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What are some tips that would help me to just walk up to a random guy and flirt with him?
I have a huge fear of being rejected, but I really want to feel at ease talking with random guys.
Would I ask for their number, give them mine, etc?
Thanks.
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Flirting and asking someone out are two different things. I will try to answer both for you. Don't look at things as attempting to flirt. It will just be easiest if you first worry about smiling and saying "hi" or "hello" to strange guys. Smiling is important. It puts people at ease. If you are comfortable with that then you are on your way. You should try to find a reason to be talking to these guys. You could pretend you need directions, you could like a guys shirt, you may notice he has an accent or anything. It's an excuse to be talking to them. If you need to use the same excuse everytime it's okay. It's the only time they will be aware of you doing it anyhow. If you can get into a conversation with them, make sure to ask them questions. What I mean is, asking questions shows interest. It also helps conversation flow a bit more. If you are comfortable with this, if they say something funny you would want to brush your hand against their arm. I don't mean some big touch. A "you're so funny" touch is all I mean. Guys really really notice when a girl touches them. Girls don't normally touch someone unless they are flirting or are very comfortable. You asked about asking for their number. Most girls will leave it to the guy to ask for a number. You can do it either way. Personally, if you are comfortable with it I'd say to ask for theirs. Someone has to take the chance. Why ask "what if"? I hope I was a little bit of help for you.
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