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confusion?
okay,i'm confused about a few things.
me & my boyfriend don't do much,
but we want to.
but we can't until i know a few things that i'm confused about.
i don't know how or when to get him hard.
like,all we've done is makeout & he fingers me,
and ik he wants a handjob,but i don't know one thing.
this is gonna sound reallly stupid,but he has to be hard before i give him a handjob or blowjob right?
i just don't know how to get him hard before i do those things,or when.
please don't say "if you don't know these things you shouldn't be doing them" or anything,
i really just need help.
thank youuu.
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Ok listen to me...............First of all no he does not have to be hard......It can be a really enjoyable experience for a guy to become aroused while they recieve the blow job, And with the hand job remember to concentrate on the head of his penis ( that makes them cumm) Also cup your mouth when you begin and NO TEETH :D Wear something cute/sexy and surprise him with the whole experience........When you give him the blowjob don't let him finger you, instead concentrate on giving him a full ejaculation. Sometimes as women we have to be in full control of a situation to make it our own. So take your time and remember to have some type of lubrication ....... vasaline, ky jelly, baby oil. You will do fine if you use the advice and bring that sexual side out into the light. Tease him a little and pay attention to how his penis responds to certain things. Licking, slow/hard sucking, aggressive hand jobs or blow jobs.It can be sooooooooo fun/freaky at the same time. GL
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Well, my boyfriend usually gets hard by like us making out. Or I'll sit on him sexually. Like straddle him. And when you two are making out try like grinding on him. And well if hes not hard by the time you give him a handjob then just kinda rub it and he should get hard by the time you actually start giving him an actual handjob.
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Well I don't know your age, but it seems to me that you're not ready.
But since that's not the answer you wanted, I'll try to give you the one you did want.
And by the way we're not allowed to go into too much detail on here.
Basically yeah- the guy has to be hard before.
Every guy is different so you're gonna have to find out what gets your boyfriend hard.
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Hope this helped somehow.
But don't feel pressured to do anything with him if you're confused and not ready for it.
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Yes, he has to be hard for you to give him a handjob or blowjob. When you're about to give him one, he's usually hard already. If not, tease him a little bit by touching it. It should get hard but really, it'll probably already be. Don't worry, it'll be fine.
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