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houston, tx


Posted Friday December 7 2007, 4:56 pm

HI its going to be my bf's birthday really soon and we wanted to go out in the country sort of and watch the stars but i dunno where to go and im scared if we go out somewhere we'll be on somebody's property.

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boyfriend..CHEATING?


Posted Friday December 7 2007, 4:10 pm

me and my boyfriend have been dating a month and like two weeks. he always tells me he likes me soo much and he gets jealous easily when im with my guy friends so i know he likes me. im his first girlfriend soo yea i know he cares. well we joke around with eachother alot like sometimes we are mean joking and sometimes we're playful so i cant really tell when hes kidding or not...but anyway, like a week ago he was like i made out with a girl she was hott. im like ohh thats cute and i thought he was kidding and all this stuff..and we didnt talk about it..but then today on the bus my friend blake (who sometimtes jokes around too) told me that tyler(my boyfriend) made out with this chick like a week ago. and i remembered tyler telling me he di...

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The Right Thing...


Posted Friday December 7 2007, 3:18 pm

16/f okay so my bf smokes alot. just going to get that out there right now. weed and cigs. and at times it seems that he would rather do that then be with me. like sometimes he wont come to school because he would rather go do that. and me and him dont hang out alot outside of school so its like if he is dropping school he is dropping me.... anyways there is 2 things i can do. i can tell him we need a break and that i still like him but he needs to sort out his priorities or i can stay with him and believe he will straighten up like he says he will.he says he is going to start coming back to school and be a better bf which he has lately.... i just need to know what the right thing to do is. i mean when he is with me he makes me so happy an...

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lost & confused


Posted Friday December 7 2007, 2:32 pm

ok, this is going to be kind of long... I am in a relationship with this perfect guy, he seems like the perfect guy for me!! :) and i have never been happier in any other relationship. so we just hit our 4th mnth, and this is my 3rd relationship in my entire life. and i have never kissed a guy before (as in with tongue and all), untill i dated this guy, and so he is experienced and has gone up to third base, i havent gone anywhere, only 1st base! nothing compared to him.. the problem is, i dont want to move to second or third base yet, because i dont like my boobs being touched or any type of oral sex or groping and etc. whenever we kiss he touchs my back and so that is the only place he touchs, im happy he respects the fact that i dont fee...

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confused.. Guy troubles?¿


Posted Friday December 7 2007, 8:05 am

ok so about three weeks ago i met this guy through a mutual friend,last friday we went out ( a group of 4 for us) my friend her boyfriend and this guy friend.. you kinda could say it was a double date sort of a thing... we went to a club so it was hard to keep a decent conversation cause of the music and all.. so we got speakin( watever we could hear of eachother) he told me he liked me and i felt that he genualy did seem very interesed in me. i didnt want to take things to the next level and kept holding back... as in i didnt wanna makeout with him the first time we went out and give a bad impression.. but somehow i regret it and feel that he might have thought that i wasnt that interesed or something
anyway ill get to the point me ...

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surprise birtday for bf


Posted Friday December 7 2007, 2:54 am

Hi :]

my boyfriends birthday is coming up on the 16th and i wanted to do something really special. this year we had a really bad homecoming, i was in a really bad mood etc, at one point i told him his tie was really ugly ( a lie) but he got upset bc he really liked it and he ended up returning it well the whole night sucked. so for his birthday i went out and bought the tie and im going to give it to him with a note saying meet me here at this time like a restaurant and have him dress up and wear the tie and ill get all dressed up and go out to eat. then i want to drive him somewhere and pull over but i dunno where to go. and have a playlist set up and roll all the windows down on my truck and have our own little homecoming. ...

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Posted Thursday December 6 2007, 11:03 pm

i have always been questioning whether the guy i like likes me back... but now i might think he actually likes me. for example, the other day another guy made me cry, so i just casually told the guy i like about the situation when he asked me how my day was going, well he ended up getting really mad and he went up to the guy and told him off... and he kept telling me he was sorry that the guy said those things to me and that if he ever said anything mean to me again to tell him... and he has randomely been texting me late at night asking me what's up, just out of the blue? lol. he also told me about his "girl problems" and he was tellng me about this one girl he liked, but he wouldn't tell me who, which is weird because he tells m...

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help me please


Posted Thursday December 6 2007, 10:50 pm

Me and my boyfriend have a good past together.


well, he moved and now he said it feels like we're not together.
it doesn't feel the same like it use to, since he's so busy now.


how do i make this work?
i can't lose him, i can't.


i love this guy so much..and it hurts to hear that, and i just hafe to try to fix this.
help me please..

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whats going on?


Posted Thursday December 6 2007, 10:00 pm

okay me and my boyfriend is having an complicated situation going on and he decided to "break" or cool off. he said" see if we're gonna miss each other but im missing you already " . So he said to set the date and i was like"no you" but he wanted to me to set a date how long we're gonna take in our relationship so i said 2 and a half week(but we have a winter break so its gonna be 4 week and a half) and he said"okay" and then next day he came up to me saying the cool off wont work and i was like"you planned it" and he was like"but its too long because of the winter break" and i said "why are you changing your mind? you planned it" and he was like "but can we talk jus...

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how do i win him back before its too late?!?!


Posted Thursday December 6 2007, 9:32 pm

ok so i really fell hard for this guy and he liked me too till this other girl came around.
we have some history so i thought he wouldnt go for her.
but he did.
now hes going out with her.
they started going out today.
how do i win him back with out making a fool of myself?
this girl is ten times prettier then me.
but ive known him way longer.
shes known him for maybe a week or two.
ive known him for almost a year.
we were great friends then we told eachother that we liked eachother.
i fell for him.
i told him i fell for him and that i love him and hes asked how i knew i loved him and its just something a girl knows.
but i dont know how to win him bac...

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backstabber?


Posted Thursday December 6 2007, 8:29 pm

so i really like this guy and he really likes me. and when i talk to guys or basically just like mention a guy he doesnt know, he will get jealous. and if i talk to someone he doesnt normally talk to, like on AIM, he starts talking to them too. that part makes me a little mad, but whatever. but lately, ive been looking on his facebook and myspace and there's this girl .... thats definately flirting with him. and in his AIM profile, she is in it. but he flirts with so many girls and i dont know if he realizes it, but it seems like they like him because of the way they flirt, and he flirts back. and this girl was moved from not even on his myspace top friends, to wayyyy up on his top friends. and this one comment she sent him on myspace was &...

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i thinkk i love him


Posted Thursday December 6 2007, 8:07 pm

I have major feelings for a close friend I've had for about a little less than a year. We are very close but theres one problem - we've never spent any real time together. We met bc his brother goes to my school and my friend USED to like him [shes now dating my ex-boyfriend]. What are ways that I can bring the subject of going out somewhere together up?

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is it possible to be in love with some1 and not be attracted


Posted Thursday December 6 2007, 7:53 pm

ok so i met this guy online and we got on really well so we decided to meet up. we had been alkin about a year and we met up 3 months ago. problem is, when we met i was just not attracted to him. we are still really good friends and we have spoken every day since we met up and i meet up with him every weekend.

i have really strong feelings for him and i think i might be in love with him...but again, im not attracted to him at all.
is that possible?

He said to me tonight that he thinks we should cool it for a while and not talk because he's afraid that he might like me more down the line, which would do neither of us any good because it isnt gonna go anywhere. i dont know if he was just saying that to se...

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confused. . .


Posted Thursday December 6 2007, 6:43 pm

Okay so last year I fell in love.. and ended up dating my first love for 1 year. We broke up mostly because we spend too much time together and he "wanted to spend time with other girls". This was in june... we didn't talk all summer and he ended up getting a girlfriend around september. Of course this bothered me to see him with another girl & I wasn't completely over him either...but I spent time with my friends and didn't think about him. I decided I needed a boyfriend to stop thinking about him so I started dating someone...and soon I get a message from my ex (my first love) saying he misses me and wants to be friends. I was totally for it, but it lasted for about 3 days. We havn't talked in about a week .. and i'm really ...

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Ideas For Xmas Prezzie For Boyf Pwease!


Posted Thursday December 6 2007, 6:40 pm

hey. Ive been with my boyfriend for just over 5 months and i have NO idea what to get him. i love him and want to get him something special.

Any ideas possible would be great thanks :]

and he's not into cars and stuff hehe.

Thanks :]
x x x

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more than a friend?


Posted Thursday December 6 2007, 4:17 pm

ok so i have this friend and he is really nice like you have no idea how sweet he is but anyways,
i think i love him and he knows i know like him but he doesnt want a girlfriend and i know he doesnt bc his best friend told me that he wouldnt go out with anybody unless he really liked the person but the thing is he wants to go to the movies w/ me and make out and finger me, i want to too but idk wat to think about how he feels about me
wat do you think?
wat should i do?
do you think it is stupid of me to go to the movies w/ him?

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Best Guy Friend


Posted Thursday December 6 2007, 5:06 am

Okay, so I like my best guy friend. Thing is, hes enagaged. He will call and ask if I want to go over to his house and play videogames. He referrs to the times when I go over to his house as "dates." He also says that he plays better when I am not around because when I sit next to him I make him nervous. He is always flirting with me. He will tease me, playfully hit me, and playfully kick me in the butt. He is also sensitive to my feelings, and is always trying to figure out what is wrong when I am upset so he can make it better. If he goes to the store, he will usually ask if I would like to go with him, or if I go to the store he will usually go with me because he said that he would feel bad if something happened to me. Also wh...

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im 14 and lost


Posted Thursday December 6 2007, 1:19 am

i am now 14 and am a girl. When i was 13 i became bulemic which led to me cutting i cut for almost 8 months. I stopped for a while, then started again. then my bf marc got me to stop btu then he randomly dumped me, then him and his friend molested me wen he was drunk but then i had seex with him by choice 2 days after he starts going out with another girl and doesnt care about wat he did to me. I was a virgin and havign sex for the first time was a big deal to me and he knew that and i chose him but now he betrayed me and used me, im cutting again and i dont kno how to stop. I jus feel so useless and hurt i dont know wat to do. . .

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should I give him a chance?


Posted Wednesday December 5 2007, 11:33 pm

14/f
I'm a freshman in highschool and I've been liking this one guy (whos a junior) for a while now. Well, he found out I liked him, and apparently he likes me to. He texted me and pretty much asked me to go out with him...and my reaction wasn't a normal reacton!!!
I started to feel sick like I was about to throw up and I suddenly just wanted to crawl into a hole. I don't know why i felt this way. But I had no idea what to tell him, because I've never had a guy I actually liked like me back, and I've NEVER been asked out. So I called him, and we had a pretty awkward conversation...i did most of the talking and TRIED to make small talk, but all he said most of the time was "okay...?" and "yeah...?" so it was...

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Merry christmas


Posted Wednesday December 5 2007, 10:45 pm

ok well this christmas ive been putting alot of thought in to what i should get my boyfriend of 4 going on 5 monthes.
ive came up with a gift basket type thing
with candies, 2-3shirts, and a cute little teddy bear.
do you think that sounds good
and what else could i add?

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