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what does he mean by this?
help, me and boyfriend have been arguing a lot lately and he's just being extremely moody all the time. we live together. he used to say i mean the world to him but lately he's been saying, his son comes first no matter what and i asked him don't i mean anything to him, he replied by saying,'' my son comes first, how could you ask you mean nothing''? guys please help me, i don't understand what did he mean by this? if i'm right i reckon he's bored with me. thank you all.
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It doesn't mean that he doesn't care about you, but his son is his main priority. You on the other hand can take care of yourself while his son can't. He never said you don't mean anything to him. Imagine if you had a child, not with him, but you were also dating someone. Who would be your number 1, him or your child?
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I am going to assume that you are the same person who asked what to do when this guy told you to move on.
It sounds to me that you are being selfish by demanding all his time too you, When someone has a child that child should come first before anyone. This guy has the responsibly of being a parent and that will put his relationship on hold in a ways where he cannot give you all the attention you want. Demanding all his time is of course going to push him away. From the sound of his response too you this guy wants to focus on his son instead of a relationship right now. Perhaps he feels guilty about lacking time with his son. You need to respect his feelings, If he wishes to end the relationship then as painful as it is you need to respect that. You cannot force someone to be in a relationship when they don't want to be.
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