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making out(:
14/f -- i'm not prude, but i don't hook up with people alot. the last time i did was in october, and before that in may. i don't know if i'm a bad kisser, but one of the guys i hooked up w. told his friends i was but he changed the story. so i don't know -- but getting to the point, is there anything i can do with my tongue that people generally like to improve my kissing? or my hands, or basically anything that will make the experience for more pleasureable for both of us. i know that everyone likes different things, but just from your experiences or what you've heard, i guess.
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With your tongue you could try exploring the other person's mouth with your tongue, flicking up the end of their tongue, or circling their tongue. With your lips (and just the lips on this one) you could try to kiss them just on the bottom lip, or just on the top lip. You could also try changing the speed and pressure - just have fun with it. With your hands, normally you'd just put them on the person, almost like you were hugging them. You could also try moving your hands around their back/ hair as you get more into the kiss.
Also remember to go with the flow. I've never tried spelling out the alphabet, but it may feel better if you don't focus so much on the technique and just get into it. Don't be too afraid to try different things or things you haven't heard of before if it feels right in the moment =].
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put your hands on the back of his neck and toy with his hair a little bit, that way he can tell your interested.
also for practice... this sounds stupid but if you can unwrap a starburst wrapper with your tongue then you are a good kisser. (usually)
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Be sure to relax and don't be nervous. Basically go with the flow! I tend to place my hands on the back of their head. Although I have never tried, I have heard that writing the alphabet with your tongue is a good way to kiss. But don't concentrate too much on your letters or you'll be stiff. If you let him kind of lead, it may be a little easier.
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make sure to relax your mouth. don't be tense. try using burt bees lip balm. it is minting and will make both of your lips tingle. try putting your right hand on his cheek while kissing, and will be very lady like and make him feel special. take little 2 second breaks from kissing every now and then, that way he can look at your beautiful face and eyes, it will make him want you more. but most importantly like I already said make sure that your mouth is relaxed.
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