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Does he really want me, or is he just playing with my heart?
okay so i really need help.
i really like this guy.
weve been friends since the beginning of Freshmen year.
but over the past couple of months ive started to see him as more than a friend. well i talked to a couple of my close friends about what to do. They told me to tell him, all he could do was say no. that he didnt see me as nothing but a friend. sooo i told him this past friday night. i typed 4 paragraphs about how great he was, how he deserved better than someone he was talking to that screwed him over, big time, and telling him that i really liked him. well all i got in return was "your so fn sweet and cool" then today when i walk into 5th he grabs me and gives me this huge hug, then i go sit down to do my bell ringer and he comes by me and starts hitting a bunch of keys. (He sits infront of me, in keyboarding) after that he messes my hair up. then he leaves to go donate blood 15 mins after 5th started and he stairs at me the whole time hes walking to the door/out it.
soo yeahh does this mean he likes me as more than a friend??...wouldnt he have told me??....am i not good enough for him???...why hasnt he told me anything, whyd he leave me hangin and then today do all that?...should i ask him if he likes me as more than a friend?? or just wait and see??
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I think he likes you. Was he touchy feely with you before your paragraphs? A guy touching a girl is normally a sign of attraction. The hugs and the hair touching sound like more than friendly gestures. It's a little bit hard to tell of course. Look for signs like him always making a point in saying "goodbye" to you. If he shows at places where he knows you will be or always seeming to be leaving the room at the same moment as you. Things like this show an interest.
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He probably likes you, but either doesn't want to rush into anything or is confused slightly about his feelings. The best thing you can probably do is to wait it out, yes, but also flirt with him when he starts to flirt with you (the hitting keys, the staring). Think of this sort of flirting as a way to test out the relationship without getting serious or possibly getting hurt. In response the the things he does you can tease him, hit his keys in keyboarding, whatever feels natural. If all is well (he keeps acting like he may like you/ flirting), you can casually ask him out... say you're free and ask if he would like to get a hot chocolate/coffee with you, that kind of thing. It sounds like he isn't ready to necessarily be committed or confess his feelings totally just yet, so take things slow. Remember also, that "your so fn sweet and cool" could be his way of letting you know what he thinks of you; he just may feel awkward saying "I also really like you" or something of the sort. Be patient, and see how he continues to act around you. So far it looks pretty good =]
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My advice to you is not to rush it. Maybe this is his way of letting you know he likes you, by flirting. Wait a little while and see what happens. If you are still impatient, then ask him a little later if he wants to try a more-than-friends relationship. Beware, though, that if you guys try it and it doesn't work out, your friendship may not be the same.
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it sounds like he might just be messing with you. so pull away, just act nonchalaunt, and like you don't care. it will drive him nuts, and show him what he is missing.
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