hey hey welcome to my site! my name is alissa but alot of people just call me lissa, i luv to play the piano (8 years) i have 2 brothers a mom and a dad, i have 2 kittens and a dog. what can i say..i love the lord. attending youth group and starting point is something that gets me through my week. i teach sunday school, babysit at the church and im a stright A student.
helping people has always been one of my strong assets.
so if anyone has any type of question, please dont hesitate to ask..im here for support, comforting and obviously.. advice.
so just drop one in my inbox anytime and i will try my best to answer your question the best i can.
Gender: Female
Location: MN
Occupation: student
Age: 14
AIM: loochalo
Member Since: November 13, 2004
Answers: 131
Last Update: December 10, 2005
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ok so i went to take a pregnancy test today..i read the box which said to pee on the test for 5 seconds..me being the idiot i am..i peed on the cap..im all new at this so i had no clue there was a cap! i dipped the test in the toilet..and it came out negative..im thinking this isnt accurate because of all the water in the toilet..am i right or is it still ok to trust the negative? (link)
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well you could probally trust that, but just to make sure and to be more accurate i would do it again.. hope i helped!
-lissa
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what are the symtoms to a yeist infection?
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-Vaginal itching that is often severe.
-Vaginal discharge that is usually white, curdlike, and odorless.
-Red, irritated skin around the opening to the vagina (labia).
-Pain while urinating when urine touches irritated skin.
-Pain in the vagina during sexual intercourse.
-Symptoms of a vaginal yeast infection are more likely to occur during the week before a menstrual period.
i looked that up, i hope this helps!
-lissa
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i am a 13 year old girl, and i got my period for the first time today. i don't know how to tell my mom. any advice? (link)
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just go ahead and tell your mom, she had it to! she went throught the same thing, she will be happy that you came out and told her right away,she will have alot of great advice for you! so just let her know, and im sure she will be happy to answer any questions that you might have!
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yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?! (link)
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haha, its perfectly normal! well i hope i helped and happy new year!
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Ok, well, right now, i'm in 7th grade. Well, a couple of weeks ago, i got bored and well, i fingered myself...i kno pretty desprit, eh? Well, anyway, me and my boyfriend r ready to go to the next step, and he wants to finger me. Well, see the only thing that's stopping me is that I don't know if there is any transmitted disease i can get. Id there any transmitted disease i can get or can i get hurt in any kind of way?
thnx for the help>> roxy (link)
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well just make sure that his finger is very *clean* and if he goes up far enough it can pop your cherry!
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okay, i've been with this guy for a while now and our realationship is pretty good and stuff, but...i somehow want him to show more affection towards me; like more touching or even just talking to me or w/e. He touches me and stuff so its not like he stays completly away, but its always not when i want it. I guess i just kinda hope for the 'fantasy relationship' but i think that maybe his ways could be changed. Do ya'll have any ideas on how i can get him to show more affection or w/e? please help, and dont just say talk to him about it :o) Thanks, i rate! (link)
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make the first move! and always remember that if there is anything that worries you or anything about your relationship, COMUNICATION IS THE KEY!
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Ok I know this may sound wierd and all but the other day I was searching around in my parents room and i found strange things like handcuffs, whips, and wierd looking masks. I remember watching something on television about this sort of thing but im not sure if its really happening with my parents. Can somebody tell me what i should look out for. (link)
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lol, like every parent does that! their just having some fun, but dont worry about it!
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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old? (link)
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well when your 18, your an adult now so you could get sent to jail, so yes you probally will get in trouble.
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I recently had my pap smear and the results came back fine. My doctor said that the Pap smear was normal. I did not have the HPV, but this is were I'm confused, she told me to go back for another testing in 6 months because they found changes in the cells of my cervix.
Thank You So Much for any information that you can pass on to me.
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well thats really what a pap smear is, looking for changes on your cells in your cervix. when the docor says to come back in 6 months, he meant that there is cells changing in your cervix and that might indecate cancer, but not all women have cancer from their cells changing.
i hope i helped! merry christmas!
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Alright .. so im 13 .. and i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last night .. meaning i was a virgin until last night .. well i heard your supposed to bleed your first time .. and i didnt .. it hurt like SUPER SUPER bad .. but i didnt bleed .. and i was just wondering if thats normal or not . Thanks :) (link)
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ya its normal! not all girls bleed!:) hope i helped! happy holidays
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Alright, my girlfriend just ended her period and we were thinking of sex. I tried to get a condom but with no luck. Now I checked up on it and people say after a period, there is no egg. So I thought, even without a condom, if we had sex and I,"Pulled out early." If there is a chance of pregnancy. (link)
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just to be safe. get a condom so then you dont have to worry about anything, a good place to get a condom with out many people knowing is in like gas stations, they almost always have condom despencers. well always remember that its way better to be safe then sorry!:) hope i helped!
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whats a good place to have sex where there are no parents? (link)
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well anywhere i guess...just make sure there is no parents around
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I'm a teen girl going through puberty and my private has losened up. I never had sex before so it couldn't have "stretched" that way. Also, around the edges of the viginia it's turning a dark tan color. What is this and is it normal? Also, are there any exercises i can do to tighten it up?
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im sure in normal, your body is probally just getting use to producing eggs, and the tan part, well i never had that but it is probally just your body type. if this does not go away in about 3 to 4 months then i would either tell your mom or a docor! that what their there for right!
happy holidays!
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'i'm being sexually harrassed by this guy i know, and so is every other girl in myclass except for two. His sexual harrassment is getting me in troubel with some of my teachers. It's cometothe point that i'm afarid to be alone with him because i'm afaird of what he'll do to me. He's grabbed by breast slappmy ass, rubbed on my crotch and other things. he's messedwith other girls in my class but he seems to dothst tome the most.Lately he's stop but i'm afarid he might start up and do it again. I tell him what he's doingis wrong but he doesn't care.Iused to think of himas my friend untill it all started.Now i don'tknow what to do. (link)
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you really need to tell someone! either a teacher or a parent! this is getting way out of hand! you need to tell someone before he takes away your self-confidence and dignety! i watched this happen to someone before, your never really the same once he makes you scared of him and thinks that he has concord you! you need to stand up for yourself! if its either yelling at him so everyone can hear or hiting him back! but whats most important to do is make him know that you are not scared of him!, that he can not treat you like one of his toys!, and that know one messes with you!
i really hope that i help! remember that what he is doing is wrong and you need to stand up for yourself!and tell someone!
happy holidays!
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ok i know this isn't exactly sex related, but it's close enough. today i was putting on deodorant, and accidently got some on my chest. as i was going to rub it off, i notice that my right nipple was a different texture than my left-it felt like, rougher. also, the area surrounding it felt almost numb. is this normal?? i've never noticed anything like this before, but then again i don't often feel my chest that often, so i don't know if it's normal or not. any help would be greatly appreciated!! thanks so much (link)
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you are totally normal! it could just be from your bra matiral (irrition) it may also be just your muscle in your breast. if this is making you worried then go to the docors, thats what their there for right!
hope i helped! happy holidays!
god bless!
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hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm 14 going on 15 in a couple of months, and i belive i have met "the one" i've know him sience i was 2 1/2 and he wants to um finger me, and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it behing my parents back, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my mom is the one whos conserned my dad doesn't care. i've haven't talked to them about it they kinda listen in my phone conversations with one of my good friends, have you ever got fingered or done it to someone? if not then how old were you when you did it, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate! (link)
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well it doesent matter how long you know him, if you feel that you are really comfortable with him fingering you then just go for it! they cant tell you what to do for ever! so justbe carful from what you say on that phone!
i hope that i helped! happy hoildays!
god bless you!
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I was wondering if it's possible to get pregnant from swallowing...my boyfriend and I have been messing around so this question came up. Thanks.
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NO! those are to very different things! lol
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how do u get tested fo a sti?im worried (link)
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well you would go to the docors or the gyno, and they can test you.:) i hope that i help!
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hey u kno how some people talk about a grl like having numbers sumthin like 36/25/34 or suntin like that?? what do those numbers mean????? (link)
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it means the size around you breasts/hips/waist
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Don't take this the wrong way. I'm 13/f and I'm ok with the regualr sex (WHEN I'M MARRIED) But even though I'm too your to think about it, 69 and oral sex I'm scared of. I just really dont feel comfortable with the idea. I wouldn't wanna lick the boy's thing, and I wouldn't want his tounge "up there" please help me becuase I really am scared. (link)
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well this is a conversation that you probally should have with your parents or with your doctor, ask them about this stuff they are there to help, im sure they would much rather that you ask them then any frined or some one that does not know to much about this stuff
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