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backstabber?
so i really like this guy and he really likes me. and when i talk to guys or basically just like mention a guy he doesnt know, he will get jealous. and if i talk to someone he doesnt normally talk to, like on AIM, he starts talking to them too. that part makes me a little mad, but whatever. but lately, ive been looking on his facebook and myspace and there's this girl .... thats definately flirting with him. and in his AIM profile, she is in it. but he flirts with so many girls and i dont know if he realizes it, but it seems like they like him because of the way they flirt, and he flirts back. and this girl was moved from not even on his myspace top friends, to wayyyy up on his top friends. and this one comment she sent him on myspace was "i lovee you too" which means he said i love you first. and its making me really upset because i dont want to lose him, or for him to do things with her, like kiss her or something.
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This could be a case of comeback. He coul be thinking "Well, if she's talking to these guys, then i'll talk to some other girls who she doesn't know. Then she'll feel what it's like to be cheated on". He can be just taking a situation and twisting it around to make it look bad.
If this is the case, go up to him and tell him about the situation from your point of veiw. If it isn't, then surgest this 'twisting' business and explain to him that it's upsetting you seeing girls writing back "I lovee you too" and explain that you still love him, but you also need to have some other guy friends apart from him to talk, but he's in a special place in your heart where he will always remain.
I hope this helps you out,
triquetra
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Ok, so why would you consider getting into a relationship with this guy? Sounds like he is overly jealous and has no trust in you. Also sounds like what's not ok for you to do is perfectly fine for him to do, in his eyes.
Come, now. Do you REALLY want a relationship like that? You can do much better, and you deserve much better. You deserve to be treated with respect.
ygs-29/f
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Honestly you shouldnt worry about him. If he had any feeling for you i believe that he would've came forward with it and tell you. One thing you should always know is that you shouldnt let any guy stress you. Guys now a days like to play with girls minds, and by the way you described this situation is seems as if he's playing games with you. Like he gets all protective if you start talking to other guys but yet he can talk to girls. I mean that isnt really fair in my eyes. So dont worry about it so much if he's so interested in other girls then he isnt worth your time. Always remember make youself more valuable than the guy, and this would give you power in a relationship. And show him what he's missing by not being with you. also remember there plenty of other guys in the world dont get stuck on just one.
Hope this helped =]
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From what I understand, this guy isn't your boyfriend; he is just a guy that you like. I understand that it sometimes makes you angry when he gets jealous, but that's hypocritical considering you get jealous too. Maybe he doesn't realize he is flirting with these girls. Basically all you can do is talk to him and ask him to be honest. If he realyl likes you, he will try and tone it down when he sees that this upsets you.
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