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Being Bisexual
Hey...im a 14 year old bisexual and i want to have intercourse with the same sex...and i also want to tell my parents but i dont know how they will act... :( im kinda worried..
Signed..14 year old bi guy
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queer make friends and tell ur parents so they will kill ya and kick ya out of the house
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ehh, your 14 are you sure? or just curious...
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well it depends, are you for sure you want to be bisexual? if so sit them down at dinner or something where no one else is around and tell them. be like... Mom Dad I know you have been the greatest parents so i know you'll understand when i tell you this. I think im bi sexual and i want o be with both chicks and guys, and hope they dont freak out and if they do they'll just be in denial because you're their son and they want you to carry on the family name. but thats the best i can give you hope it helped hun
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i dont blame you for being worried. Well, i think you should just march right up to them and tell them. Dont wait to think. My boyfriend did that when he told his parents me and him were having sex, and it didn't go so bad. Don't tell them you want to have intercourse with another male ... just tell them your attracted to both males and females, and hopefully they will understand.
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Well at 14 emotions can go up and down just wait till your older and you no for certan that your bisexual because at 14 its a very young age and some times people get confused about there sexuality roxie xxxplz rate
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when they are in a good mood sit them down and tell them
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ur only 14 , nd u made the discion tht u wanted to be bi, IM me so we can tlk bout this.
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what the hell is wrong with you? you are bisexual? thats some messed up shit. i think you are sick and need to go to a doctor and a psychologist.
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OK it depends what kind of beliefs your parents have. if they are really christian, conservative/republican, they might have a hard time with it at first. When you tell them they may go in denial and insist that your confused and your too young. They can react several ways..they may be verry angry..or they may be verry accepting. I dont think you should wait because keeping things in when you want to tell someone isnt a great idea...although in this situation waiting would be ok but i can see your ready to tell.
Wait for the right time when nobody else is around. Sit them down and have a serious talk with them. Things might be bumpy for awhile but i think after they adjust they'll be ok with it
-melissa-
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I think u should just come out and tell your parents your decision. I am almost certain they will be accepting to it!!
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Really hope i helped
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It depends.
Are you an only child?
If not, do you have male siblings?
Are your parents more politically conservative ot liberal?
Take these into consideration before you decide to come out.
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well i am not really sure what your question is. If your questionn is how do you have intercourse with the same if your a male all you have to do is insert your penis in the other amles anus. But if your question is how do you tell your parents i say that you just come out and say that you have a very personal subject an dyou should just tell them if they really love you thenm they will accept your decission and still love you and support you the same way thet did before you broke the news to them.
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if your parents really love you they wont get mad or anything if you tell them!! if my kid told me he was bisexual i wouldnt care theres nothing wrong with it.. and find someone that is busexual and if you really like him go for it.. xOx jiLl
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I dont think you should tell your parents right away. Because your only 14 and even though you feel that your bi, it might not stay that way, so just wait a couple of years till your totally sure.
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it all depends on how they were brought up if your grandmother and grandfather were not opend minded about a thing then i garentee your parents will be a little bugged out by the whole thing and if they are then just give them time sooner or later they are going to have to accecpt it
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ok...I dont think telling your parents would be the best idea in this situation. And if you wanna have sex with the same sex that is your descision...But make sure you are ready for this. If you were to tell your parents Im sure they would freak out. Tell them in a few years if you are still bi, cuz your 14 and they will most likely say your too young and dont know what your talking about so wait a few years to tell them. Hope I helped, let m know how it goes.
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be care ful ..my cuzin was gay and he died of aids
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My opinion.. dont tell them just yet. To parents, age is everything. Wait until ..16 or something because they might say or think you are too young to know what you want just yet.
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well if you wana have intercourse with the same sex then i think you need to find the person or the same sex and do it then..well these are your parents your telling if you think they'll diown you or something i wouldnt tell them if you think they'll jus be shocked or something then i would tell em..but your only fourteen you might only wanna experience things before you choose what you are.. i mean its not really rare to hear this from guys but still thats what i'd do...hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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Hi,
I think you're rushing into stuff a bit...you're only 14 and you're already talking about having sex and you don't seem to be in any kind of steady relationship (feel free to yell ay me if I'm wrong :P). I wouldn't tell your parents right now - I get the feeling that, at 14, they'd tell you that 'it's just a phase' or something along those lines. (I'm not saying it is, I just think that's what parents tend to say). Wait a couple of years, and if you still feel like this, then tell them, because they do need to know eventually...
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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are you sure your really BI your young and people go through these kind of things..make sure for sure you know your BI
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Well, you're fine and normal. Some things to consider, though:
Male-to-male anal intercourse has the potential to cause tearing, and thus the possibility of transferring or receiving an STD is pretty high. To reduce it, you'll want to use a water based lubricant (like KY Jelly or Astroglide) and ALWAYS wear a condom.
As far as your parents go, there are several reactions they could have. Everyone's an individual, and you know better than anyone how they are likely to react. If you feel it is important to tell them, then you'll want to carefully think about how to go about doing so.
Something you might want to consider is getting involved in a youth group for bisexual, gay, and lesbian teenagers before coming out. They can provide specialist help, be a lot of fun, and be a really strong support system while you are coming out. You can contact your local P-FLAG for information about coming out groups, boys' groups, etc in your area.
The bottom line? As long as you are thinking about the best ways to stay mentally and physically healthy, you'll be okay. If you know who you are and are willing to share that with other people it might mean you have a tough road to walk - but it also means you have found your path.
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first. your 14.
second. your going to get AIDS and die. have fun with your butt buddy!
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Your forteen you can't figure out what your sexuality is at this age is... you will soon kno right now you just have different feelings.. happens to almost everybody.. keep it on the down low until you know for sure what you want..... your parents would just tell you that you are only 14.. who knows they could even get mad.. dont tell them you want to have intercourse with the same sex tho.. hope i helped hun
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oh really, well i'm gay and i haven't done anything... hehe maybe we could hook up lol jk well talk to them because i talked to my parents and they were really understanding, even though the sent me to a shrink but that's another story =)
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