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whenever i talk with my friends and stuff and they gossip about "ooh so and so got to this base"... im always kind of the one who is wondering... "what does that mean"... like im not SLOW in that department i just wanna know what each base means (no im not talking about baseball)... im not super young, ive heard just different explanations of the bases and i wanna know THE ULTIMATE BASE LINGO. if you catch my draft ;O)... thanks for whoever gives advice!
-signed, catchmeup (link)
1st-french kissing
2-fingering and handjob or this can also be feeling (as in grabbing a girls breast)
3-oral sex
4-sex (also known as a homerun)

don't go too far until you are readi! make sure your old enough to be doing these things! i don't want it to be something you regret if you do any of this! =)



ok well my boyfriend wants to have like alot of sex you know and I'm not ready for that yet but once he pushed me when I said no and he yelled at me and just left I don't know why but I'm scared to say no to him and I'm doing sumthing with him tonight I need serious help (link)
sweetie..the best thing to do is dump his butt! i know it may seem hard..but no guy is worth your time if all he's gonna do is presure you to do stuff your not readi to do! please don't give in! i don't want it to be something you regret! =) rate me please!



Hello, i am an 18 yr old grl dating a 28 yr old guy. See i have this thing with me not going to have sex till marriage which is not a bad thing... right? well my b/f knows this and knows my limits.. but see everytime we get alone and stuff he always tries to stick his dick in me. He almost did about hmmmm should i say 5 TIMES!!!!!!
Its not easy to remain abstinent but i tell you what its not FUN EITHER!! Its like your head is telling you go for it and grab the fuckin condoms but yet your heart is like wait a fuckin min. do you really know this guy or is he just using you for sex?? see the 17th is our 5th month anniversay
but yet i knew him for a few months before we started dating. so my question is to you all is what am i supposed to do. He promised me he would never do it again but yet he said that last time. I told him hes lucky b/c usually its like a baseball game 3 strikes your out!! but yet i've given him 5 chances so far and this is the last chance. So what should i do?? let him try and screw me or what?? See I love him to death but as you can tell i am not ready yet! I need help and need it bad! Plz someone help me.. i really need it!!
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follow your heart! 4 months isn't that long! i would wait a while! and he isn't worth it if he is pressuring you! be safe and like i said..trust your heart! set boundries..and follow them! i hope i helped! rate me please!



Ok well i been wid mybf for over 9 months and i have been thinkin bout"IT" lol well i wanted to wait till i was like 16 but i dont think im gunna b able to wait that long cuz im 13 now turnin 14 next month but i feel im conforablen stuff n im almost definately positive my bf iz!! lol so my questions iz do u think i should or do u think im to young?!?!?!?! plz help!! thanx



~*~ Should I?!?!? ~*~

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i think you should wait! thats the best thing to do! you are a little young! this might be something you regret in the end..so wait a while longer is my advice! =)



ok when people have sex ....does the guy all have to insert it... or does it just "go in" when they lay on top of each other...is it lyk a magnet effect...or something? (link)
no..lol its not a magnet effect! lol yea..the guy has to insert it..just be careful in any choices you make and stay protected! =)



Why is sex such a big thing now? I mean young people are even doing this, I just don't get it. What happened to waiting until marriage? (link)
I wonder the same thing! the world has changed a lot! now i don't realli believe in waiting until you married cause you can fall in love at any age! its just a matter of how mature you are and when you are readi to give up your virginity! i dont encourage you or anyone else to give up your virginty at a young age..wait until your AT LEAST 15..and make sure your realli in LOVE! and i'm not even saying 15 is a good age..just wait until you are mature and readi to do it! oh yea and make sure you have been with your partner for a realli long time before you make a decision and make sure they aren't only going out with you for sex! just stay safe in any choices you make and that was a great question! =)



okay i knoe alot of ppl are havin sex and all and i used to want ta have sex really bad but i was talkin to my friend and she really explained to me that its a really good idea to wait for mariage. so thats me new plan. but c i talked to alot of guys about having sex... and now i dont knoe how to turn them down..?? i mean will they think im dumb if i say i wanna wait till marriage??
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do what your heart tells you to do! and don't give in if you don't want to even if he is the sexiest guy on earth! =)



ok, my friend did this project in health class, and she used this article (i think it came from the newspaper). It was a 5 year old and she was pregnant! Is that possible or is it just a lie? (but newspapers dont really lie..so??) (link)
no..thats not possible for a 5 year old to get pregnant! girls have to get their period first before they have a baby..and 5 year olds don't get their periods that early in life. what i'm thinkin is that it was a typo! maybe it was suppose to say 15! that makes more sense! =)





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