Ok there is a guy a like aand he thinks I'm cute and he and his friend asked if my friend and I wanted to go swimming and we said yes. But should I change my mind? I'm scared because what I fall or trip or something.
silent_x_cry answered Sunday August 22 2004, 11:28 pm: Well, it's a double-date situation, which is always good. This means that you won't feel pressure to do anything you don't feel comfortable doing.
Keep in mind that these boys (and your friend) are probably all just as nervous as you are!
All you need to do is calm down. Remember that this guy likes you because you're you (and he's probably got awesome taste). Be yourself, and don't sweat the small stuff. If you worry too much about it, you're not going to have fun!
If you honestly don't feel comfortable going swimming with this guy, tell him you've changed your mind. If he truly likes you, he'll understand.
Airie answered Sunday August 22 2004, 8:34 pm: Dont worry! If u have confidence, nuthin should go wrong. If anything embarrassing shud happen, then laugh about it. It'll show him that u have a good sense of humor! Just be yurself, be happy, and be confident. A little embarrassment shudnt stop u frum having a good time!(AnD getting yur crush!) Oh yea, wear a really cute bathing suite! [ Airie's advice column | Ask Airie A Question ]
mintfroggy answered Sunday August 22 2004, 8:08 pm: GO WITH HIM!! Don't worry about falling or something- because if you don' think about it- it prbly won't happen. Just take everything one step at a time- and you'll be fine. Have fun! [ mintfroggy's advice column | Ask mintfroggy A Question ]
KnOwnFoRevEr answered Sunday August 22 2004, 7:58 pm: dont worry about it... dont be scared!! the only way ud trip or fall is if u thought about it... this may become the best time of ur life... and who knoes?? u and that guy may end up falling in love... keep ur plan with him... becuz if u change ur mind... then that would be a bad impression on u becuz u stood him up [ KnOwnFoRevEr's advice column | Ask KnOwnFoRevEr A Question ]
Allyoop214 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 6:31 pm: Yes, you should definatley go! This is a chance to get to know him better. About tripping or falling, your probably just scared because you like the guy. You most likely won't trip but if you do, it's not the end of the world. Make a joke out of it, just laugh it off. Don't get too nervous, and everything should be ok! [ Allyoop214's advice column | Ask Allyoop214 A Question ]
BeastFromTheWeast answered Sunday August 22 2004, 5:15 pm: If you fall or trip he will probably just laugh at you and decide he doesnt think you are cute anymore. So i suggest not going. Infact, you should just avoid any situations were you could fall or trip..or have any sort of embaressing mishap altogether. [ BeastFromTheWeast's advice column | Ask BeastFromTheWeast A Question ]
ljk88 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 4:35 pm: definatly go! don't worry! if anything happens just make fun of it! sometimes you need the extra push! i know i do! [ ljk88's advice column | Ask ljk88 A Question ]
S_C answered Sunday August 22 2004, 4:22 pm: OMGOSH, not to be rude, but u like a guy, he likes you, they practically asked you guys for a double date, and you want to back out??
If you fall or trip, laff it off, plus it's a good way for the guy to HELP YOU UP!!!
OMgoodness, how old are you?? lol this is the perfect chance, unless you suck at swimming, then go get a tan, and maybe get in the pool for a bit, but DON'T BACK OUT!!! [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
Jennifer790 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 3:17 pm: Dont change your mind. Dont be scared about falling or tripping. No one is perfect so if u do fall he will understand. Maybe he is as nervous as you are... think positivily and just have fun [ Jennifer790's advice column | Ask Jennifer790 A Question ]
mysticpixie05 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 2:53 pm: no, lol... dont change your mind. Go and have fun. and if you fall just get up and go do your thing. if it happens it'll be something you can laugh at if yins ever hook up. Have a great time. [ mysticpixie05's advice column | Ask mysticpixie05 A Question ]
Rahl07 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 2:16 pm: You should Not change your mind! This will show that your self-confident, and not afraid! Im sure you will have a great time, and yes i'm sure you will be nervous but it will be fun overall. =] Trust me, you'll have a blast! =]
o6o_tinkerbell_o9o answered Sunday August 22 2004, 2:09 pm: Hey.. you shouldnt change your mind.. just go and have fun! if you trip or fall just laugh at yourself and dont get all embarrassed*... just have fun and don't worry about that!
Mackenzie answered Sunday August 22 2004, 1:53 pm: Aww don't woRRie about that! Just go with the flow and have fun! If you'Re THAT woRRied, just be awaRe of youR suRRoundings; things will be fine, I pRomise!! Hope I helped!! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
Chelsea J A Y D E answered Sunday August 22 2004, 1:33 pm: Dear CameronLover1,
I say go for it and if you do trip or fall laugh at ur self make a joke about it...say likw hwo put that rock there...or its that strong wind im telling you... if you do trip dont be all embarassed about it if u seem like you r then he'll probably think that ur somwhat uncoordinated and dont know how to walk.
orphans answered Sunday August 22 2004, 1:28 pm: go 4 it! stop thinking of all the bad things that can happen and start thinking about the good. besides if u don't go he might meet someone else he thinks is cute. hope i helped!
xogiggles37xo answered Sunday August 22 2004, 1:27 pm: i dont think you should change your mind... just be careful and try not to trip... if you think about it the whole time you prolly wont... lol. have fun tho. dont be so worried. [ xogiggles37xo's advice column | Ask xogiggles37xo A Question ]
UnluckyWishes answered Sunday August 22 2004, 1:22 pm: No, i think you should go and have fun, dont worry about it.Just concentrate on having fun.If you trip or fall just get back up and laugh it off.Everyone had a clumsy moment.Just be yourself and you'll have a,lot of fun.hope you have a great time. [ UnluckyWishes's advice column | Ask UnluckyWishes A Question ]
MeAndTheM00nX answered Sunday August 22 2004, 1:22 pm: If you like him, go for it! There is always that chance of something going wrong, but if you don't go for it you'll never know what could have happened. Don't spend time worrying about how you look or what you're saying, just be yourself and you guys may click! Good luck and have fun!!
*~Val~* [ MeAndTheM00nX's advice column | Ask MeAndTheM00nX A Question ]
EmbracedxRain answered Sunday August 22 2004, 1:19 pm: Just go. This is your first chance to get to spend time with th guy you like and see if he possibly has feelings for you, too. Good opportunity an dyou shouldn't pass it up. Don't worry about getting embarassed. If by chance something happens just play it off, or laugh it off. Thats what me and my friends do, and it just makes it humorous rather then embarassing. Hope it helps *amber* [ EmbracedxRain's advice column | Ask EmbracedxRain A Question ]
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