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I have major feelings for a close friend I've had for about a little less than a year. We are very close but theres one problem - we've never spent any real time together. We met bc his brother goes to my school and my friend USED to like him [shes now dating my ex-boyfriend]. What are ways that I can bring the subject of going out somewhere together up?
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Just be casual and ask him if he is free sometime, like "Hey, I'm planning a little get-together, and so I would like you to come along, it will just be me and... (whoever else, a friend)!" And wait for him to answer, waiting for him to answer doesn't make you look desperate. And inviting him out as a group get-together won't make the fact that you want to hang out with him too obvious. Ask a friend and her boyfriend to come along, and so it will look like a double-date, therefore you will definitely get some time with the guy you're interested in because your girlfriend will want to spend time with her boyfriend. tell your girlfriend you like this guy. This will allow you to spend time together without making it obvious you want time alont together and then, you can see if he's good potential of being more than friends, or just friends is where you want to keep it. Sometimes it is better to be friends, than more than friends because after being 'more than friends', the frienddhsip the two of you once had, might no longer exist. Just some extra advice... Hope this really helps you, if you ever have any more questions or anything, just let me know!
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I would go for the slow approach. I ask him how he feels for you and if he's on the same 'emotion level' as you are, then ask him out. Ask him where he'd like to go and if you agree with it, then it's a date.
Good luck with the future.
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Well I know how you feel, it's not easy confessing your crush but you should always try. If he's a close friend then you try being honest and talking to him about your crush on him. Hopefully he'll give you an honest answer and won't lead you on or mess with your head. No matter what though if worst comes to worst and he doesn't feel the same as you do, then don't let that interfere with your friendship and you should continue being friends. Now to ask him out should come after you tell him how you feel. Most likely if you bring up the subject of you two going out he might think like what's going on here. But if anything just act cool, and confident, and just bring up the subject as if it were any other conversation between you two, and slip in the question oh we should hang out someday. Then plan the day.
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