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Okay, so I have braces, and my guy friends play around with me and call me meat grinder. Is it true that you could cut their penis? And I know you use you lips, but I;m just courious:)
i wouldnt really call it cutting, but you can feel the grinding, especially if you have the big big bands in the back.
just open your mouth a little bigger ;]
i feel really bad. today my boyfriend came over and we were making out and he started kinda fingering me over my pants..i didnt let him go in them..but hes never done it before and it HURT! at first he was gentle then he started like jamming them and his nails were hurting me and i was like whoa stop be gentle and he stopped and then a few mins later he started doing it again and i didnt wanna hurt his feelings and be like IT HURTS! because that would make him feel REALLLY REALLY guilty because he cares about me alot. i'm crazy about him but now my crotch is really sore its like the right inside part of the lip is hurting so bad and i dont know what to do or how to tell him next time. also, i feel that things are happening too fast. im waiting to have sex, thats not the problem, its just htat i planned for all this to happen way later on and i know he loves me for who i am thats not the problem i just wanna start spending more time actually talking to each other and cuddling rather than always ending up doing this. (not that i dont like it but you know) sorry this is kinda 2 questiosn in one but any help is needed.
Well. You have to tell him somehow. The next time he does kinda just guide him to it. Tell him to be more gentle. Or like tell him to rub it first nd when it gets wet tell him to stick one finger in but go slow. Now on the other question if you dont wanna start doing that just tell him. Dont be scared. Its your opinion nd if he just doesnt get that you wanna wait a while then hes not the right guy you should be wit. I hope i helped! :]
okay,i'm confused about a few things.
me & my boyfriend don't do much,
but we want to.
but we can't until i know a few things that i'm confused about.
i don't know how or when to get him hard.
like,all we've done is makeout & he fingers me,
and ik he wants a handjob,but i don't know one thing.
this is gonna sound reallly stupid,but he has to be hard before i give him a handjob or blowjob right?
i just don't know how to get him hard before i do those things,or when.
please don't say "if you don't know these things you shouldn't be doing them" or anything,
i really just need help.
thank youuu.
Well, my boyfriend usually gets hard by like us making out. Or I'll sit on him sexually. Like straddle him. And when you two are making out try like grinding on him. And well if hes not hard by the time you give him a handjob then just kinda rub it and he should get hard by the time you actually start giving him an actual handjob.
ok i have been dating this girl for 6 months now.
i really like and she really likes me and we love to make out but our parents don't know we are making out and if they catch us, we basically will never get to see each other again. also we are having trouble hiding it from them. what should we do
Well, I think your parents have a feeling you're making out and if you think about it they must have done that stuff when they were your age too. So i wouldnt really be scared if they accidently walked in. Like they cant just tell you that you cant see her anymore because they were doing the same stuff. I'm not saying to just come out with it tell them. It's just that if they walk in they walk in. It's not as bad as them walking on you while you're having sex. So dont worry.
Well every guy i date wants to have sex with me
but im really scared and want to wait till i find the right guy or im married and they dump me should i just give it up to them?
Don't give it up to someone unless you are truly ready. If those guys really did like you they would give you time to get ready to have sex and they would still be with you. They're prolly just trying to get some. So wait until you're ready
how do you give oral sex when the guy is wearing a condom?
oh andd what if his dick.. goes up the wrong hole, all of this is so confusing! like how do you make sure its in the right one
Thanksss
Just give the guy like a regular blowjob, but be careful not to accidently use your teeth. Because that can rip it. Im pretty sure you cant get someones dick in the wrong hole because i know the peehole is pretty small and a dick wouldnt be able to slide in it. And if it slips into your Butthole then you'll know because it kinda burns.
I'm 18. I'm not sexually active but I would like to be and I think it would make relationships a hell of a lot easier. The only problem is that i'm really afraid of the result....meaning....the pain and initial hymen-popping and whatnot. I've done everything sexual other than sex but I have NOT been fingered nor have I fingered myself or used a tampon. I'm uncomfortable with anything being inside. I'm worried that this will make sex completely unattainable.
Is there any way I can "train" my vagina to be a bit looser? Anything!
Well, sometimes being sexually active does make a relationship easier. But first you can try using a tampon or fingering yourself. It doesnt really hurt when u try fingering yourself its just a different feeling.
So my boyfriend and i started have sex a few months ago, and we have only done it 4 times. The first time, it hurt bad enough that we had to stop. The second and third didnt hurt as bad, but it didnt feel GREAT. Then the last time, it hurt REAllY bad again... there was about a 2-4 week period in between all these encounters. So im guessing he got bigger..but when will it feel good?
Well, my first time hurt a little and maybe it would help if you all tried foreplaying first (fingering, etc.) and it wont hurt as bad. And afterwards it will prolly feel better, and wont hurt as much
i am 14. my boyfriend (also 14) has felt me up. we've made out. and i've given him a handjob.
a) opinion: am i too young for this?
b) opinion: should i slow things down?
we aren't going to have sex or anything.. i just don't know if we're already moving too fast compared to other kids my age. i can't very well ask other kids my age. it would just sound so odd: "hey, have YOU given your boyfriend a handjob!?"
i don't know.
amateur experts: help me out!
thanks a zillion [:
In my opinion I dont think you're too young at all, because im pretty sure there are teenagers your age or younger that has done far more things that feeling up,making out, and a handjob. And if you were to wait to awhile to do that it was bound to happen.
The second part of the question is that it just depends on how long you two have been dating.
ok...so, like, i was thinking the other day, when your cherry is popped does that mean your virginity is gone?
and i dont mean gone by sex. like maybe by tampons or masterbating or fingering? like if its popped because a tampon did it or something and someone says "are you a virgin?" do you say "no, because i have never had sex." or do you say "yes, because my hymen is gone?"
im a very random person and this has been annoying me, so yeah.
Technically to still be a virgin you havent had sex, so since your hymen isnt broken by having sex you're still a virgin.
ok well when my boyfriend tried to do this pretty much all he did was do what he would do with his finger when figuring me and i guess it tasted HORRIBLE and i even washed and scrubbed down there and what not and it didnt feel good isnt he supposed to like lick the rest down there? cuz ya what he did didnt feel good and idk if i will let him do it again because it tasted that bad. so ya is he doing it wrong if so what is he supposed to do?
I don't think your boyfriend is doing anything wrong, because my first time being ate out was pretty bad and i hated it lol. But have him try it more on you and he may just get to like the taste of it. All guys are different, so he might be the one who hates eating a girl out because of the smell or the way it tastes.
ok so ive had sex many times before adn ive already been popped and yet everytime i have sex or masterbate i bleed as if i was a virgin. does anyone know whats wrong?
I do that every now and then, but i think its normal. One of my teachers told me that sometimes when you have sex or you have sex, your cherry can be popped more than once. So maybe thats what its doing.
my bf and i have had 'dry sex' but only for a short amount of time and not even rubbing all that much like i rubbed up on him but his penis wasnt like on my or pushing up against me and only for like a min or two or w/e so is it bad? cause its kinda the movements of sex and we havent been dating long and im really catious but when we did it i didnt even know it was dry sex and i liked it but it totally didnt seem that bad to me or that sexual. thanx for the help :)
I don't think it's bad, because i think all couples go through "dry sex." I think it's pretty fun hahaha. but as long as he didnt get anything on you down there, because sometimes it leaks and well that can get you pregnant but be careful!
well im 13/f and all my friends have made out, or been fingered and i havent. i really want to, but when your being fingered what are you soppose to do? if i do it to myself is that how it will feel when a guy does it?
When i tried fingering myself like it felt alot different from my boyfriend doing it for some reason. Like i just dont get as much pleasure when i do it myself. But people feel different things, so its all different
my boyfriend (m/16) and i (f/16) have been going out for almost 6 monthes. we have not had sex yet, but i've given him head before.
we got into a conversation one time about how guys think it's weird to eat a girl out.
he sad that he'd eat me out any day because it would only be fair considering i've given him head before. that's probably going to be the next step in our relationship.
i'm a little nervous about the whole idea though, not uncomfortable about it, just uncertain i guess.
how should i prepare for that?
some guys think it tastes nasty, but i heard somewhere that eating fruit beforehand makes it taste better....?
i know that i have to wash down there everyday and all... but is there anything else i should know?
thanks ~
Well, you can't really prepare with something like that. When my boyfriend first did that to me, it tickled like extremely! It was great, but dont worry you'll get used to it. And the whole thing about eating fruit, it isn't true! HAVE FUN! :)
Hi i was wondering if like watching porn/masturbauting could be considered cheating on a girl?
I was just wondering because i wouldnt wanna do it if its not right.
No it wouldn't be considered cheating because you're not touching this girl on tv.
Ok. It was a friday night, he asked me did I want to go back to his house for a little QT. I only been going out with him for 2 weeks, I know it was so stupid of me to sex him but he kept asking and he was like I needed to trust him. Well, yeah I had sex with him and I regret it because after we had sex he walked me right back home(this was right after the sex)he used a trojan condom also...(for detail of the condom).Of course his penis was huge so I dont know if this is why Im feeling this way. But when I used the bathroom once I got straight in the house, I hear something hit the toilet water. It was the condom! It popped! He said before he even came, he pulled out...I cannot be sure of that. exact words (well, I didnt cum inside you). Im not sure If I am pregnant and Im trying to think that Im not, but I keep on thinking about it. Im not to sure but I do think that the condom was still on the outside inside me, and I do not think the sperm ws in the condom. I even seen him take the condom off before we left. So I know it popped. For the whole weekend. My body was hurting. My hips, Legs, Stomach, on top of that, I was really tired. I mean I was already tired on friday, But after sexing him, I was exhausted. Could it be that I was just getting used too his large penis size? Or Am I pregnant?. Because my stomach feels tight(sometimes). Really it has only been 7 days since it has happened. And right now, Im fat but im not big boned, Im slim kind of fat, I cant tell any kind of signs. I know its early but they say something about your stomach getting hard. Well I checked and I cant tell if it is my stomach getting tight because of my diet(not really a diet, just dont eat as much anymore)or because this is a sign or being pregnant. What could I possibly experience in the first week that would actually let me know that I am pregnant. I do not think that I am. but it worries me, feel me? Im only 17 and Im not ready for a child. This is the first time this has happened to me. Because I do not have sex. Could someone help me? If you need more information let me know.
Ok, well i think you're thinking wayy to much about. So dont freak out! lol Well the reason why i tell you not to freak out is because you're making yourself think you're pregnant and thats gonna make your body react like it really is when its not. its happened to me. i think you were just really tired because of the sex if he was that big that can make you super super tired and all achy but once you get used to it then it wont be so bad. and since he pulled out before he actually came, then you shouldnt be pregnant since you all used a condom. so dont worry!
so i haven't had my period since november!
i was suppose to start december 17th or something.. haven't had sex since the end of november. i have taken 4 pregnancy tests!! they all said negative. i don't know what is wrong with me why i havent started my period?
and another thing... on the E.P.T. pregnancy tests or whatever are the lines suppose to come
out CLEAR? because i took two of them and the negative line was kind of faded??
it's confusing meeee. i don't know whats
wrong... im suppose to start my next period
on january 19th.
helppp?
thats how mine was..it pretty much scared the living crap out of me.
but its because your period doesnt start being regular till you like 20.
mine always came regular before i had sex and then it skipped around after i had sex.
so dont worry about it, it'll come!
17/f
is there any way to reduce the pain when a guy "pops your cherry" My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and think it's time but im afraid of how much it might hurt.
are there any tips or tricks i should know about?
should i be on top or bottom?
yeaa im clueless lol
well wat me and my boyfriend did was we messed arounnd or foreplayed before we had sex our first time so try the whole fingering thing to kinda make you loosen up a little and then try sex! lol if i was you i would probably be on bottom since its your first time!
how do i tell my girlfriends that she needs to shave down there without being really mean. she can be kinda sensitive about that kinda stuff. help please.
well you two can get on the subject of hair down there and be like "well i think its super sexyy when a girl shaves down there" then she would prolly get the hint she should do that in order to please you!