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I want to buy birth control, but the thing is im kind of young and my parents can't know. If i buy it alone at like the CVS or Walmart, is it possible thatthe sales clerk will stop me from buying it? (link)
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you can go to a planned parenthood and get them for free and your parents never have to know....I did that. it's free for a year or two (maybe) (im not sure about the 2nd year, but I know that the first yr is free)
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Okay me and my boyfriend have sex but the thing is we have never used a condom and I'm not on birth control. I talked to him about it before and we agreed to start using them. But that never happened...I really wish we would but I dont want to say something about it again.....what should i do? (link)
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Well,you SHOULD say something to him...he's not that one that has a chance of getting prenant....it should understand...if he doesn't then...apparently he doesn't about what happens....
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I'm scared, i dont know what to do. Should i involve myself into sexual intercourse? Theres this boy, and i've known him for four years.. He has been t here for me through everything. I recently dropped the highschool scene and went for cyberschool.. It was all because of some friends that wern'et being so friendly... And out of all people he dumped his girlfriend because of me and took my side on it. My bestfriend was his girlfriend. I sorta felt bad about it... But then he told me all the stuff she did to him and how she hurt him. She had cheated on him... and she admitted it to us. He has been there through everyhting... We talk all the time and we are each others best friend. We want to take that further but not sex... When it does come up though... Whhich could be at any given time... How should i react? Should i just give it up? I'm scared because i wouldn't know how to telll my mom... Me and her are sooo open with eachother and i tell her EVERYTHING. but what happens when i lose my virginity and need to go to the gyno? We're gonna hangout at his place this Thursday and i get to meet his family... They are soo nice to me on the phone... hope they are in person to... wish me luck...
Please help.
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Well, the best thing is to just tell your mom...and she will probly take you to the gyno and everything...which is really what you are sposed to do before you have sex anyways...!!! Just tell her how you feel, same with him...if you dont want to, dont be afraid to tell him that..and *from experience* dont do it for him...you WILL regret it! but have fun and good luck!!
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My boyfriend and I had sex a few weeks ago and I was due to get my period today. I still haven't gotten it. We didn't use a condom, but we didn't finish either. He was only in me for a few seconds, not even a minute. Is there any chance that I could be pregnant? I'm showing all my regular signs of PMS, but still no period. (link)
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Even if you didnt finish and he was only in there for a few mintues, there is still a chance you can get pregnant...its called something like pre-ejaculation or something...it tells you on the condom instructions...LOL. But, you could just be late....if you have any more questions...feel free to ask
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ok me and my bf are planning to have sex the thing is we are both virgins and i was wondering wat it was like the first you have sex... mostly on the girls part.. like does it hurt and all that i want to no bc i want to be sure im really ready we already have everything else planned out and all but i still wanna be sure ne good advice and no loser advice is apreciated ill rate good laters (link)
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Yes, it will hurt...VERY BADLY!! It may hurt the first few times you do it...make sure that you are well lubed up...that will make it easier too!!
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When i was seven years old my mom [lets call her tina] and her friend [lets call her jenn]went away and i was left with *jenns daughter shauna at *jenns sisters house [lets call her jamie] well *jamie has a son john who was 14 at the time. Shauna was asleep and john had his friend jeff over, also 15. john made me do it with him and go to third with him and he said if i didnt then he would kill me.. is this rape? i am asking this years later because it still bothers me=/ (link)
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Yes, that is definitely rape. Have you told anyone? (besides us)
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This is going to sound gross at first and I apologize. I'm going to try to word it as maturely as possible. Okay, I was talking to this boy that I sort of like, well, that I'm "attracted" to & he had a "boner" or whatever term you want to use. This happened right in the middle of lunch when we were chatting. People found out and started say that means I "arroused" him and that he must have some sort of attraction to me. I'm kind of confused on whether this is what it means because this happened. Thanks.
Btw, I'm 14/f
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Well, sometimes guys get boners at wrong times...some of my guy friends get them like that too...don't worry about it...shit happens!!! lol!
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ok well i have a boyfriend and we barley get to see each other and the only way we can tlak is on the phone or the computer so we can't reallie do much together so when we start to on the computer im fine but then i dont kno wat to type becuz i dont consider this becuz i juss do it in real not over the computer and my hands start to freeze up and i dont kno what to type that would you kno make him enjoy it more. (link)
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man, im really not tryin to be rude...but speak english...I dont understand what u are trying to say?
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Hey I realized my friend sorta WANTS to have sex and she is only 13, shes not going to have it, its just she wants to. I was on her computer and saw alot of porn websites, is this normal for a 13 year old??
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Seeing as to how she is 13 and a teenager..yes...tell her that you want her to talk to you BEFORE she decides to have sex...or atleast talk with another adult..so that she can atleast get protection..because if she gets restricted..she is more than likely to do it anyways and unsafe..trust me, i did it too!
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ok me and my boyfriend hve been together a while. and we hve done most everything but, sex. alot of my friends hve already had sex. i know some people might say im too young but me and my boyfriend love each other and i know we are both physically and emotionally ready. well he comes over often but everytime im on my period [ kinda wierd? ] but we both hve tlked about this.. and sometimes i want to and others im jus like idk.. but i think i am ready but im so scared i might get pregnant but most people i know of hve had sex and used a condom and hve not got pregnant. seriously what are the chances. do you think im ready? and how would i let him know while we are together that i want to..? PLEASE DONT SAY IM NASTY OR NETHING IM REALLY NOT! please answer asap (link)
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Well, first off, (im REALLY not trying to be rude or anything!!!!) BUt, sweeti, WE CANT TELL you whether or not you are ready...only you can decide...but anyways...no, you are not nasty..i had sex whenever i was 12..soo...I used a condom..and i didnt get pregnant...and we also pulled out...and MAKE sure that you ARE ready...and not doing it JUST FOR HIM!!! WHy dont you just start off simple like making out and proceed on..until he gets the hint...ya know? if he doesnt take it them be like...do u wanna...and about the period thing...call him over whenever you ARENT on it!!! good luck and have fun!
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Most of my friends are gettin pregnat and getting herpes it is scaring me ... All my friends I thought were so much smarter than me are stupid and having sex already . I know you want to but you need to hold back .... I am scared that in a way I am gonna be forced into it .... Can you help ? (link)
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Well, BE THE SMART ONE (no offense to your friends) and DON'T have sex!!! And if you are afraid that you are going to be forced into it...try and stay away from it...stay away from people that you feel uncomfortable around....and if somebody does anything to you that you don't want...TELL SOMEBODY!!!! DO NOT BE AFRAID...THE LONGER YOU WAIT....THE MORE IT WILL HAPPEN...!!! I hope I helped!
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Okay.. let's see- I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. We are both around 16. Hes not to desperate to do anymore than we have.. He's went down my pants but thats the furthest we've got. We both talked about doing more, and we both want to. The only thing is i'm kind of nervous. Like everyone says giving handjobs/blowjobs come natural how to do it. but i dont think it's going to for me. or like him eating me out? Won't that just be weird. will i just lay there? I'm really ready to do this, but i just want to make sure i do everything right for him...
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Well, whenever he eats you out, you wont JUST be laying there, It will feel good and im sure you will moan...as for the lowjobs and handjobs...handjobs-it is basically like jacking a guy off...(well, duhh...) Dont grip it too tight, and go different speeds...if you feel that he isnt enjoying it ask him what he likes....blowjobs...i cant reall tell you HOW, but i can give you some tips...use your tongue, dont just suck it...use both, and since it is your first time, i wouldnt recommend deep throating, as it might result in you throwing up on him, unless you dont have any gag reflexes...and if you want it to seem like your deep throating, put your hand under your mouth...(well, what i mean is, where you cant go any farther) and go as the same motion your mouth is. And, kiss and lightly lick the head of his penis, they love it!! well, that is all i cant hink of 4 now...hope i helped
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alright, well me and my boyfriend like to have fun were both 13..and like the other day i was just like rubbing his 'thing' and stuff and then hes like...said all this stuff..but i ended up fingereing my self with out washing my hands is there a chance i can be pregnet?!
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No, you arne't pregnant, as long as he didnt bust!
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we havent done anything more than hold hands and hug. THe reason why i am affraid to go any further is because i am affraid that he is going to judge me because i have never made out with any body or anything, and he has. I am just scared i am not going to be able to do it right. What should i do?
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There is really no way to kiss, what I did, is I got him really wanting to know why I wouldn't go any further, tease him, be like, I want to tell you something, but I am not sure if you will still want to go out with me, things like that, then finally after you have had enough of him begging, tell him, everybody that I told has understood, or they haven't made out with anyone either. my last boyfriend (lasted for like 3 months) understood and even kissed me, didn't even complain that I was nervous and stuff. I hope that I helped a little bit, if you want, Email me and tell me how it goes, or if you have any questions, ask me: HaLlWaYfIeStA44@ev1.net
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Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne (link)
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Well, I am only 13 years old, and I have done way worse things than that. But that's not the point. It IS NOT your fault, he is your baby boy and he is growing up, I advise you to have a talk with him- maybe the sex talk. (but who knows these days, he probly already knows it all by now) If you or your husband don't feel comfortable, try getting a family friend (not the 17 year old) to try and talk with him. Maybe, even get him some condoms. (i know totally outrageous) but, if you don't he might end up doing to worng thing and having unprotected sex and getting an std or someone pregnant. But, the longer you wiat, the more he is going to experiment. He is going to experiment, but make him comfortable to talk to you anr your husband about it first. That is the best I can give you. I don't know if it made sense (I am hoping it did)
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I'm a chick.. I always stay with my best friend when she is home alone.. latly she has been asking me to experiment with her.. we have made out/french kissed.. you know, nothing "down there".. but she asked me if I ever wanted to experiment "dowthere" so we did.. just fingering.. but now she wants to emo.. what the fuck do I do?!?! (link)
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wtf does emo mean??? wait, does that mean eat. me. out.? oh well, tell her that u dont want to do those things with her, but if you want to go ahead.
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OK my best friend went out with this boy four about a month, and he broke up wid her....well now hes asking me to go out wid him and i really like him and he really likes me. But, i dont kno wut to do.... I mean she says its ok if i go out with him becuz hes been askin me everyday if i will but i keep saying i dont kno. If she says its ok should i?¿ PLz help me...... i RATE very well....
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ok, if I were you, I wouldn't. If he's not woth losing a friendship over, then no. because normally when someone says that they don't care if their friend goes out with their ex...it usually means the opposite....because later, she is going to get mad and hold all of that against you. then all this crap is going to happen.....or, if she REALLY don't care she is going to get jealous or feel odd (this happened with me and my best friend. except it ws my friend, and i was the one being a bitch) being around yall and start being a bitch without realizing it. I advise you to not go out with him.
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Alright me and my ex are really close and we talk about having sex alot...I mean all the time..I feel ready and I think Im ready...I'm only 14...He is 15...I have never hasd sex before and I'm not sure if I should wait or what I should do??? I mean he doesnt push me into anything and never has and never will... Will someone give me some advice on what to do??? (link)
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well, if you really feel that u are ready, then go for it..
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i need some advice please!! on thursday there isnt any school, so me and my boyfriend are planning to go out for a movie, and then over 2 his place. its just going to be us to, and of course we will be doing something! we both are ready to loose it, its just that:
1. im scared i COULD get pregnant
2. im just a lil nervous cause i dont know what to do
3. im sorta of on my period, im bleeding just a tiny, and what if i smell bad?! (link)
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Ok, I get ragged on all the time for having sex...even though people dont even know what's going on!! So, Im not going to judge you. 1) use a condom (make sure theres no sharp fingernails or anything. 2)I was nervous too, but HEY! it's ur first time and ur unexperienced. He should understand. It will come naturally!!! 3) maybe you should wanr him or something, thatta way when ever it happens he doesnt get all grossed out or sumthing. And if possible take a shower before you go over there and wash really good!!! I hope I helped!! if you have any more questions you can E-mail me at hallwayfiest44@ev1.net
P.S. HAVE FUN!!!!
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