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hi my name is Becky. i am 14 years old. I have gone through some rough times myself and I hope I can help anyone that might need it. If you're looking for a straight up answer or just someone to listen to you, i'll be here. :)
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this is really silly i know but how do you know when you "came" during sex or masturbation?
You know when you "came" or orgasmed when the muscles of your vagina contract uncontrollably like a pulsing sensation.
14/f
to say it straight, i got fingered and gave the boy a handjob in return. and my friend told this kid and he told everyone. alot of people hate me now, and all this shit is going around. i just kind of shrug it off and i'm like Shit Happens. haha, i know i shouldn't have ... i regret it alot but even his cousin who is in my sisters grade foudn out! she told me to "stay the fuck away from her cousin" and i'm not worried about my sister finding out cause i told her haha. but i just don't know what to do i feel so bad, like i want to kill myself. i'm already in counseling for feeling like this. i just don't know what to do. and how to handle this. please help D:
The same exact thing happened to me. Dont feel bad about it and dont regret it. it's a normal thing. and the people in your grade need to grow up and get a life. They're probably all horny and jealous because they havent gotten the chance to do that yet. ha. it'll be old news in a few days or weeks. trust me. thats exactly how it was at my school. ah and by the way. im 14/f and if you ever have a problem like this again you can talk to me. i'm pretty sure i've been through it all. any more questions?? you know where to find me. :)
me and my boyfriend are both religious, and both wanted to remain abstinent
however
we got into fondling alot, and we just had sex a few weeks ago
we didnt use a condom first time, but he wanks alot, and pulled out, but we did do it about 5 times already...
i dont know what to do
i told my friends and they are so imature about it like ''oh my god you slut!" (which i am NOT!) and saying go to tell ur mom
i love my bf, and plan to be with him always, but i dont know what to do
my bf is older than me, and my mom dont know im seeing anyone, in fact, she thinks im lesbien? :S
anyway,
i dont know what to do, my bf asked me to marry him already, and we going to get engaged, and he wants to ask my parents also, then get married next year.
he said if i got pregnant he wants to keep it, however, i have a further complication
my mom's friend's daughter just got pregnant and is due in a few weeks
my mom told me all the pain and stress they all went through, and how devastated they were, and she said to me firmly not to do it
she is also against me marrying
i always wanted to have a baby and get married,
but i wanted to go to university first
i dont know what to do, someone help! im just confused...
if i keep baby, then it will be 'iligitemate', and my bf/ fiance/ future husband's culture would ridicule it or something...
someone pls advise me on anything to do, should i go to gp or buy home pregnancy kit or talk to my councillor or someone at school or something? i dont want to tell my mom..
:(
i want to marry and to have a baby, and my bf said to me it would be loved, and his family would look after me and the baby, and he would take care of me no matter what happens, and he said he doesnt want to kill any baby (meaning he doesnt want me to abort it) and i am scared.. cause i dont know waht to do
well i think you should do whatever you want. dont disobay your parents but let them know how you feel about the situation and marry the guy. it seems to me that you two are in love and want to be together no matter what. if thats what you want. and about the baby thing. if you are pregnant, be open with your mother and let her know that you are ready and able for what your future holds. including the baby.
I'm a worthless human being. I've been a worthless human being for a pretty long time, but I've just now come to accept it.
I've decided I want to die. However, I'm too much of a coward to go through with it. Perhaps it's the thought of pain, maybe it's the risk of failing at failing.
In any case, whatever some (Relatively) painless and (Relatively) reliable suicide methods, preferabley accessable to the common 20-something who doesn't work in a hospital?
I know you probably dont want to hear this, but dont kill yourself. god put you on this earth for a reson. If you were worthless then you wouldnt be here. Make something of your life. There is no reason for suicide. trust me. I've been through it.
im 14.and ive been with my boyfriend for about a year&& 4 months.when we have sex he just pulls out.we havent been using protection for about 7months.i really dont like the sex with condoms.should i start using protection.do you think its safe?
I would definatly use protection every time you have sex, especially at your age. you dont want to run the risk of getting pregnant.
even if you dont like it as much with a condom, it is still better than living with a baby inside of you for nine months while your parents lecture you everyday about how to take care of it. and they are a BIG responsibility. Do you want that? hopefully not. someday maybe.
just be safe... whatever you do. :)
I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess.
you should try to get counseling and this could help you you need to know that life is a precious thing no matter how you live it you should want to get more out of your life and try ur hardest to overcome this i hop you can cope
hope i helped
Beacky ♥
okay, well first off i shave down there and it gets irritated very easily, is there any other methods i can do rather than shaving?
i wanna try waxing but i would never be able to pull the strip off myself, so if i went to a salon or w.e-- would they do the whole downstairs?
or just the 'bikini' part, like the sides of thighs.
ive personally never been to a salon where they will wax the pubic area. if you continue to shave it you can put this lotion on after you shave. its called cuchy by slumerparty and its specialized for that delicate skin.
Ok, my freind wanted me to ask what you guys think about masterbation. Is masterbation healthy, perverted or what? Why?
it really depends on the person. personally i think its healthy and not perverted. its a way to explore your body and get to know yourself better.
hope i helped ♥
hey i know this is a really weird question but i just got over a small yeast infection and i have these little red bumps on my vagina and its still kind of red down there...idk what to do is it part of the infection or what?!! help! i try to wash really well down there!!!
it could still be the infection or the kind of soap you use could be irritating it. try not to use fregranced soap in that area and be gentle when you wash it. hope i helped ♥
Okay so here is the deal. My dad is a very strick parent, especially when it comes to me and boys. 15/f Many of the boys in my grade are scared to call and come over my house for that reason. Also, a lot of boys have said to me that they would go out with me if my dad was not as tough. It bothers me that my dad is interfearing with my sexual and social life with boys. Not to be cocky but i am a beautiful thin girl who many guys would love to be in a relationship with. I dont know if there is anything i can do to help the situation. My dad will not give in. Do you guys have any helpful words for me? oh and its not like on the level of sex or anything. just holding hands is not in the question. I really need help and have been dealing with this problem for the past 3 years of my life. I just need some comforting words
XOXOXOXOX Alicia
just keep talkin to your dad about it and just tell him you are resposible and wont go that far into the relationship like sex until your seriously ready hopefully he will come around. hope i helped =] &hearts
well okay. i havent been on my period for about 3 months now, and im not quite sure why. I do get stressed all the time about getting caught whenever i go out with my girls, i stress if like my parents will find out, call and check up on me.. plus i've been really stressing about being pregnant, yet my bf attempted to put his manhood inside me, yet it didnt go far at all cause i've never actually had sex..but yet i still keep thinking that i might be. Well i dunno what to do. Could i be pregnant?
plus im always irregular.. i've never in my life had it on schedule. i've had this kinda thing happen before, yet i hadn't ever done stuff with a guy or anything.. and it was for two months..
i just dont know what to do.. any advice on whats wrong?
how long can stress delay your period?
16/f
i dont think it can be stress that delays your period. some women go off amd on and get theirs emaybe every other month and sometimes skipe some months so i dont think its anything to worry about since youve nover had sex. hope i helped=]
can you get pregnant if you have sex on your period when you dont use a condom? what are some of the consequenses? Also how long does a sperm stay alive when it is out of the penis?
i dont really agree wit the other answers because before you get your period you have a window of about 3 to 4 days that you can get pregnant because the lining in the uterus that protects the egg is fully developed & when you have your period that lining is going away and there would be nothing for the egg to lay in & be protected. and the sperm can stay alive from 5 to 7 days. some of the cansequences is that you can get an std such a herpes' & hiv. hope i helped =]