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Question Posted Saturday January 1 2005, 5:06 pm

My friend and I experimented with each other. Were both 13 and are both girls also. We kissed, french kissed, nibbled and felt on each other, but nothing "below the belt." I would just like to know does that mean were lovers if we don't have boyfriends? We never had sex before and we experimented, but not "below the belt." Does that mean were not virgins anymore? Help!!

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TeenWillHelpTeens answered Friday January 21 2005, 3:30 pm:
Ok, if you are 13 and doing that, you need to get a life. but you are still a virgin, don't worry. But you need to wait a couple years, hun....

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XxCarliexX94 answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 6:00 pm:
ok if you are planing on going to have sex with a guy soon then you guys have to take ok the pants i am a 13/f to i have frenched kissed and nibbed with my friends to we even done it with three people at a time but we say we are donig home work in like one oof there rooms and lock the door so no one sees us and we strip for are friend like we bring our robes that we would sleep in and wear them with nothing on under them and when we had three people there so one could play music while we have sex but then she would join in cuz she needs to learn and you touch each other and stuff like that cuz a guy is gooinf to want to touch your boobs if you have ever had sex like me it is so fun when you have sex and it doesn't hirt you and use a comdom sry so long

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fluffy answered Sunday January 9 2005, 5:53 pm:
im preaty sure it does but im not totaly sure

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laogurl2004 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 9:33 am:
*laugh out loud* no it doesnt mean that..you are still a virgin honey..

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xoih3artyouxo answered Saturday January 8 2005, 10:13 am:
Dont worry your still a virgin You might be lesbian
~morgan

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Inga_says answered Thursday January 6 2005, 7:28 pm:
WOW! You are kind of stupid in the first place because you do not know what happens when a woman or man become non-virgins. If you did not know that, you don't need to be doing what you did. A woman becomes a non-virgin when sexual penetration happens in her vagina. You are not lesbian, you are bisexual. You are both lovers.
Hope that this helped. You owe me something for this awesome advice and that is a rating.

-Inga

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XxXHyperGirlXxX answered Thursday January 6 2005, 5:23 pm:
Dont worry your still a virgin

You might be lesbian!!

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mysticpixie05 answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 9:34 pm:
No. Your still virgins, so dont worry. It doesnt mean your lovers. You were just two girls who were curious and experimented. Dont stress it.

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Shaye1223 answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 8:49 am:
No the only way that you could not be a virgin anymore is if a penis is inserted in your vagina
Hope I Could Help!

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metalkat86 answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 5:31 am:
first, calm down. you are both still virgins, don't worry. you are not "lovers" unless you do this often. and also, you're 13, calm your sex drive down and wait until you're older to find out about that type of stuff.
Kat

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Chellz8 answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 1:56 am:
id say... ur a lesbian or bi or something weirdl ike that... im sorry to hear that tho

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sturkiee answered Monday January 3 2005, 12:02 am:
it means your both extreamly hott, and i want soem of that shit<3

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mrs_radcliffe answered Sunday January 2 2005, 5:10 pm:
No your still virgins, No if your not going out and your not in a relationship with her then ur not lovers if your just having a bit of fun, They i guess your just friends roxie xxx

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 3:41 pm:
Umm.. thats wierd.. if you dont want to be lesbians i would stop that was a lesbianish thing.. but yeah your still virigins-trix

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Down2marz answered Sunday January 2 2005, 12:52 am:
Okay, you are DEFINATLY still a birgin. And don't freak out hun, you just experimented. It was harmless experimenting. Don't worry. And you aren't lovers unless you are bi or a lesbian. But you can be completely strait and still experiment with the same sex.

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Gpsexiemexie11 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 12:14 am:
hey that doesnt mean anything that means yall just expirmemnted with each other to see what it feels like so yah ur still a virgin

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CoUnTrYgUrL77 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 11:56 pm:
Yes! you are still a virgin. And You aren't lovers unless you feel the same way about eachother...like boyfriend and girlfriend...and (from wut other people are saying) you aren't a lesbian or bi....you were just experimenting...I have dont this too...if you have anymore question just ask, IM me on hallwayfiesta44....hope i helped!!!

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hyperNerd05 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 11:51 pm:
dont worry your still a virgin a virgin is some one who has hasnt had intercors with some one of the other sex well thats one way to define it but some people think its more then that but thats what im going to go by well any ways your young and were just experimenting nothing more you girls are not lovers unless you both think of each other in that way and your ready to commite to somthing like that well i hope i have helped a little
-*Tori

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inlovewifnoone answered Saturday January 1 2005, 11:50 pm:
No its doesnt...Im me and I will explain a lil somethin to ya

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truadvice answered Saturday January 1 2005, 11:05 pm:
its ok your still virgins and you only experimented ... some people do it and its ok ... this doesnt make you lovers either .

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BabyBlue848 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 9:25 pm:
yall are ok I mean I did the same thing yall arent lovers it is perfectly normal for young girls below the ages of 15 to experiment on each other and no you are still virgen look at teen vogue they some times have stuff about what you did and tells you about it and all

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snowwalker69 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 8:35 pm:
Hey there. No, that doesn't mean your lovers. You were both just curious. Now if you continue doing it, then your lovers. And your both virgins still. The only way you can lose your virginity is actual sex.

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kiss_me_hunny answered Saturday January 1 2005, 8:24 pm:
virgin-yes. straight-NO! your nasty. you little horny freak. go feel up on your friend, dear! i bet she wants you! haha LeSbOs!

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charmed-cherry21 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 7:46 pm:
You can only lose your virginity from a penis. By having sex with a guy. It just means that you are BI. ((meaning you like girls and guys)).

XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21

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x0xTinax0x answered Saturday January 1 2005, 7:21 pm:
Oh my gosh. Hunnie! Of course you girls are still virgins. A virgin is a person who has never experienced sexual intercourse before. You're a lesbian.

Hope I helped.

<33
Tina

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Shortie8959 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 7:12 pm:
No, you're still virgins. You only lose your virginity when you have sex with another guy. Don't worry about it. It might mean you're lovers, but only you can decide that. How do you feel about her? You might of just been experimenting, nothing more. Good luck!
Happy New Year!
♥ Erin

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blondebombshell33 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 6:21 pm:
Your still a virgin! If you weren't a virgin... you would have had sexual intercourse (with a guy) Thats up to you if your lovers... if you two both are in love then thats what I think a lover is!
xOxO, aLeX

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paradiei3abii3x answered Saturday January 1 2005, 5:47 pm:
yes yuu are still a virqin ! don`t worry about it .. yuu were curious and yuu just tryed somethinq different . if yuu felt anythinq `special` then yuu are most likely a lesbian but that is totally ok ! don`t worry . hope i helped !
xOox

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icey0990 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 5:36 pm:
It doesnt necassarily mean your lovers...but you have a couple things to think about. did you feel a connection or anything with her? If so you might be bisexual. It could just be that you experiemnted and you'll never do it again...but let me tell you that not every girl "experiments" with another girl. You definatrly didnt lose your virginity. Losing your virginity is when you have vaginal intercourse with a guy. Even if a girl fingers you, your still a virgin.
-melissa

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5lexy answered Saturday January 1 2005, 5:32 pm:
It means that you girls are more then just friends.if you guys don't have boyfriends. but if you have never done it below the belt then you haven't lost your verginity. I am the same way with my friend if you want to talk to me more e-mail me at cockey40@hotmail.com and we can talk.

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NEVERLETG00 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 5:28 pm:
no, only if u have sex you are not virgins, but its okay to expierment with eachother and its good that you guys didnt do more than pretty much just kiss, just leave it at that. HAPPY NEW YEAR! =) x0 Renee

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CaitLynnG answered Saturday January 1 2005, 5:21 pm:
Nope. You're not a virgin anymore once you have sex. Experimenting is one thing, but actually doing it because you like girls is another thing. It's acutally perfectly normal. But, make sure you keep checking out the boys. =D Hope I've helped..Happy new year!

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JyNxiE answered Saturday January 1 2005, 5:19 pm:
Sounds like you're still a virgin, dont worry. Also, it's perfectly normal to want to experiment at your age. It doesnt necesserilly mean you're lovers...just two friends testing out something new. Now if you two continue to experiment with each other and develop feelings that are more than friendship, then yes, you might be lovers. Hope I helped.

JyNxiE

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Karen answered Saturday January 1 2005, 5:18 pm:
You're still a virgin if you did nothing "below the belt." Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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OrangeLuverr answered Saturday January 1 2005, 5:17 pm:
Ya, ur still a virgin if nothing happened "below the belt".

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MaxwellsSilverHammer answered Saturday January 1 2005, 5:14 pm:
If nothing below the belt happened, you're still a virgin.

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