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help me please
Me and my boyfriend have a good past together.
well, he moved and now he said it feels like we're not together.
it doesn't feel the same like it use to, since he's so busy now.
how do i make this work?
i can't lose him, i can't.
i love this guy so much..and it hurts to hear that, and i just hafe to try to fix this.
help me please..
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well i dont know a lot about your options. does he drive? do you drive? how far away are you? i know someoen who originally was from florida, moved to virginia to be with her boyfriend, and finally moved to ny so he can be with her. so they moved for each other. is that possible for you? is he close enough where your mom or his parents can drive him over for the weekend a couple times a month? does he drive? write me a question with more info so i can help you better please..if i helped you enough then great i hope it works out!
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As much as it hurts to hear, I would never try a long distance relationship. On the other hand, a good friend of mine recently moved to Georgia and her boyfriend is here in Texas. They still have a wonderful relationship, so yes there is hope. All you can really do is talk to him and let him know how you feel. See what he wants to do and ask him to try and stick it out. Good luck.
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You need to speak to him and tell him how much you love him and that it hurts you to hear that he feels as if the relationship isn't working. Surgest that you meeet up with him regularly, but if he's far away from you, try and see if there are weekends or holidays in which you can spend your time together.
Distance shouldn't affect your relationship, it only strengthens it and proves that you really love each other. This is only one of the many tests which life will throw at us all and you need to show that you can get through this, together.
I hope this helps.
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Darling, firstly... some relationships don't work out when you are so far apart, so hear him out first, see what he has to say, and let him tell you how he feels and everything he wants to tell you, let him get whatever he has on his chest out. And then if you feel the same, if not differnetly, let him know... and remember relationships sometimes fade because of lack of communication between the partners, so speak your mind! You can't go wrong, and tell him you don't want to lose him, it's ok to be vulnerable at times, so tell him you can't lose him because you love him so much. You have to allow yourself to understand what he wants and if you can give it to him. He probably feels the distance is too much, like he can't be with you and he is missing your physical touch and relationship in that category.
Or the relationship could work by the two of you visiting each other, during the holidays or, the weekends and other ideas the both of you can come up with, and it would help if you made the little meeting you have with him special, like a box of chocolates or something he might like.
Hope this helps you... If you ever have more questions or anything, I'm more than willing to help!
Take care!
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