be smart of me to just go and ask him out when I haven't even talked to the guy before, so I want to hang out with him. I just don't know how to ask? And it's not like I wanna be alone with him or anything, 'cause I don't know him. I just wanna get to know him.
I was thinking maybe my sister could bring her boyfriend and his brother over and I could hang out with him... But God, it's just so weird cause hes my sister's bro...
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what is his problem?
Posted Tuesday August 21 2007, 7:34 pm
Okay so I had oral sex with this guy and I guess he liked me a little bit. I dont know. But he'll talk to me sometimes and then other times he just ignores me. I mind you he is really shy. Like he'll talk to me but when we were having oral he seemed like i dont know nervous. He's 2 years older than me so I dont know why he was so shy ans stuff. Now he talks to me like he likes me and then he'll act like im some sort of freak. He calls me some stupid name thats not insulting its just something he likes to call me. I dont know if he wants some sex or he really likes me. I've never had sex before. So yeah I'm a virgin. But he really pisses me off. Why does he do that? I want to ask him but he's so confusing he may never talk to me again. I'm just sick of him.
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