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Guy troubles?¿


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 11:53 am

So about 3 weeks ago i met a guy through a friend and i guess we both liked eachother from the first time we saw eachother... so 2 weeks ago i went to a club and saw him there but nothing really happened between us all we did was speak he told me he liked me and wanted to get to know me.. alhtough i did want to go further i really liked the guy and decided to wait. Last friday however we all went out .. a group of us to a club (him included) and everyone could tell something was going to happen that night between us even i did.. . So anyway that night we made out basicaly the whole night and although he went out with his friends he was always keepin on eye on me and making sure i was ok. and reasuring me if it was ok for him to be with hi...

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Why do I hurt who I love the most?


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 11:07 am

In 3 days I will have been with my boyfriend for 7 months, so its semi-serious.

Yes I do love him, with all my heart,and no I couldnt imagine life without him.
I see him every evening for a few hours.

My problem is that I just cant stop shouting at him, or losing my temper, even when he hasnt done a thing wrong I find I will get in the car in a bad mood for no reason..all of these things I have no reason to do...

There is a few things which he needs to not ''change'' but flex a little with to suit my needs as well as his, so does everyone in a relationship.
Ive told him how I feel but hes stuck for what to do. He has changed SOOOOOOOOO much as I'm his first ''proper'' serious relati...

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My oyfriend says I am too needy or clingy


Posted Tuesday December 11 2007, 12:07 am

My BF of three years says I am too needy. I really do not understand how I am too needy! Any ideas how I could possibly get to be any less needy/clingy?

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my loveless marrige


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 11:37 pm

i never really loved my wife/mother of my two kids i dont know why i married her now i wanna know how long we are gonna stay married?male 27yrs

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parents & boyfriend


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 10:05 pm

Okay, I'm kind of confused in the middle. my boyfriend asked his parents to pick me up tomorrow so i can see him, since i don't get to see him that much. and something happened, he said his dad said "no" so my boyfriend started crying. then he texted his mom saying "I never thought i would say it but i hate my life now i never wanted to move I'm probably gonna loose my girlfriend soon cause of this you're the one that promised to take Mary to our house and back in the first place! and it may not seem like a big deal to you guys but it is to me!!! she's the only person that makes me smile if ya'll take that away from me I'll do something very drastic i promise.. you better not mention to this to dad." and he told me that...

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what do i do


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 9:47 pm

this boy chris and i liked eachother and i guess 2 or 3 weeks ago we told eachother. and then it kinda got weird bc he stopped talking to me after that. and then we began to talk again and then it just stopped. and its about 2 weeks later and i can't really tell if he still likes me or not. is there anyway i can find out without just asking him, and do you have any ideas of what i can talk about with him online( we dont go to the same schoool)

thanks:)

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my bf


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 9:09 pm

i just broke up with my bf today...but i feel so guilty! he looked so hurt when i told him! is it normal to feel this guilty?

Thanxx:)

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I don't know what to do.


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 8:39 pm

My best friend of 5 years is Tom. Tom has always been there for me, and he's a really great guy. I (being a girl) have developed some feelings for him. Tom liked me a year ago, but I sort of just ignored that; we were still close friends. This year things are different, and I feel like I want to be with him.

He likes this girl Amber who he met a couple months ago, but we are still close friends. I'm jealous,quite frankly. Tom asked Amber on a few dates, but she turned him down. They hooked up (just kissing) and presumabely she likes him? Yet they are not going out.

I want to tell Tom that I have feelings for him, but I don't want to tread on anyone's feet. Amber is not the nicest of girls, but either way, I'm ...

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Do I love a guy I just started talking to again?


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 8:31 pm

Today I started talking to my ex, and everything seemed perfect again. He asked me to go out with him and I said yes. Now I'm doubting my decision. He lives out of state, and I don't know if the whole long-distance relationship could work. I don't know if he's whats right for me right now...I'm not sure what I should do. Help!

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Does he really want me, or is he just playing with my heart?


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 6:04 pm

okay so i really need help.

i really like this guy.
weve been friends since the beginning of Freshmen year.
but over the past couple of months ive started to see him as more than a friend. well i talked to a couple of my close friends about what to do. They told me to tell him, all he could do was say no. that he didnt see me as nothing but a friend. sooo i told him this past friday night. i typed 4 paragraphs about how great he was, how he deserved better than someone he was talking to that screwed him over, big time, and telling him that i really liked him. well all i got in return was "your so fn sweet and cool" then today when i walk into 5th he grabs me and gives me this huge hug, then i go sit do...

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Should I do this?


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 4:53 pm

There is this guy I've been crushing on for about a year. We are friends, but everytime we are like, "Let's hang out." it kind of just never happens, because there is nothing to do around here. Well, people have been telling me to just tell him I like him, but I'm scared. So for Christmas, I was thinking of doing something like getting him a hersey kiss and putting it on a piece of paper saying, "I don't have the guts to give you a real one, so I guess this chocolate kiss will have to do. Merry Christmas." Is that too cheesy? What other things can I do that will make him smile?

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Shes going to get me!


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 4:38 pm

Well there is this guy I like. He has a g/f. He knows I like em' so he said he likes me a lil. So today I gave him a note saying that i like him but i don't want to get into trouble, and that I don't know what to do. I told him I had a note for him, & then he asked me if I talked to his girlfriend about it..? and I was like no,. Him: cuz someone said that they were in class and they got someone watching me. Me: WTF?. I didn't talk to her or anything. Bell rings, I see him reading the note and I walk off fast. Am I gonna get my ass kicked? I don't know what to do!. Ahhh.

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making out(:


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 3:48 pm

14/f -- i'm not prude, but i don't hook up with people alot. the last time i did was in october, and before that in may. i don't know if i'm a bad kisser, but one of the guys i hooked up w. told his friends i was but he changed the story. so i don't know -- but getting to the point, is there anything i can do with my tongue that people generally like to improve my kissing? or my hands, or basically anything that will make the experience for more pleasureable for both of us. i know that everyone likes different things, but just from your experiences or what you've heard, i guess.

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Advice?


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 3:35 pm

Hi,I'm 15, male and very shy. I like this girl in my class and I think she likes me back because i caught her staring at me serveral times and i some time stare back at her but I'm still not convinced that she likes me to ask her. what should I do?

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we both like the same guyyyy


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 12:45 pm

My best friend went out with this boy (ryan) for about 7 months and she broke up with him because they kept having arguements. She's been out with two guys since. And she is still going out with one of them. Who she claims she's in love with. Two weeks ago ryan and i started talking, just talking nothing special, then we talked more and we were getting to know eachother better. We met up and i decided i really like him...but then the other day my friend turned round to me and said she still liked him and was jealous...but she has this other boy...i don't want to go out with him because it would be mean...but at the same time i really do!!
advice anyone?

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i need advice


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 9:51 am

wat cani do to make our relationship have the love in it again i am 20 a female and have one 6 month old child.

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Is this healthy in a relationship?


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 4:10 am

I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 26. We've been together for 3 years.

He's always getting text messages from girls. Girls that I've never heard of, that don't live in our town, let alone our state. He watches porn when I go to bed (which I don't really care about, he is male.) He's just really secretive about things. Like when he's on his computer, he won't do anything when I'm around.. but as soon as I go to another room he's typing away. And I'll come back in and he'll close everything he's doing. I always ask him if he loves me and means it, and he always says yes. I just sometimes feel like he isn't being honest or faithful to me. I worry a lot. I feel like maybe this relationship has been a waste of time.

I don...

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bad eating habits


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 12:59 am

i've been dating this guy for a year. one thing that always gets to me is the way he eats, and i don't mean noisy chewing.
often he'll do things like skipping dinner only to snack on chips and stuff late at night, barely eat any fruits & veggies, buy a hamburger and fries at the school cafeteria whenever he eats there, etc. the other night, for example, he skipped dinner, then made chicken wings and leftover pork at 10:30.
i guess a lot of this stuff is normal teenage habits. i myself don't always eat well, and i know it's tempting to eat junk when you have access to it. but watching him upsets me because he'll get stomach pains and things like that, but won't change his ways. then i'll be like 'you know you shouldn't do ...

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How Do I say "Yes" Nonchalantly?


Posted Monday December 10 2007, 12:23 am

Okay, so I'm 15/f
I have a feeling that this guy I like is going to ask me out, mainly because everyone's been saying he likes me and he keeps on asking to be alone with him for a few minutes sometime this upcoming week. I know, I shouldn't get my hopes up because I can get disappointed majorly. But to be prepared:

What are some good ways to say "yes" to him if he asks me out nonchalantly. Not excited/naive sounding but at the same time not "I'm not interested but I'll go out with you out of pity" sounding. Help!



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Tips?


Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 9:48 pm

What are some tips that would help me to just walk up to a random guy and flirt with him?
I have a huge fear of being rejected, but I really want to feel at ease talking with random guys.
Would I ask for their number, give them mine, etc?
Thanks.

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