So my boyfriend and i started have sex a few months ago, and we have only done it 4 times. The first time, it hurt bad enough that we had to stop. The second and third didnt hurt as bad, but it didnt feel GREAT. Then the last time, it hurt REAllY bad again... there was about a 2-4 week period in between all these encounters. So im guessing he got bigger..but when will it feel good?
VictoriaGrace answered Monday February 18 2008, 1:17 am: Has he stretched you before entering? By stretching I mean preparing you with two or more fingers-lubricant as well as lubricating himself before entering? If he has are you using a water based lubricant? If you are you should step it up and get a better brand of lubrication. Sometimes as well the vaginal area doesn't let out enough "wetness" to naturally lubricate the area for less painful entry. But since there is something actually pushing past muscles it will take time getting used to. Its not like romance novels where the girl is in ecstacy as soon as the man enters her:(
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