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15/f

okay, so today my friend jon (who is my ex-boyfriend also; we broke up about a month ago) told me that he is basically addicted to internet porn and that he masturbates all the time. and that he actually did it so hard that he hurt himself to the point where he couldnt walk, and that's why he missed school yesterday. when we were going out he seemed to rush things alot and now im so relieved that i didnt really do anything with him (we only kissed).

now im really, really grossed out and i dont really know how to act around him. part of me is extremely grossed out that i even went out with him, and the other part of me wants to try to be friends, even though i sort of know it will always be weird. what do i do?

When I was 15 I went through the EXACT same situation. It was kind of funny reading this because of how similar it was for me. I had this best friend (and we used to go out) and the most we did was kiss also. After we broke up, we still remained friends, however it was a little weird. He told me all about how he masterbates to internet porn, which he seemed to do A LOT of the time. It was strange to me and I did get grossed out, but then I realized that it was completely normal for teenage boys to do that. The fact that he was comfortable enough to share that information with you just shows how much he longs for friendship and how he trusts you. Try to look at it as normal, and if he still bothers you, tell him not to tell you these things anymore.

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Well okay i have always wnated to know this like do guys like it more when you shave down there or not i am really confused please help D:

i was told they like "a little stubble" whatever that means.

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what are some things i should know before you have sex for your first time? I'm like DEATHLY afaid of getting pregnant, and i know use protection, but still i dont wanna get pregnant. And im not on the pill and i doubt my parents will buy it for me. idk even know if im ready for sex, like ive always wanted to do it, but idk if am, if i dont know if i am ready for it, maybe i shouldnt do it?
15/f

DO NOT DO IT! If you EVER have doubt at all, then you are NOT NOT NOT ready. do not do it, you will regret it.

wait until you have absolutely no doubts are are positive it is what you want.

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ok. before he put the condom on, there was a bit of pre cum on his penis. He wiped it off, and then like 5-10 minutes later we had sex with a condom on. but once he inserted his penis in my vagina the condom broke. he pulled out and put on another condom. The second time it did not break. What are my chances of getting pregnant? My ovulation calendar says that i will be fertile on 11/24-11/28. Can i become pregnant?

There is a possibility that you could get pregnant. I would suggest taking buying a couple of pregnancy tests, just to make sure.

Good luck!

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im worried about the size of my penis, i think its too small, ive never really seen another penis so i dont know whats big and wats small, and like wats the average guys penis size, if it helps mine is 7 inches, is that good or bad? please help

Your penis is not small at all. I think the average is around 5 1/2 or 6.

Your fine =)

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So i gave my boyfriend a handjob and i got cum on my fingers but i washed it off and about 40 mins. later i masterbated and i got my period 4 days later and i read that even if you get your period you could still b pregant? do you think i am?

I think the chances of you getting pregnant are slim to none. I mean, if you really washed your hands well, then u cannot be pregnant.

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im kind of embaressed...but like, i masturbate and i think its gross and i know everyone says its not gross and its compltely natural and everyone does it and its not a big deal, but i cant help how i feel you know? but im trying to do it less like only once a week or something and (this sounds dumb) i told god that i would only once a week but it seems like i cant and i've done t like three times already and im worried im going to go to hell for lying to god...and i feel really stupid but i just wanted to ask someone...

you really shouldnt worry about it. you will not go to hell. masturbating is normal and you should not feel bad about it.

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ok.. me and my mom aren't really close... and like when she tells me stuff like oo i need to buy u a bra or sumtin like oo lets go bra shopping i get like embarrased and she does it like in front of people... so like my friends wouldn't care to come with me cuz they would buy there own.. but i mean iim only 13.. and ive got some boobs.. but im not sure wat size.... but they are like small.. i would be no bigger than a a cup.. .and in bikini size im a medium.. so liek maybe you can tell me by that wat size i am or like wat possible sizes are small....

try a 32 A or a 34 A

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Iam 16 years old and I want to have sex so I could get pregnant becouse I feel like nobody loves me and if I have a baby iam sure my baby will love me is this normal?

See a therepist.

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I am almost 15 years old.My boyfriend is 16 turning 17.I dont get along with either of my parents. Is it normal to want to have a child at this age? I talked to my boyfriend about it he doesnt help to much. He has told me he would do anything i want because he loves me so much. I told him i think i would want to wait till i am 16 at least. At the moment i dont no i feel like i want to take hold of the responsibilty now.Ill Rate High. Please help me extra ideas etc would be help full thank you.

Well, if you are only 15, do not have a child. Personally, I think having a child at age 16 would be terrible. You are not out of school, you do not get along with your parents so they cant take care of the baby, do you have a lot of money?
Please dont have a child yet.
Wait.

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Okay so I masturbate like 3-4 times a week and I like to alot. The problem is, I feel so perverted and gross. How can I sto pfeeling so disgusting? 14-f

just keep in mind that masturbating is totally NORMAL and most people do it.

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Okay I don't know if this is sex or something but like i've been getting this white snotty stuff in my underwear. I don't know what it is or what it's from. I'm 13/f to if that will help.

Hey, there is absolutely nothing to worry about. It is just discharge. Every girl gets it.

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Are guys supposed to masturbate? This was a big issue at school today. I was wondering if most guys masturbate. K thanks .. ♥ Tiff

i am in 8th grade and every single guy i know masturbates. It is completely normal for them too.

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My mind always fills dirty things about guys. I always fantasize about their penises like how big they have, shaved or un-shaved, fat or thin. Its about all men, young and old, known or unknown. Imagine when I talk to a man, my mind goes fantasizing about his penis, Is this sickness?
I am 15/F.

its called being peverted.

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Do u think im too young for sex? I WANT TO SOOOOOO BADDDDDDDD! uhhhh..hes 17, but he promises me i wouldnt get pregnant if we used a condom in he took it out before he cummed in me..is that true?

do not have sex yet. you are WAYYYY too young.

and hes 17!
he is just taking advantage of you.
and he should not promise you something like that because he does not know the answer.

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what are some web sites i can go to for puberty...i know puberty101.com but what are some others?

theres gurl.com

and myjellybean.com

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