Question Posted Thursday September 30 2004, 11:51 pm
Ok I know this may sound wierd and all but the other day I was searching around in my parents room and i found strange things like handcuffs, whips, and wierd looking masks. I remember watching something on television about this sort of thing but im not sure if its really happening with my parents. Can somebody tell me what i should look out for.
StArZsHiNe4yOu answered Sunday October 24 2004, 8:37 pm: It's hard to face the facts but your parents still do have sex, just like all other parents. It's rough and also kind of disturbing to think about what your parents do when your not around but it's completely normal...they love eachother!
xoxo
//hannah [ StArZsHiNe4yOu's advice column | Ask StArZsHiNe4yOu A Question ]
kris567 answered Thursday October 7 2004, 1:50 am: lol. ur parents are just having fun.its nothing 2 worry about tho.u cant expect them not 2 have sex just becuz they have kids.[lol]
Jenni answered Sunday October 3 2004, 12:57 pm: Your parents do have sex, you know, that's how they had you. Sex toys like handcuffs are actually fun to experiment with: like, for instance, if the man ties his wife down to the bed it's like she's at his sexual mercy, and vice versa. Your parents are just having sex, that's all. [ Jenni's advice column | Ask Jenni A Question ]
Laura answered Friday October 1 2004, 2:14 pm: I found a drawer full of thongs, nighteys and lube in my mom's dresser. It bugged me for a bit but I got over it. It's just a natural thing, she knew I saw and she's like "Married people have sex." and I didn't really care. Don't snoop, and don't treat them different. Forget about it.
Christine answered Friday October 1 2004, 12:09 pm: they might be having sex or your dad/ mom might be hitting one another at night. Most likely theyre having sex. Just listen to them at night and see. Maybe even try talking to them once in a while about sex. Bring those sorts of things up.
JW2009 answered Friday October 1 2004, 12:08 pm: it hink that you should look out for screaming and possibly a new baby brother or sister. its tottaly natural to have sex and dome people like kinkey stuff...like your parents...you should alos trytalking to them! [ JW2009's advice column | Ask JW2009 A Question ]
mysticpixie05 answered Friday October 1 2004, 11:43 am: You shouldnt look out for anything. Peoples sex lives are their own personal business. If they volunteer the information then it is different. But you shouldnt go snooping through your parents bedroom and their belongings.
Truthfully, would you like your parents to go snooping around your room and reading your diary and asking you what you and your boyfriend are doing? like how many times you have sex with him and asking for all kinds of details?
No, i wouldnt think so. So just try and block it out or something. Or if your all that curious and you know yoyr parents would be ok with you knowing about their kinky sex life, then ask them some questions about the things you found.
alisonmarie answered Friday October 1 2004, 9:05 am: You shouldn't really be looking out for anything. Your parent's sex life is completely their own business. How would it make you feel if they read your diary, searched your room for condoms/dildos/whatever, or asked you how often you masturbate?
It's okay to be curious about sex, but not about specific's people's sex lives. Unless those people volunteer the information, it means it's not for you to know.
Also: it's fine and normal if your parents are into handcuffs, whips, etc. They aren't freaks, though they'd probably freak out if they knew you had seen their sex toys. [ alisonmarie's advice column | Ask alisonmarie A Question ]
Draak answered Friday October 1 2004, 8:59 am: Look for nothing my friend. It's not anyone's, including yours, business what you parents do behind closed doors.Be thankful that your parents have a heathly sexual relationship and that they aren't out there doing it with other people. [ Draak's advice column | Ask Draak A Question ]
MoonFisher answered Friday October 1 2004, 12:32 am: I think you should look out for yourself and stop snooping on your parents. I know it's very, very weird and you're going to be all freaked out by finding something like this, but it's really not that weird or abnormal. Your parents have sex, that's where you came from. They have very kinky sex. If that weirds you out, just block it from your mind and move on. It's their business. Would you want them to wonder exactly HOW you made out with your boyfriend, all the details. Of course not, it's private. If you have cool parents, and it really is bothering you, maybe you can ask one of them about it. You never know, those things might just be gag gifts from a raunchy office party. [ MoonFisher's advice column | Ask MoonFisher A Question ]
AskMegan answered Friday October 1 2004, 12:26 am: Those things you found in your parents room, are 'toys' they use to make the sexual intercoarse more fun - gross, I know.
You don't have to look out for anything, treat them no different.
xOCarrie answered Friday October 1 2004, 12:15 am: id say, yours parents sex life is none of your buisness and hopefully you dont want it to be. There just trying to "spice things up". I think you shouldnt worry about it.
MFS answered Friday October 1 2004, 12:05 am: big whooop... people's parent's having kinky sex... what's the big deal? [ MFS's advice column | Ask MFS A Question ]
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