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Guy troubles?¿
So about 3 weeks ago i met a guy through a friend and i guess we both liked eachother from the first time we saw eachother... so 2 weeks ago i went to a club and saw him there but nothing really happened between us all we did was speak he told me he liked me and wanted to get to know me.. alhtough i did want to go further i really liked the guy and decided to wait. Last friday however we all went out .. a group of us to a club (him included) and everyone could tell something was going to happen that night between us even i did.. . So anyway that night we made out basicaly the whole night and although he went out with his friends he was always keepin on eye on me and making sure i was ok. and reasuring me if it was ok for him to be with his friends. so at the end of the night we held hands and seemed like things progressed he took me home although it was out if his way and then we kissed more in his car. So its Tuesady today and i havent heard anything from him like he hasnt sent me any text messages or anything... so i really dont know where we stand... do u think he was playing with me? or that he is taking it easy.. or waiting for me to call?? should i be the one to iniciate things or will that look desperate? i only hope it wasnt a one night thing cause i like the guy!!
many thanks for taking the time to read :D
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I think more than likely he was waiting to call. I think he probably didn't want to seem too eager. When you wrote this, you were already a little bit worried and excited he hasn't called yet. I think he hasn't called so you will be excited when he finally does.
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i think he played you just to use you to get a girl or he did not want to hurt your feelings.
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Sexual attraction and love are two separate things. Guys know this. Girls do not understand this and some women will waste a lifetime trying to figure it out. Sexual attention is not caring or love. There is nothing wrong with having a good time...but the price is usually much higher for the woman. He may or may not call...it does not matter. You need to be okay with it either way and not let him control your feelings and life with a phone call that will not mean as much to him. Guys are not looking to commit, they are looking for hook ups. You are going to disregard much of this advice and I understand the struggle you are in. You are worthy of a relationship, of love, of commitment, of romance and all that great stuff, but don't base your worth on one night or the phone call that may or may not follow it. Caution from this point on will guard your heart.
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ok well guys can get that way. his friends might have ragged on him for getting so close to you so fast..they probably called him whipped. give another day or two, and if he still hasn't called, call him. but keep it casual. ask him if he wants to hang out. if he says no, then at least you know. if he says yes set something up like hanging out at someone's house, or lunch, that way you can talk, unlike in a club. then you guys can reconnect
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