Question Posted Monday September 26 2011, 12:42 am
Ok, so I'm 18 and am a virgin, and I got fingered for the 4th time tonight, and it still hurt!! I've never used a tampon, and never masterbated, so I keep telling myself that's normal for it to feel like that, but when he rubs down there, it doesn't even feel good! It actually hurts...anything he does, and he's only using one finger. He's super gentle, and yet, I can't help but squirm. I don't know what to do.....is there something wrong with me? Is it ever going to get any better? I'm really freaking out here, and my boyfriend is a little confused too because he knows what he's doing, and hes going slow and gentle.....so what's the problem? If anyone can give ANY adive, that would be awesome because I don't have anyone to talk to:/
Xui answered Monday September 26 2011, 2:39 am: Lubrication helps, It's about 8 bucks at Walmart. Also, You might find a difference if his nails are clipped down. Try that and let me know how it goes [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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