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Hey!! That a picture of me!! Okay, now about me, i have brown hair and brown eyes. My name is Melissa and im 15! I live in the beautiful state of California.Likes:_love the t.v. show Laguna Beach_ I watch like almost every episode_ Other Tv Shows I Like: Room Raiders, Date My Mom, Next, Friends, and like i said Laguna Beach!!_ I ABSOLOUTELY LOVE make.up_ clothes_ cats_ ( heres a picture of my cat. ---
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can you have sex while your pregnent?(serious question, no smart answers please.) all fives.

Yupp.

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Ok this could be long! I am in 8th grade and last year there was a kid in my class. EvEryone made fun of him and he was bipolar and had some mental problems. Well, yesterday 11/3. He attempted suicude for the second time. He jumped from the bak of a moving school bus and he is now in acoma. He broke his arm and probably his bak and neck too. He isn't dead though. ThEre was BLooD everywhere. The first time he tried to stab himself with scissors. I feel really bad because I was one to make fun of him. How can i make myself not feel so bad? ALl my freinds say im different since but im really scared for the kid. He seems like he could be nice. Plese help will rate. _-HeArtbreaker-__

OMG i feel so sorry for the kid!! There isnt much you can do. Hes bipolar. Its really hard to control your anger if you're bipolar. Go see him in the hospital and tell him you're really sorry for making fun of him, and that you will never do it again. Try to stand up for him whenever someone is making fun of him. It might make him feel better!

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when you have sex and your pregnant and you have it unprotected..
is there a chance of like getting twins or something??
like you know you have the chance of getting pregnant when a guy gets in you
but when you're pregnant and a guy gets in you is there a chance of getting pregnant again??

stupid question...

Nope. :D

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What's is mean when you like jacking yourslef? or something like that cause one kid at my school said that he saw this guy "jacking himself"? i dunno if that's the write word or not?

When a guy is masterbating, its called "jacking himself" or jacking off.

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this guy n i are really close n we both like each other, although were not together, and were ready to take the next step. *sex* is what were wanting from each other and im nervous and scared. im nervous because i dont want it to ruin our realtionship and im scared because im a virgin n hes not. what should i do?

You should talk to him and tell him how you feel. Tell him you're not ready yet. If he gets mad then forget about him. Your bf should respect you and not rush things through.

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alright.. not to gross anyone out, but i have a question. so i'm 15 & sexually active & have been for about half a year. well, me and my boyfriend stopped using condoms but when we dont, i guess you could say i "spit it out", but im not talking about with my mouth. i'm wondering, does anyone know why i do that?

It releases it because its not supposed to be there.... and you stopped using condoms?? Okey Dokey, but hopefully you dont come back to advicenators asking if you're pregnant. I suggest you use condoms.... unless you want kids.

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um....ok im 14 and im pregnant! my mom keeps on asking who the dad is but i dont even know....ive had sex 3 times and with 2 different guys...the first one was some guy i met on the internet about 24 AND the other guy i had sex with twice and he is 49 yrs old....i know there is tests to figure it out....but i dont know where to get that...at a hospital i guess....how do i tell my mom who the guy is anyway is what im asking...its either a 24 yr old or a 49 yr old....what should i do!!!!!???? please help... i will rate with anything

OMFG what the hell is wrong with you??? You had sex with a 24 year old and a 49 year old??!!! Take one of those tests that detirmine the father!! Next time think before you have sex with a 49, and 24 year old!! Also thats considered ILLEGSL because you are under the age of 18 and they are over that age!!! "Show me where yo head at," as a song goes.....

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whats the fastest way to get rid of a white head(like a pimple)

You pop it, then put toothpaste on it to reduce redness of the rest of the pimple.

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Today is health we learned about boners and such. The problem is my health teacher confused me. She explained boners which I fully understand but then she said that an organism is the same. However, last year and the year before that we learned an organism can only be obtained from having sex. So now I'm confused. Can someone explain this to me?

I think you meant orgasm. Well anyway, an orgasm can be reached by other things besides sex. Such as masterbation.
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how old should you be before having sex.

Ready enough to know all the risks, and that you do it because you love that person. Ready enough to tell your parents about it. Ready enough to use a condom properly or else....

You my friend, are not ready.

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does anybody know what foods make your boobs or but grow i think rasberrys make boobs grow but idk

Uhh food doesn't make your boobs bigger. Dont worry you probably still have time to grow!!
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