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How Do I say "Yes" Nonchalantly?
Okay, so I'm 15/f
I have a feeling that this guy I like is going to ask me out, mainly because everyone's been saying he likes me and he keeps on asking to be alone with him for a few minutes sometime this upcoming week. I know, I shouldn't get my hopes up because I can get disappointed majorly. But to be prepared:
What are some good ways to say "yes" to him if he asks me out nonchalantly. Not excited/naive sounding but at the same time not "I'm not interested but I'll go out with you out of pity" sounding. Help!
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Why be nonchalant?
I promise you, that whole 'playing hard to get' line is total bullshit. If you are happy and excited to go out with him, let him see it in your face. Smile brightly and say "Yes. When?"
Playing it 'cool' doesn't make guys want you more (contrary to what foolish, game-playing, females might tell you) it actually makes them nervous, insecure and less likely to approach you and be honest and comfortable with you. It makes them doubt themselves and shy away from you.
Gentle encouragement is what you give a crush, not the cold shoulder.
So, as long as you don’t leap into his lap, you’ll do fine. Don’t mislead him about your affections. If he asks you out, say ‘yes’ with the happiness you genuinely feel.
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if he does ask you, you don't want to act nonchalantly. you should smile and say yes and then kiss him. it is the perfect "yes".
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Give him a hug! You don't want to just stand there and be like "Yes," because that will create an awkward feeling afterwards. If you hug him and say yes, it will ease the mood. This is ultimately what you want to do, becuase he will probably be nervous.
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