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well okay a few weeks ago here on advicenators i asked if i should tell this guy that was in my driver's ed class that i like him but things got complicated. well he gave me his number & i told him that i called him & he said that he gave me the wrong number & he said sorry. HE ADMITTED IT! & then i told my friend & she went to go tell him to come talk to me & he was like i don't like her & that he already has a girlfriend and he said that infront of everyone. i was so upset i started crying. and my friends were trying to make me feel better but i just got even more upset. my friend had said that he told her that him & his girlfriend have been dating for like 3 years & i was suprised.. and when he weas walking back to his desk when we were at driver's ed class he told my friend that he felt bad but he didn't even apologized. he just walked past me & was looking at me. & that was my last day there & he knew it was because i told everyone that i was going on vacation & im home now from my vacation & driver's ed is over & i'll never get to see him thank god. but im still upset what should i do? i can't seem to get over him & why didn't he apologize to me if he felt bad? & how come he couldn't just tell me that he had a girlfriend instead giving me a fake number? can someone please help me?
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Oh come on girl. Give the guy a break.
He was trying to spare your feelings and keep himself out of trouble with his girlfriend by giving you a fake number. He was trying to avoid embarrassing or hurting you by saying he had a girlfriend.
He didn't apologize because he was ashamed, embarrassed and worried about causing you even more pain if he spoke up.
Yeah, it wasn't the most mature way in the world to behave. It was actually pretty cowardly but his mistakes are mistakes millions of teens will make. He wasn't trying to play games with you. He was just trying to avoid the whole mess.
He couldn't help the fact you liked him anymore then you could help the fact he had a girlfriend. He might have dealt with it better, but it seems he didn't know how.
Take a deep breath, remind yourself some people won't always treat you the way you want to be treated, and get on with your life.
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Well this guy was obuviously not thinking clearly he thought that he didn't want to hurt you're feelings so instead he just thought that the easy way out of that sticky situation is to lie.Also he must of been terrfied of the thought of confronting you because of how you would react if he would of went,apologized but, he should of been a man enough to say he was sorry about it,not hurt you like that it's just so messed up he should have been honest with you,not lead you on.The way to get over it is to let it go,decide whether to forgive him or not,then move on with your life don't keep torturing yourself by thinking about it,when time passes by it won't hurt you no more,have any affect, that guy will pay for what he did soon the tables will turn on him,someone else will hurt him just as he did to you believe me there will be judgement day for him.
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Yuck.
Why are you so worried about this guy? He's an asshole. He gave you a fake number, then admitted it after you tell him you called, then he says he doesn't like you in front of everyone, hurts your feelings, DOESN'T apologize for anything, and then just looks at you.
Honestly, FUCK HIM. He's trash, he's scum. You deserve a lot better. If you know that he's scum, why be so bothered by this? Yeah, what he did was wrong, but you can erase him just like that. You guys weren't dating, it was just a crush. He's not worth your time, so find someone else. There's a million fish in the sea, go find nemo.
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You should probably just forget about him. First of all, driver's ed is over. You most likely won't see him as much, especially if you don't plan anything. You can't become involved with a guy who has no interest in dating anyone. He has a girlfriend & he said they have been dating for 3 years. You should really just move on. I know it sounds a lot easier than it really is, but there's nothing else you can do. Go out with your friends & have a good time. Meet new people. There are plenty of single guys out there willing to go on dates with girls. Try it out & see who you like. No one can tell you why or why he didn't do things. We aren't him & we don't know him. If you really are still curious & would like to stay friends with him, you could try getting in touch with him but i wouldn't recommend it. He had a chance to appologize to you & he didn't. Take it from there. Maybe he felt that since he did have a gf, he didn't have a reason to appologize even though he felt bad about the whole situtation. He handled it immaturely by giving you the wrong number, but there's nothing you can do about it now. The class is over like you said & he had a chance to fix things & he chose not to. Move on & try to forget about him. He has a girlfriend & shouldn't be doing things with other girls.
-hope that helped!♥
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