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Candle smoke?


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 6:59 pm

I ALWAYS have a candle burning in my room.
I burn them on my computer desk, off to the side next to my computer.

Cups of water (plastic) that I leave in my room I find get a grey dust-like sheen on the inside of them after a few hours sitting there.
I've also noticed when I blow my nose, some of the boogers that come out are tinted black.

Could this be the candle smoke doing these things?

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Is Giving Up A Friendship Worth It to Make a Relationship Stay Afloat?


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 6:02 pm

I'm a 20 year old girl whose currently in my longest relationship with a guy, let's call him J, he's 22, we've been together for a little over five months, and I can really see a real future with. However I'm also still “friends” with my ex boyfriend, let's call him S, he's now 27 was 26 when we dated – I was 19, you would have to know him to understand why he was involved with me (my mentality is a little bit older than most, his is quite a bit younger).

S was kind of a serious relationship, it was my first one, he had only dated two girls before me and I lost my virginity to him. He wasn't a virgin before he met me but had only had sex three times and had never enjoyed it, the girl he had sex with would always tell h...

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i already did this question but you probably didnt understand it so im emo


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 4:48 pm

Sorry i wrote emo at the top but pretty much every time i get mad and don't know where to put my anger i will slice my wrist and cut off chunks of skin until i bleed. Now i already did this question but you probably couldn't understand it because i was in a rush but now i will explain. So yesterday i was at this carnival and i wore quarter sleeves because it was really hot and my mom wouldn't let me wear long sleeves and i didn't have any bracelets to put on over the cuts so i just left it and hoped no one saw it. So my dad saw it and started asking questions i told him that i fell and then ran away. And now him and my mom are asking me questions and they want to put me in a place where i will get help but i dont want to tell people how...

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Regaining my confidence.


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 3:32 pm

I haven't felt as if I lack confidence in a very long time. I've been with my lovely boyfriend for two years now, and he's always telling me he loves me as I am, and I can sincerely see that he does love me and my body the way I am.

I'm not overly-confident, but I'm happy with myself (most of the time) and I do get checked out and complimented every now and then.

However, I recently discovered that he watches porn about twice a week or so; at first I found it hard to cope with- but now I've gotten over it. I know he's looking at the sex- not the girls themselves. And he has reassured me that he loves me and he's not looking for something else or someone else.

I've known throughout our whole rela...

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Is it safe to skip gauge sizes??


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 3:26 pm

I have recently started stretching my ears...i am at a 18g. I want to skip gauge sizes and get down to an 8g pretty soon. I only want to buy 1 pair of gauges so i dont have to keep buying size bigger after size. So would it be safe if i would skip sizes??? or would i get a blowout??

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Maitreya


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 2:58 pm

When you read the material on Maitreya, how can you know its true and accurate??

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Pure soul


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 2:52 pm

What does it meen when someone tells you you are a pure soul??

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What Did You Do for Your Courthouse Wedding?


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 1:59 pm

So, I'm getting married in a few months. My fiance is getting deployed in April, so we wanted to sign papers first and then have a real wedding next year. However, I still wanted to do something decently special for our courthouse wedding. For those of you who have done the 'signing papers' thing, I would like to know how you all did it and how you guys celebrated! I just want some nice ideas, thank you!

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Worried the sexual abuse I suffered will ruin my future


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 10:26 am

hey guys ...i am 19yrs old girl.i am worried about my future.my cousin brother forced me to have sex when i was 8-9years old.if i dnt do so he use to beat me.he have sex with me 2-3 times but i didnt bleed.he use to lick n play with my pussy until i get menstruation(on 11).now i am worried if my bf got to know m not virgin..i dnt want him to knw since that was not my fault..help me out.do u think my bf will knw??


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possible STD?


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 7:49 am

Recentley i have been having intercourse with a girl that i am seeing, shes on birth control pills so we do not use a condom. She has only had intercourse with one other guy in the past and they used a condom. I know STD's can be contracted not only through sexual intercourse so i will rule in any other possibility of how she might have gotten it, if she has it. Well my question is we started having intercourse around mid august this year, and around the last week of august, first week of september i went for a regular checkup at the docs and i got blood work done. Everything came back completley fine except for the fact that i have high iron. lastnight for the first time i felt ichiness and a mild rash and very mild burn on my penis head i...

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what does he mean by this?


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 5:53 am

help, me and boyfriend have been arguing a lot lately and he's just being extremely moody all the time. we live together. he used to say i mean the world to him but lately he's been saying, his son comes first no matter what and i asked him don't i mean anything to him, he replied by saying,'' my son comes first, how could you ask you mean nothing''? guys please help me, i don't understand what did he mean by this? if i'm right i reckon he's bored with me. thank you all.

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What could be the reason(s) as to why he hasn't emailing me back yet?


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 3:35 am

I emailed a guy and told him how I felt about him. He wrote back a few days later. Saying that he apologizes if he doesn't respond back in a timely manner. I then replied back telling him not to rush. Whenever you get the chance to get online again you could reply back then.

Sometime after I sent that email to him. He's been online and active but has yet to reply back to my email. What could be the reason as to why he hasn't replied yet? I'm a 26 yr old Leo female. Emailing an 26 yr old Virgo male. I sent him the email on September 15th 2011 now it's September 26th 2011. I hope I'm not reading too much into it.

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asking about the past


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 2:24 am

this is just a general question,if you are starting to see someone, is it ok to ask how their past relationshp ended? just to make sure your possible relationship won't end the same way?

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is it normal to feel this way?


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 2:05 am

i have been single for a little over a year and it's my senior year of high school. i just got over a crush and i'm feeling great and free about not having guys in my life to distract me. but my friends are all complaining about how lonely they are and how badly they want boyfriends. i feel like i'm the only one who's not upset about being single. for me it's like this; i have a job and a ton of homework. i have to worry about where i'm going to college and things like that during the winter cheerleading starts and that takes up all my time so i don't think i'll have time to keep a boyfriend. if i can't have time for myself, how am i going to possibly have time to have a boyfriend? i won't be opposed to having one if the right guy comes alo...

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not sure what this tension is..


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 1:59 am

well. during my freshman year of high school, second semester, i started to like this guy and my crush went on for about 1year. during junior year of high school he got a girlfriend and i was pretty hurt so i tried to stop liking him or convince myself that i didn't like him anymore until i believed myself. so during the summer time, i wanted to ask him some question over something that had happened a while back. i didn't think he would actually respond since ever since he found out i liked him he would avoid me while before he would come and talk to me and joke around with me. anyway ever since school began (senior year) and after i asked him that question, he would start talking to me more and started to joke around with me a little bit. ...

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Something strange on my ribs causing pain.


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 1:28 am

I`m pregnant, 6 months along. I started noticing recently something on top of my left rib, it moves ever so slightly but never from that spot. I was showing my mom, hoping she had an answer, she pushed on it (not very hard) and now it`s causing me pain. Do you have any idea what it could be? Or what I could do?

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Bumps Right Around Anus & Vagina


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 1:04 am

(Pretty gross yeah i know...)
Past month or two I've been getting bumps around my anus and around my vagina..

They're itchy and painful.

At first I thought maybe my partner had given me herpies, but I went to the doctor and got tested and they haven't called me to come in or anything yet so I don't think it's that... And the bumps look nothing like the pictures I've seen on google for herpies.

I also looked up other things it could be like Pin Worms. And yet again they look nothing like the pictures.

The bumps sort of look like a mix between hidradenitis suppurativa and a smaller version of hemmroids.
The bumps are itchy and painful, and from what I can tell sort o...

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Fingering still hurts


Posted Monday September 26 2011, 12:42 am

Ok, so I'm 18 and am a virgin, and I got fingered for the 4th time tonight, and it still hurt!! I've never used a tampon, and never masterbated, so I keep telling myself that's normal for it to feel like that, but when he rubs down there, it doesn't even feel good! It actually hurts...anything he does, and he's only using one finger. He's super gentle, and yet, I can't help but squirm. I don't know what to do.....is there something wrong with me? Is it ever going to get any better? I'm really freaking out here, and my boyfriend is a little confused too because he knows what he's doing, and hes going slow and gentle.....so what's the problem? If anyone can give ANY adive, that would be awesome because I don't have anyone to talk to:/

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he suddenly misses being single...


Posted Sunday September 25 2011, 11:49 pm

My husband and I have been married for almost two years. We have a one year old baby boy and another baby on the way. Last night I confronted him because he seemed distant to me... he admitted that he missed being single... he said he felt guilty for feeling that way and that he wanted to be with me because he loves his family and his son... but not in so many words did he say he loved me...
I am completely at a loss. I know there are things I could do better as a mother/ wife... but I don't know what to do to rekindle what he must've lost for me.

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What does it mean when a person says this?


Posted Sunday September 25 2011, 10:50 pm

What does it mean when a person says that "your too close up on me" for the relationship?

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