My best friend went out with this boy (ryan) for about 7 months and she broke up with him because they kept having arguements. She's been out with two guys since. And she is still going out with one of them. Who she claims she's in love with. Two weeks ago ryan and i started talking, just talking nothing special, then we talked more and we were getting to know eachother better. We met up and i decided i really like him...but then the other day my friend turned round to me and said she still liked him and was jealous...but she has this other boy...i don't want to go out with him because it would be mean...but at the same time i really do!!
advice anyone?
Brandi_S answered Monday December 10 2007, 10:35 pm: It's like this- things obviously didn't work out between them. She is with another guy. She can't have both- she needs to stick with the one she has chosen. Especially since she is so in love with him.
You deserve your happiness in this life, and if this guy will make you happy, then go for it. She may get mad and jealous, but she WILL get over it.
If she doesn't, then she really isn't that great of a best friend to begin with.
CaliDaniels answered Monday December 10 2007, 7:06 pm: Your friend (no offense) sounds kind of selfish. She should learn the old saying "You can't have your cake and eat it too." I know you want to spare your friends feelings, but you are both young and should be trying new things. I am sure if she is a good friend she will understand, especially since she has this new boyfriend.
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