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I've never snogged anyone.
14/f
Right, I'm 14 and I've never snogged anyone. It might not sound that bad but most people about two years younger than me have snogged someone, and it's beginning to become a real problem.
I'm scared of getting into relationships with people because they'll have had experience and I worry that it will be awkward and they'll think I'm a bad kisser.
I don't like playing truth or dare and always try to get out of it because I might be dared to snog someone, or asked how far I've got. Most of my friends have gone further than snogging, and I'd feel really embarrassed if I had to admit the most I've ever done is kiss someone.
Is there anyway I can get over this and stop being so worried? And do you have any tips on snogging and how do it?
Sorry I said snog and snogging so much, I hate those words, but I wanted people to know what I meant, and not just think I meant a peck on the lips or something.
Thanks in advance, xxx
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I wouldn't worry too much about it. I'm a few years older than you and let me let you in on a little secret..I haven't done ANYTHING with a boy. Most I've done is a hug! When my friends talk about it, and yes they've done some stuff, they are perfectly cool with it. They said it's not big deal and we move on. Trust me, if these friends of yours are going to make fun of you just because you never made out..They aren't your friends. A friend wouldn't put another friend down due to something so silly.
Your time will come, just like I know mine will. I just tell myself it's cool because I'm probably one of the very few my age that is so..untouched.
And remember when you do get into your relationship, everyone is new at something in the begining. He may even think it's cute ;]
Just remember only kiss someone you want to, don't give in to someone who is pressuring you to do something you feel uncomfortable in.
I hope this makes you feel a bit better.
Best of luck
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don't worry about it. keep yourself busy with other stuff.... w/e your interest is. get your mind off of relationships and maybe help a friend who has a problem about theirs. you're only 14 so it's not a big deal if you dunno all that stuff.
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I personally think 14 is too young for a relationship. You may think I'm wrong, but I'm pretty sure I'm alright with my opinion. Who the hell wants to experience a broken heart at 14 years old? No one I know...
Anyways, you shouldn't be ashamed of the fact that you're not easy like everyone else. So what if all you've ever done is kissed. That's not a big deal. People aren't going to care. Sure, they'll be shocked because you're not at their "level" but in all honesty, you're probably a lot better off than they are. Trust me, it's okay to just kiss & not go any farther than that. Don't do anything you don't wanna do & don't do things that make you uncomfortable.
But if you do happen to get into a relationship & the guy gives you bullshit because you have little experience, then you kick him in the balls & find yourself someone new. If a guy really liked you, he wouldn't care about how far you've went with people unless he really is that shallow. Do what makes you happy, and do what you're comfortable with. If no one can respect you for the things you've done, then they're not worthy of being in your life, nor are they worthy of your time. =)
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The only way to get over this is to just get practice. You won't ever get experience if you're afraid that you might have to. Besides, the guy most likely won't even notice that you've never made out if you're not really tense about it and just go with the flow.
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Hope this helps.
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