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Anybody have any inexpensive hangout ideas? Like not the movies, bowling, etc. And no sleepovers because my friend cant sleep over when we hang out tomorrow. Anybody have any good ideas?
as the girl below me said,
shoppingg.
also,
- go to a local beach.
- arcade.
- walk around downtown.
- the park.
- check and see if theres any local bands playing.
- a cafe.
hope i helpeddd. C:
have fun.
okay so i am finally over this guy that i have liked/loved for almost two years. Now there is this other guy that i am getting close to and we might be going out. But for some reason none of my friends are supporting me... and the reason they arent supporting me is because they want me to go out with my bff who is a girl!!! I have no clue what to do and i really need your guys help. I REALLY lie this new guy and all my friends to is talk shit about him to me. And right now my "BFF" tells me that she thinks this guy is using me because hes depperate. I dnt want to believe what she is teling me but idk. Should i ask the guy or just forge5t aboutit.....
The problem with doing whatever your friends say, is that it might not always be what your heart wants. Keep on letting others make your romantic choices, and you could end up with a boyfriend who everyone approves of... but who doesn't really make you happy.
Forget the fact that if these people were really your friends, they would accept who you choose as a boyfriend, no matter what clique he's in. Forget that if you bossed around some of these people, they'd probably either ignore you or tell you to MYOB. Forget that you're the one who has to spend time with the guy you date, not them, and it doesn't matter what your friend thinks. Forget that in not too many years from now, school will be over and cliques will be meaningless anyway. Yep, forget all that.
Just worry about this. In life, you can choose to be a leader (at least of your own self), or a follower. The life of a follower is generally a lame one. You end up being pushed around at the whims of others, and never doing what you really desire, because you're afraid of what the crowd (or your inner circle) say.
My advice to you is, date who you like, and don't date who you don't like. Period. Simple as that. If you like your boyfriend, stick with him. Don't give in to peer pressure, or go back to a more-popular ex. If all your friends approved of your current guy, do you think you'd still miss the old one so much? Most relationships break up for a reason, so maybe it's best that you're in a new relationship and moving on.
Of course, only you know what's really in your heart. If you feel that your ex was and is the best guy for you. try striking up a friendship (or at least a conversation) with him again. Let him know you miss him in your life, and wouldn't mind hanging out. You can always see how it goes as friends, and if he treats you well. If so, you can think about whether you should be with him again.
But for now, give your geek a chance. Tell your so-called friends that you like this guy, and as long as he treats you with respect, you're going to date him. Be clear that they don't have to love him, but they do have to respect your right to choose your own boyfriend. That is, if they want to continue to call you "friend".
i wanted to send my old bestfriend a scrap book. ANd i wanted to put poems in there not sad ones but poems saying what happend and why did we grow apart ya know.. So if anyone has any good poem sites or ideas it would be very great thanksss
there are a ton of cute qutoes on xanga.com on the top theres a few tabs..click on blogrings and then search quotes.
This guy has been going out with his girlfriend for a long time. I just moved to a different city a couple months ago,and i made a lot of friends, including him. he's like one of my best friends, nad i hug him like everyday. i'm not the one who'd mess around with another girl's boyfriend, ecspecially when she's one of my friends. that's against my morals. but recently, his hands have been wandering around where i feel is inappropriate since he has a girlfriend. he'll try to touch my butt, or he'll hug me a little too close(i can feel some things that i shouldn't if you know what i mean...). i tell him to stop or will push him away, but he keeps doing it. he even asked me out when he's still going out with his girlfriend! should i tell his girlfriend that she needs to watch him a little more closely? i don't want her to think that i'm trying to break them up, because she's knows that we're real close friends, and i don't want to seem jealous.
Alright well obviously this guy likes you more that just friends but i wouldnt nessesarily worry his girlfriend about it..because if this guy finds out you told her it will probally ruin your friendship..i would just talk to this guy and tell him how you feel, you dont feel comfortable messing around when he has a gf and your not intrested in him in that way..and after that i would avoid hugging or flirting with him it might give him mixed signals and i bet it probally worries her..hope i helped deff. keep me updated and tell me how it goes
Hey everybody. My problem is this: I'm so sick of being shy.It's ruining my life! I know some people say to just be yourself, but its very hard for me to do that. How do I just let loose? It seems so easy for people to just be themself. If you don't mind sharing with me, how do you do that?? Thanks. Any advice is appreciated. :)
Okay well i have been in the same situation. I used to be horrified to talk to guys...Now i have a ton of guy friends. What really helped me was i would get the guys i kind of wanted to meet and become friends with screen name from friends. I would add them..start talking to them online and online i wouldnt be as shy. So we would talk about stupid stuff and make up little silly inside jokes. So then when i did feel comfortable enough with them i would just go up to them in the halls and we would have things to talk about like if we made up silly nicknames or something i would just like bring it up..im not sure if this is your problem but i hope i helped...keep me updated!! Hope everything works out just try to be confident :]]