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ok i'll first start this off as i am 19 years old and not immature. i just dont get how some s enjoy giving head i mean it just seems completely disgusting. like sucking on someones dick then all that cum going in your mouth? it just seems really gross. if anyones ever done it can you tell me about it and if you havent can you tell me what you think? thanks lots.

Some people find it disgusting, a lot of others don't. Whatever your view. What do you want to know? You haven't really said. Yes, i have done it but I'm not sure what your asking. Leave me a message in my inbox and I'll get back to you. INBOX!!!!!!!!!!!

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so .. this might sound stupid but i know its natural it just seems that most guys have there penis's circumsized.. i dont.. does this effect anything at all .. it would be sweet to have a girl around my age to answer this question because iv look this up on the internet so many times and i still dno what to think and i stress about it ALOT thanks :|

15/m

I'm 16/f and I've actually found the opposite, that most guys don't have their penis circumsised. Well, in Australia anyway! It doesn't affect anything at all, and personally, I like a guy who hasn't been circumsised! But different girls like differnt things, we are all different, so don't worry at all. The only thing I think it affects is condom usage. Some guys prefer to pull their foreskin back before putting one on. It's up to the guy.

Hope this helped you. :]

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I just recently fingered a girl and i wanted to know why she didnt orgasm, this was my 4th time fingering her and she has never orgasmed, she just sits there and its a little wierd. Is there something im doing wrong. I don't insert my whole finger but i am rubbing pretty hard, Any advice?? thanks

Try different spots and techniques and see what seems to work best. Just doing the one thing the whole time can get a bit boring after a while so even change positions after a while. Don't keep to the one spot unless she finds it really good and it's working for you. Make her really comfortable if she seems 'weird'. Give her a massage first, just try to get her to relax. If she's just sitting there move her hands around you and try to get her moving a bit. Not every girl will orgasm after the fourth time, some take longer, some will the first time. It doesn't mean that your bad at it, just we are all different. Don't worry, it'll all work out.

Hope this helped you!
Good luck!

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K this is a serious question but my periods ALWAYS beeen messed up but like 2 monthes ago i slept with this guy and he asked me if i was on birth controll and i said no .. and he didnt wear a condom .. but he pulled out in time .. and he said he even did .. but i havnt yet got my period and im a little freaked out weather im pregnant or not .. and I dont have money to buy a pregnancy test ? .. do you think im pregnant just from those sings and is it possible that i could be pregnant if he pulled out but he still wasnt wearing a condom ??? please help me ASAP????

The withdrawl method is absolutley unreliable!! I don't know how many people do this but no wonder so many kids get pregnant these days! Ok, chances are you could be pregnant, you should always use protection, because precum CAN get you pregnant. A lot of girls don't get their period when they're stressed so maybe you're just so worried about it which is making you late. Pregnancy tests aren't that expensive you can buy them from your local chemist and I'd strongly recommend you buy one. I'm sure you'll now realise how important protection is...and next time please type properly.
Or you know you could always do the online pregnancy test for a laugh:
http://www.thepregnancytester.com/

sexy_rexy xox

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OKay, so about....3 or four weeks ago i slept with a guy...at a party. We used protection, and he didnt actually...'come'
but, ive now skipped my period...its like a week late and i am really worried i am pregnant. should i give it a few more days...or should i take a test and find out?
Also, if i am pregnant...what can i do? do abortions cost money?
thank you so much for your help

If you used protection and he didn't cum (Yes, it's C-U-M, not C-O-M-E!!!! How old are you?!) then it's a really, really low chance that you are pregnant. Most girls find if they are stressed they'll get a late period so I'd say you're just worried which is making you late. I don't believe in abortion, please don't ever consider it.

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What is up with these 13 yr olds and getting pregnant/asking for advice about fingering and sexual things like that. wtf is our world coming too.When I was 13 I was still playing coodies with the guys next door or riding my bike around the neighborhood. Gahsh by the time I turn 30, 5 yr olds will be worried about sex. WTH

LOL! That's absolutely right! I've been thinking that exact same thing myself. They're way too young and actually coming to us to ask us how to have sex - not even knowing whats involved! No doubt there are alot of heartbroken, misinformed, pregnant 13yr olds in the world!

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I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i want to have sex with him but then i dont because i feel like i'll be betraying my mother and disrespecting her house i know im only 17 soon to be 18 in just 11 months.but i really love him and we want to but im scared i don't know what to do. So could someone out there please help me?

If you're doubting it means you really aren't ready. I know a lot of people lose their virginity at a younger age but I'm sure many regret it. Waiting til your older and trully ready really isn't big deal, I'm sure your boyfriend will understand. And if your worried that you'll be betraying your mother then that's even better reason to wait until your sure you're ready.
Hope I could help you.

♥ sexy_rexy xox

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Can you get pregnant if a guy just puts it in and pulls it right back out? And I also wanted to know is if a guy smokes pot, is his sperm count lower? I heard that somewhere, I forgot where but I was just wondering. Thanks

If you don't use protection then yes, there is definately always a chance of you becoming pregnant no matter how long he's in for. As for pot, it can decrease a guys' sperm count and also increase the chance of miscarriage. Even if he does smoke pot and his sperm count is low you should still remember to use protection because there is always a chance of you becoming pregnant.

Hope this helped.

sexy_rexy xox

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I have a question. i normally dont ask for advice. but i want to know someones oppinion. are you a slut if you had sex with 2 boys in the same night?

Giving my personal opinion, if I heard someone had had sex with 2 boys in 1 night I'd say yes. I know this may seem unfair, but people label others due to the actions they take. I'd actually see this as really unfair on the 2 boys. I know alot of us girls reckon boys don't have feelings when it comes to sex but imagine if a boy slept with both you and another girl on the same night...how would you feel?

sexy_rexy xox

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So basically I woke up this morning at 3:50 am && i threw up. && also this morning at 6 && 7 am.
This is the first time i have felt sick like this. I had sex a few weeks back && also on Thursday. I was wondering if you are pregnant && you have morning sickness, does it come day after day or just once && that's it, because i really doubt that i am pregnant but waking up throwing up this morning really scared me. Can someone help please.
P.s. i haven't had any other pregnancy "symptoms"
&& this is the first time i have thrown up like that.

Yes, precum can get you pregnant. I've actually had this problem before. I know it's really scary. For the moment I'd just suggest you buy a home pregnancy test (from your local supermarket or chemist) and in the future please remember that you really shouldn't have unprotected sex. It's up to you to make sure you use protection, if he doesn't want to you should ask yourself 'is it really worth it?'. It doesn't matter if it's only for 3 seconds, precum can get you pregnant.
Good luck.

sexy_rexy xox

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ok well me and my boyfriend had sex but i have my period now so im pretty sure im not pregnant and it was protected sex..but i was just wondeirng people tlel me different stories but can you be pregnant even if u get your period?

If it was protected sex the risk of you being pregnant is highly unlikely but in any case there is always slight chance no matter how many precautions you take. Everyone's heard different stories and many women have bleeding during pregnancy which isn't actually a 'period'. Take a look at this site: http://www.drspock.com/article/0,1510,6004,00.html
It'll give you some more info.
Hope I could help you!

sexy_rexy xox

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