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im a female and i live in pa
i have brown hair with blonde streaks and green eyes .. i think
my birthday is Feb. 23

i play basketball.

i luv giving advice. its something i enjoy and im helping people also. even tho im still young i have been through alot; especailly with my family and friends. i will answer your questions to the best of my ability.

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ok i have friends but we only hang out in school and most of the time its in class so we cant talk we never hangout like on the weekends so i am bored out of my mind on weekends i ask them if they want to come over on the weekend but they are busy doing other stuff i am like a year older than most of them so maybe there to young to hangout like there moms are over pretective i dont know but what should i do and like what stuff should i plan to go.
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well see if they can go see a movie or go hang out at the mall .. or see if they want to do anything .. or you could see what people your age are doign and hang out with them ..

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i hav this friend (he is a guy) we r really good friend wen were with a couple of people but went we r in skool then he walks right by me like he doesnt even no me. it is kinda weird **wat should i do?????

yea i think i kinda no how u feel. at school just go up to him and talk to him...see how he acts. or in the halls say "hi" to him and see if he says hi back. and then u can come to a conclusion if hes using u or w/e....good luck

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ok so recently, in the past few months, ive turned into a bit of a bitch. i honestly dont know why. i get annoyed a lot easier. most of the time, i get jealous really easy. like for example, my friend found out that i had a advice column, so he decided he wanted one. well i got really mad because its my "thing" and i wanted it to myself. im selfish and im whiney. i dont know why im starting to be like this. i also started doing drugs, becoming more "sexual", looking at porn, being belemic, and a lot of stuff that i know will ruin my life. i cant stop. im losing all my friends, and ive already lost a lot of them. i just dont know what to do.

well try to change urself back if u dont like how u are now.

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ok so my x-best friends ruined my life for the past couple months n now they wanna be friends again.. do i say yes n get hurt again or hold a grudge?? or neither... HELP!!

well it depends in what they did. if u want to be friends with them than forgive them for what they did. but if u want to hold a grudge on them than do so. but did they mean to do all of that stuff. good luck

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hey i am a 13 cyr old gurl i live in pa i have like this one guy since 7th grade and i am really close w/ him now. i mean we talk alot and were good friends i want to tell him how i feel but i dont know how to go about help i know ur good at this hole advice thing.

well just tell him. maybe he feels the same. if that that good of friends with him then just dont ruin the relationship of u 2 being friends. but i would defitnitly tell him cuz maybe u 2 could have soemething..who knows..good luck

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k..my friend is out of town right now and i like her boyfriend..the other day we madeout in his truck when he drove me home..and we've been hanging out a lot since she left for thanksgiving..i feel really guilty but i just cant get him off of my mind..i like him way too much..and i dunno what to do!..i swear im gunna end up going crazy..what should i do??

well make sure that hes not just using u. cuz its a little weird that his gf is now outa town. but just wait to see how things go when she comes back..good luck

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What would you do if you liked a guy and you asked him out? He said that he would tell me Monday because I had to go. I don't know if he likes me, but all the others guys do not like me and think I'm a weird psychotic,crazy,mental person. PLEEZ HELP ME! Thanks!

just wait till monday to find out!

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I have a friend, sarah, and she has a boyfriend, john that I'm good friends with. Suddenly though, shes using me because her parents wont let her see john! i became some sort of lifeline, i call and she tells me what to say to john, she can be demanding, and im so f'ing sick of her shit. Should i ditch her? and also, i'm one of her only friends, people talk abotu her behind her back and stuff. keep her or lose her? any tips on making new friends? also, i dont want to end my friendship with john, he hanst doen anything wrong, but im sick of being used by sarah

thank you in advance, I'll rate you all

~Allysa

just tell her the truth about how u feel. if she doesnt understand than shes not that good of a friend..

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i have a friend, and she doesnt relize that all she does is follow one of her good friends around. this "good friend" of hers sometimes ignores her..when she feels like it..other times, its ok to talk to her. she will talk to her if she wants to, but if she doesnt feel like it, she will just ignore her. i tried telling my friend that she shouldnt just follow her around, and maybe shes not a good pick for a good friend, because she doesnt treat her like a good friend. she seemed to listen to me, but the next day, it was pretty much all back to normal. my friend says she likes hangin with me cuz she acts like herself around me..but then she just keeps hangin with her "good friend". it just doesnt seem like i should let that happen to her, but then again, its like its not my business.shood i keep buggin her bout it? or just let it go, and hope she realizes?

well ur being a good friend by telling her that but maybe u need to inform her "good friend" about that and see what the deal is. but it kinda isnt ur business just dont get to into it or anthing..good luck

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i've had a best friend for a few years now i don't no that much about her(only wut she lets me no) and she noes everything about me and has helped me through a lot of stuff in the past. Despite the fact i only no a little about her we have had a lot of fun times..Lately she's been ingoring me and i feel like she is just slowly pushing me out of her life...i don't want this to happen but i don't think she sees it coming or realizes itz happening. should i try talking to her or just move on and let go to all we had?

definitly, no doubt about it u have to talk to her about it. and dont stop talking to her about it until she realizes either whats happening or u figure out whats going on with her..best of luck..let me know how it works out!

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i really like my best friend hes really nice oh yea im a 13-f and he is 13-m hes like 4months younger than me but the thing is i like him so much and when we are alone we snuggle and stuff but i have a bf and when my bf found out from someone that we are doing this then my bf punched him! i slapped my bf across the face and i went to my best friend i told him how i felt but he just looked at me like i was a freak! but now when i talk to him and we snuggle we are a little more closer!! im sorta happy but i got really mad bc my EXbf now punched him and whenever i walk by my ex he either says sorry and he wants me back and he would be all touchy feely but i dont know if i should ask my best friend out? bc i dont think he really wants to have a gf but we were talking about this and he said he didnt exactly feel the same way i do but he told one of my close guy friends that he didnt know about that he likes me alot but wants to ask me out but dosnt know if i still like him

how can i show him that i still like him alot?!?!?


signed,

CONFUSED

let things play out. if u dont like ur ex anymore tell him. good luck...

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Ok. my friend and I have a rather odd relationship. We're good friends, and we talk all the time online, but we feel like we can't talk when we see each other because his other friends are there, and 3 out of the 4 of them that are there really don't like me for reasons I don't know. They don't like it that he even callls me a friend and I know, that sounds really stupid. I personally am not terribly worried about peer pressure, I'm pretty cool under it, but he's not. He lets things get to him. We're both kind of sick of hiding that we're friends, but telling the other guys to get over it won't help. The other guys think that's it terrible that he's friends with my best friend, (they don't like her much either) and both he and I know that they'd REALLY hate it if they knew that he was friends with me.
Any ideas of how to be able to admit we're friends, and not have anyone get hurt at all?

it shouldnt matter if u guys are friends. try to hang out with him more. but it woudlnt be fair to him if he had to pick. good luck

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OK...me and my best friend have been friends for about 4 years. we always talked about moving in together after high school and being friends forever. Well we are both seniors in high school and now that this time has come were both looking to get an apartment together. Well she met this kid who is 20 and he wants to move in with us too. I said that it was fine bc he is a really nice kid. Well she has another bf who doesn't know about this kid who is moving in with us. I really like her other boyfriend (as a friend) and i really like the kid who is moving in with us too. The problem is is that she is leading her other boyfriend into thinking that she is going to be with him forever. Ive tried to talk to her about it but she doesn't wanna listen. The only reason she is with this guy who is moving in with us is that he gives her everything she wants. He lets her drive and she doesn't have her permit or license and when im in the car with them i dont wanna get caught cuz i dont want my license taking away. Well i've tried and tried to talk to her about it but the only thing she says to me is that she needs to see her other bf (who lives and hour away...the guy who is moving in with us only lives 10 mins away) to decide whether or not she wants to be with him. Well we already looked at aprtments and are moving in the next 2 months. I dont know wut to tell her anymore because i dont want anyone to get hurt!! can someone please hlpe!! sorry this was long!! ill rate good!!

well since you have tried talking to her and that hasnt work. maybe you should try talking to the guys. that or tell her to choose one of the guys. because that really isnt fair to her boyfriend. good luck...i hope i helped..

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Okay so a few things happened and someway or another I ended up not spending enough time with my old friends and more time with my boyfriend and a new group of friends. It's come to a climax and now I have to choose. My best friends or my boyfriend. I love my boyfriend more than anything on this planet and he makes me the happiest alive. No amount of: friend's come first will change that. I don't know what to do.

well why do you have to choose, ppl shouldnt make u choose between them. but good luck.

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(*Names changed to protect the innocent)
My Boyfriend *Mickie is the so sweet and nice to me! I really like him...he is also very cute. He treats me like a princess. Well before Mickie asked me out i had a big crush on *Ronnie but Mickie asked me out and i forgot about it for awhile. Lately I find myself flirting with Ronnie, and i like it. I am really drawn to him. But i dont want to break up with mickie...he is so nice.

its all ur decision. find out which one you like more. which one makes you more happier the one that you think you will have a future with. good luck!

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Hey yawl i have a question,ok here it goes.im in the popular group (not to be conceited)but my friends are too and well they kindof get on my nerves sometimes.they brag alot,and they think they are all that and that they are the best things in the world.and they r really bossy.oh yeah we are all girls.and they are always always annoying me.should i tell them how i feel?or let them keep on? thanx Haley

well if u tell them how u feel you could lose them. try to act they way u want them to act and they may follow. that or u could point little things out to them that annoy u every so often. but dont make a big deal over it. good luck,...let me know how things work out.

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my best friend Kelleye is like 15 n i try to be there her as much i as i can...i hadn't seen her in like 3days till today (shes been in ISS) well i saw her n i kind of looked down at her arm n saw scares on her the 1st thing i did was grabed her arm n was like wtf is this...n she jst looked at me n left i grabed her n i was like Kelleye are u cutting ur self again...she jst looked at me n she jst walked away from me n i was like Kelleye come here...she wouldn't come back n i'm so scared...cuz i was talking to her ec-boyfriend n we think she might try n kill her self....i'm so scared for her...cuz shes knew to our skool...all her friends go to LHS n she goes to GHS w/ me...n i don't know wat to do...i jst need to know how i can help her?..

u need to just talk to her...obviously she thinks that physical pain is better than emotional. but its not. tell her that whatever is bothering her that she can tell u and u two can work it out instead of her working it out in a dangerous way.good luck...let me no how it goes.

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Hey Hey,

Well one of my friends hurts herself becasue she is depressed and I found this out from another friend and I wrote a letter to the friend that was hurtin herself that she shouldn't do that and that too many ppl love her and that we don't know what we would do without her and she said that she just needs ppl to understand her and I said I would. But now the friend that told me about my depressed friend is mad at me because I supposidily promised her that I wouldn't tell anyone that I knew. I don't know what to do. Should I forget it? The friend that is mad at me was one of my best friends. HELP!

aright right now you need to focus on the one who needs help. just comfort her. soon ur other friend will relize what you did was for the better and not for the worse. good luck..

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This is gunna be long so be ready, but please help! im driving myself crazy not knowing what to do... ok, i've been going out with my boyfriend for a little over 3 months, and i like him alot, but our relationship is 'dying' and he doesn't know what he wants to do with it and i wanna know how to bring it back up again, i think that we should hang out more like we used to in the summer but then school started and we stopped hanging out, but it doesn't seem like he wants to hang out now. but hes so odd, cuz at times he wont even acknowledge my presense, then 20 minutes later he'll be all over me, and hes so protective of me... like there this one kid that keeps calling me and he's trying to get with me and my boyfriend hates that and wants this kid to stop, and i dont see why he would be so protective of me if he doesn't want to go out. and i know if we just hang out once outside of school then our relationship would be great again, cause then we could do wat we used to.
soo....

1) what do you think he wants to do (break up, not break up etc.)

2) what should i do to bring my relationship back up?

PLEASE HELP!!! i rate high

id say dont break up. and try to find a time when u and him have nothing going on and just hang out and talk about what is going on and everything. good luck..

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I was talking to my ex and he said that my bestfriend "buth" said something about the guy i liked. I think it was something like, "he doesn't like her like that, and they'll never got out!" I don't know what to do. I'm totally lost in waht i should do. Should I ask her if she said something like that or what?

definitely ask her if she said it or not. cuz maybe that is just what someone said to make u mad at her. whos knows. so go and find out the truth.

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