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i like a kid older then me. how do i tell him?
i am a female=] i love guys. i love one guy in particular. i am 13 going on 14.
yea. ok. so i liek this kid. hes a year older then me. hes in europe on vacation right now. i asked my friend to ask him if he likes me, but i doubt he does. hes in a very popular band where i live, and practically has groupies! well. 12-16 yr old groupies. it just makes me lose hope, liek he has all that to choose from, so why would he choose me? what should i do. i plan on telling him i like/almost love him when he gets back from europe, but i dont know how to do it. i dont want to ruin our frend ship, but i think i need to tell him. i wont be able to get over it if i keep thinkin 'what if'. I NEED HELP!
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Well, a one year age difference isn't that big of a deal. It's not enough of a difference to make you guys be on completely different levels.
Now, stop thinking about the 'what ifs' in this scenario. The truth is, he's probably sick of all the same types of girls hanging all over him all the time. Make your differences from all those clones stand out and I assure you he will notice them. But the thing is, he won't have a chance to notice them if you aren't around him enough to let him notice you.
Just make sure you don't act like you don't like him or he'll think, 'well, it's obvious she doesn't like me, so what's the point?' And don't think that he'll never like you back or that you're not as good as all the girls he hangs around or he'll sense that air about you and believe it too.
Instead of giving him a straight compliment, give him a 'complidiss'. Okay, I just made that word up, but it's basically just kind of digging at him but complimenting him too. An example: 'You looked really good up there, but your guitar playing could use a little work'. Just make sure you smile when you say it. It sounds flirty and you're telling him that you think he's cute, but you're not being so straightforward.
Hope this helps.
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