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My Sister's Boyfriend's Brother...


Question Posted Tuesday August 21 2007, 8:06 pm

Okay... sorry if this gets long. So I'm gonna be a seventh grader this year. And I have a HUGE crush on my older sister's boyfriend's brother. He's going into 9th grade. I have never even talked to him before, but he's pretty funny and really cute. And single. ;)

I don't really think it would be smart of me to just go and ask him out when I haven't even talked to the guy before, so I want to hang out with him. I just don't know how to ask? And it's not like I wanna be alone with him or anything, 'cause I don't know him. I just wanna get to know him.

I was thinking maybe my sister could bring her boyfriend and his brother over and I could hang out with him... But God, it's just so weird cause hes my sister's brother's boyfriend! And my sister would make a big deal of it so I don't know how to tell her I like him. She wouldn't be mad or anything, she would just be all "OMG you like my boyfriend's brother!?"

And what if he doesn't even wanna hang out? He's in 9th grade, I'm in 7th grade. We've never even talked. People tell me all the time I am really mature for my age, which I guess I can see, but not trying to brag...

So how could I ask my sister to talk to him for me? I mean, is that even what I should do? Please help. Anything you have to say is appreciated.


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LaceyIsPrettyBomb answered Wednesday August 22 2007, 9:58 am:
Thats wicked funny, i have a huge crush on my older sisters boyfriends brother also=].
What i did was i told my sister about it, and she thought it was a little odd at first, because it is her boyfriends brother. But then she was all excited about it because she wanted to hook us up. So she talked to him first and told him about me and stuff. And then we started talking on myspace. Talking online is for getting to know someone like that is good so then when you do hang out, its not awkward and you have things to talk about. And then after we talked for a couple days, my sister brought me over to her boyfriends house and we all hung out=]
So you should deffinetly tell your sister. Im sure she'd be excited and more than happy to help out=]

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Cmilner1607 answered Wednesday August 22 2007, 2:05 am:
Sweetie, if you have a crush I say go for it. :]
tell your sister the same thing you told me. You have a crush& you want to get to know him. Even though it may be a bit awkward for your sister. Kt happens sometimes. &jut because you're younger it doesn't mean you can't get an older guy to crush you back hon. So just see if you guys can hangout with a group of friends, that's always easiest& then decide if you really do have a crush on him. :]

hope i helped honey.

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