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1st timer here!!
i need some advice please!! on thursday there isnt any school, so me and my boyfriend are planning to go out for a movie, and then over 2 his place. its just going to be us to, and of course we will be doing something! we both are ready to loose it, its just that:
1. im scared i COULD get pregnant
2. im just a lil nervous cause i dont know what to do
3. im sorta of on my period, im bleeding just a tiny, and what if i smell bad?!
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Okay, sweetie. nothing to be scared about. Just tell him whats going on. Tell him your scared you could get pregnet, nothing is certain. Make sure he has protection, and if you want maximum protection you should be on the pill. uMm..definitally dont have sex, or do anything if your on your period, or even at the end of it. Good luck with everything.
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Hey there. Okay. Yes, there is ALWAYS a chance of you getting pregnant. I'm guessing you are not on the pill, but even if you were you could still get pregnant. You should probley use condoms, not the glow in the dark kind, because they don't work. Flavored ones are kinda weak. Use Durax or Trogan. Strong and feel natural. Don't be nervous. Everyone has some kind of idea of what they are suppossed to do. Either from tv or something. It all comes natural when you get to the actual moment. If your that nervous, you should be on the bottom, therefore you really don't have to do anything but lay there. lol. I just recently found out that you should wait 2 days until after your period to have sex, because pentration can cause you to bleed again, or just whatever is left comes out when you orgasim. Anyways, one of the ways you canget rid of the little bit of blood that is there is to take a long, warm bath. That would also answer the smelling bad question. And when you have sex, don't be surprised that there'll be a bit of blood there. Your first time usually makes you bleed, but if you use tampons you won't have to worry about that.
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Hun..come on..you really want to have sex? you could spend the rest of your life with this boy? dont do it because all the people i kno who have had sex regret it because they know they wont be with this person forever..but if you do get pregnant...are you really ready to take care of a little baby who needs all the attention and care? so dont have sex till after your married because then youll know FOR SURE your ready! hope you make the right decision! bye mauhh!
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Do u live in McHenry County cause they dont have school... i go to south... if u've done everything else tho and u think ur ready i guess its ok... but idk... how old r u?? If u havent been with this guy for very long then i suggest u dont... o and um even if u have ur period just a little bit... DONT DO IT... u could end up pregnant!!! Hope i helped... good luck
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ok..i would say first..birth control....ok..and do not be surprised if he does not want to do anything..some men are freaked out by that stuff.
If you are too freaked out..wait...the first time..only comes around once..make it special..you will remember it all your life..ok...
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1. morning after pill,condems,birthcontrol pills
2. im sure he is more nervus then you are if not the same
3. if its your first time then when he pops ur chery then blood might be an issue
4. dont have sex if you think that you have to saying no can be hard but its better then regreting it till forever
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#1- make him wear a condom (even though they're not 100% percent safe and dont put on more than one to be "more" safe b/c then there's more chance of it ripping)
#2- if you're not 100% sure you wanna do it with him... DONT DO IT!
#3- wait until your period is gone (i mean ewwww how many guys wanna have sex with a girl with blood dripping from her and it smelling bad?)
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Well there is a chance that you can get pregnent.. and theres really no RIGHT WAY to have sex or whatever.. and i guess well if you have your period.. i dunno.. but if you arent ready.. then dont lose it to this guy..and only give up your virginity to him if you REALLY love him with all your heart <33 <33 <33
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stop yourself from having sex.
*Prillie*
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welllll lol this sounds familiar lol....hmm well my bf is scared of gettin me pregnate but im not too worried becuz ok if u use a condom and stuff im sure ull be fine!! and iif yer nervous u might not be ready lol...and as fer smelling just take a shower n u`ll be fine! good luck hun!
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don't have sex during ur period.. ew.
You should be..use a condom but u stil might get pregnant.
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well...
1.*use a condom!*
2.*if it's both your 1st time im sure he's nervous too so don't worry about that*
3.*if your bleeding a tiny bit you should be fine but try your hardest to take a shower right b4 or somin*
hope i helped.. email me if you got nemore ?'s
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1.use protection
2.if its his 1st time 2 i dont think he'll no realli wut 2 do so dont b nervous its new 4 both of u
3.tell him so he'll no and take a shower b4 and clean urself well!
hope i helped!
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Ok, I get ragged on all the time for having sex...even though people dont even know what's going on!! So, Im not going to judge you. 1) use a condom (make sure theres no sharp fingernails or anything. 2)I was nervous too, but HEY! it's ur first time and ur unexperienced. He should understand. It will come naturally!!! 3) maybe you should wanr him or something, thatta way when ever it happens he doesnt get all grossed out or sumthing. And if possible take a shower before you go over there and wash really good!!! I hope I helped!! if you have any more questions you can E-mail me at hallwayfiest44@ev1.net
P.S. HAVE FUN!!!!
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1)u should b scared
2)every 1 is usually nervous
3)take a shower and wash realli good
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I'm not judging you or anything, but don't you think if you're worrying about those 3 things then you're not exactly ready to have sex? If you're on your period& worried about getting pregnant..I'd atleast wait till you were off for awhile. It really will come naturally though, so if you're honestly ready..you shouldn't have anything to worry about. Be careful! -Amber
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well if u love to death this guy then lisen to your shelf. think is it worth it or not. if it is get condums . talk to him about it . if u do not want to do it then tell him and if he says come on and gets mad then he dose not really love u cause i real boy friend would understand.about the perod thing just do not let him down stairs if u know what i mean. wel hope this works.
sunny411
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well maybe you should just hold this off and let him know that... well its your time its gross but hey i dont think he wants to find out for himself and ues a condom if ya do
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well, if your scared about all this stuff, then maybe your NOT as ready as you think. here's soem thigns that MAY help you:
1) use a condom, i dont know how well that wil work...but try it anywayz or jsut wait until you get on the pill or the patch.
2) if it's your first tiem adn his first time, dont worry, niether of you know really what your doing. just tell him if it hurts or feels good or whatnot. you have to communicate
3) well, if your on your period, maybe that is a sign that you shouldnt do it...but, if you do, try to douche before hand. you can buy them at stores and make you smell fresh *down there*
good luck and i hope you and your boyfreind make the right desicion
Juelz
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well u shouldn't just loose it. u should have sex wid someone that u can trust and u like. but how old r u? r u ready to be a mother if u do get pregnant? and if u r going to give it up. then don't worry bout how bad or good u r. and don't do it on ur period. it's really nasty. srry if i didn't help
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1. You may do
2. You'll figure it out
3. You will
da da...magic.
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Firstly, whether you want to have sex or not with your boyfriend is mostly up to you. My only suggestion about that, is to be sure you want to do it, and to do it with him. Sometimes it's better when your first time is with a rookie, sometimes it's not. Now about your questions, pregrancy is something you should take seriously. Definately use condoms. If you want to use other ways to avoid pregnancy, consult a doctor first. Since your period hasn't ended yet, there is small chance of getting pregnant. If you have a normal period, usually cycle days 12-15 can result in pregnancy. It's very normal to be nervous since it's your first time. It's going to hurt a little but it's worth the pain. Try to help each other. It will only be you two that day so don't worry about being nervous. Finally, about the smell, just have a bath before you go out and wash your vagina well. He will not understand a thing. Good luck and have fun!
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We don't have school that day either. Something about veterens day.
1.) There is a possiblity, and if you are still in school, it's not the type of possibility you'd want to risk, unless you're like a senior, and your body is mature enough.
2.) Let him help you with that.
3.) Don't worry about the smell, wash your vagina as good as you can. And just a tip, you're at a higher risk of getting pregnant while you're on your period. SAFE SEX SAFE SEX SAFE SEX SAFE SEX!!! PRACTICE SAFE SEX!!!
If you do have sex, use a condom! Birth control won't help unless you've been taking it for a while. I suggest sticking to oral sex, it's pleasing for both guy and girl.
Oh, and head over to the local health department for some free condoms, and so YOUR BOTH CHECKED FOR STD's. If either of you have an STD, DON'T HAVE SEX!!!!!!!! If he does and you still want to, make sure he is wearing a condom and make sure it fits perfectly so it won't rip. I can't garuntee you anything, but if you're worried about consequences such as getting pregnant, maybe you aren't ready. I mean don't you want the person you have sex with to be the one your with forever?
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Hi!
Lucky you, no school. heehee. If you guys are ready to do it and are certain, then go for it. Get out some candles (not to many though, you don't want to go overboard) and some pillows and a nice blanket and just enjoy yourselves. I'm guessing that it'll be the first time for both of you, because you said you're both ready to lose it. If that's the case, then it may end up hurting, but it's soo worth it in the long run!! It only hurts for a little while.
If you are worried about getting pregant then use condoms and spermicide if you want to. Condoms at least though. If you are on any kind of birth control, then the condoms can be used as a backup method. Just be careful when it comes to the condoms.
About not knowing what to do, just do what you feel is right at the time. It sounds funny, but trust me, it makes things so much better!! You'll both end up enjoying it so much more if you just do something and don't really put much thought into it.
If you are still bleeding a little bit, then deffenatly use condoms. About smelling, just make sure you take a nice long shower (not only will it relax you, but it'll make sure you're clean)
I hope this helped somewhat. Good luck! If you have any more questions, leave one in my inbox =)
Emily
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