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my bf


Question Posted Monday December 10 2007, 9:09 pm

i just broke up with my bf today...but i feel so guilty! he looked so hurt when i told him! is it normal to feel this guilty?

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sally91 answered Tuesday December 11 2007, 8:16 pm:
hay yes its normal bc of course you dont want to see him hurt bc of you, its normal to feel a bit of guilt but as long as your happy with the choice you made and you dont regret it then its perfectly normal... xxsal

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thelaura answered Tuesday December 11 2007, 9:43 am:
Of course it's normal. You hurt his feelings. Just because you don't want him as a boyfriend doesn't mean you don't still care about him.
The guilty feeling will go away though. and he will get over the fact you ended the relationship. So try not to worry about it.

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Steve83 answered Tuesday December 11 2007, 2:02 am:
Of course it's normal. I have many ex gf's who are still friends with me. Just because you don't want to go out with him anymore, doesn't mean his feelings no longer matter to you. I have made the mistake of staying in relationships that I shouldn't have because I was afraid of the guilt, and in the end, it only made things worse. Just keep telling yourself that you did the right thing, and let him get over the initial hurt.

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Jeanne answered Tuesday December 11 2007, 12:42 am:
Yes, of course it's normal. Just because you don't want to go out with him anymore doesn't mean you don't care about his feelings. And it always feels bad when you know you've hurt someone. But don't let your guilty feelings make you second-guess your decision. If you really feel you did the right thing in breaking up with him, then stick with your decision. He'll get over it eventually, and you'll both move on to other relationships.

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