ok so about three weeks ago i met this guy through a mutual friend,last friday we went out ( a group of 4 for us) my friend her boyfriend and this guy friend.. you kinda could say it was a double date sort of a thing... we went to a club so it was hard to keep a decent conversation cause of the music and all.. so we got speakin( watever we could hear of eachother) he told me he liked me and i felt that he genualy did seem very interesed in me. i didnt want to take things to the next level and kept holding back... as in i didnt wanna makeout with him the first time we went out and give a bad impression.. but somehow i regret it and feel that he might have thought that i wasnt that interesed or something
anyway ill get to the point me and my friend left the club and i recieved a msn from him saying that apart from being really preety that he thought i was a very nice girl and that he would like to get to know me a bit better. thats the only messgae i have recieved from him since last week(friday) and im a bit confused to why he hasnt called me back or anything yet? i mean if a guy says that, then he probably would right?
so i dont know if i should hold out and wait for him to call me or if i should go ahead and see if he is goin out tonight... although i really dont wanna look desperate... . but then i think well if he really was interesed then he would have called or texted me by now to meet :(
open to all opinions on the situation
thank you for takin the time to read it :d
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? triquetra answered Friday December 7 2007, 3:03 pm: If he's contacted you, it's best to write back to him because it will give him the deffinite impression that you want to start a realtionship. Not writing back could be telling him that you're not that interested in him and that he should move onto somebody else.
Call him back and tell him that you're sorry that you've not contacted him recently and that you'd really like to meet him again. After that, keep in contact with him regularly so to build his and your confidence so that you can continue the relationship.
VeNzUeLa answered Friday December 7 2007, 2:05 pm: I, personally feel he isn't so serious in you and so there isn't a valuable reason to waste your time on him. So move on, go out partying with your friend again and you'll probably find someone when you least expect it. There are lots of guys out there that I am sure will not let a chance like this go, and will definitely call you back.
If you have anymore queries, I am willing to help. ;)
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