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a girl i dont know that well, but is good friends with my good friends invited me 2 her b-day party, but i was gonna be on vacation, so i told her that and said i couldn't come. she called me a month later and invited me to another party, but i was really really mad at the moment. and i bitchily said "i'm busy" halfway through her sentance and she was like "oh... ok" and i said "bye" and hung up. i called back and apologized once i had cooled down a bit, and explained it was just my mood. but she's been telling her friends (mine too) that she thinks i hate her. any suggestions to make her realize i have nothing against her (and start getting invited to her parties again, because it sucks, cuz she has them all the time and i'm never invited anymore) (link)
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Explain to her that you don't hate her and that you had to go on vacation the first time. Then tell her you were in a very bad mood the second time. Tell her you want to be invited to her parties.
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ok there is this kid he wants me dead and i didnt do anything to him!! what should i do? hes nice to eevryone else but not me! i need help! badly! (link)
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Talk to him about it. If he refuses to say anything to you about it and he seems pretty serious about the whole wanting you dead, tell someone. He could really be serious!
-Brianna
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There's this new guy at our school. We've already become really good friends and I've introduced him to some other people. But he doesn't seem to open up in public. (like on AIM we talk for hours, but at school it's just a simple "Hi") What can I do to make him feel more welcome? (link)
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Just start talking to him in school like you would online. He is new, so of course he is going to be shy. Make him feel like he's been there forever.
-Brianna
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Well, my B-day is exactly one month from now(may 21st) and i was wondering if anyone had any ideas of kinds of (inexpensive) guy-girl parties. I was thinkin of a kind of message thing with the clues where you have to find them and then they lead you somewhere, but i dunno. I live right next door to a school where there is a soccer/baseball/hardtop. Any suggestions? I rate HIGH! Thanks!
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If you have a pool, have a pool party. Scavenger hunts, you can play soccer, or even make up your own games. Have fun.
-Brianna
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There is a small group of about 4 families and we usually have these dinner get-togethers on weekends sometimes. They're usually pretty boring for me because all the kids are guys, and they're all about 4 years older than me (I'm 13/f by the way). It's our turn to have one this weekend, the 29th, and on the same day is my friend's pool party, one of the best parties of the year and me and my friends go every time. Of course I wouldn't mind skipping this get-together for the party, but it just happeneds to be my mom's birthday the same day, so we're atchually inviting a lot of families, some including a few of my friends. I was planning on leaving my house at 9 (they usually last from about 7-12am) and going to the party, but I don't want to leave my friends hanging, and I know it'll be boring for them if I leave. I don't think I can take them to the party because they go to different schools and they're definatly not the type who will like this kind of party (trust me). I know it sounds selfish, but I REALLY want to go to this party, I haven't done much for the past few weekends. Sorry this is so long, but Which one should I go to? (link)
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Hey talk to your mom about it. Tell her that you really want to go and your sorry that it's the same night as the other get together and her birthday. Also, tell her that you and your friends always go to these and its alot more fun than the parties you have on the weekends. I am sure she will understand!
-Brianna
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My friends birthday is tomarrow and i have no idea what to get her! shes not into makeup or anything like that...shes more of a tomboy....i have no idea what to get for her...shes 15....we dont really hang out alot so i wouldnt know stuff that she likes!! could somebody please help me? thanks (link)
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You can always ask her what she wants. I would give her like 20 bucks or something. Then, she could pick what she wants to spend it on and you won't have to worry about it!
-Brianna
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I'm really against drugs. But no matter where I go, there's always people doing them. One of my (old) best friends promised me that he would never do drugs, and now he's a total stoner, and we never hang out anymore. I feel like he thinks I'm not good enough. I don't know what I need to do to escape from this, but it feels like there's no one I can turn to, because even the people that I trust most have tried them. I feel alone..becuase I know I will never try them. (link)
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Well I am glad that you are smart enough not to do them. That really sucks to hear about one of your best friends becoming a stoner. If you still want to be friends with him, talk to him about it. Maybe you can help him. Don't feel alone, there are alot of people that haven't tried drugs. If it bothers you that bad, you should try to find friends that are don't do them! Then you won't feel alone.
-Brianna
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ok i like this guy, but my friend likes him too. but the problem is that everytime i like a guy she likes him too. its so annoying. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
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Ugh, that sucks! Tell her that you don't like how every time you like someone, she does too. Maybe she just wants to be like you and she looks up to you! Lol, tell her it annoys you. She will understand.
-Brianna
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Hello!!! My friend and I have been friends for about 4 years now. Lately she has been acting shady and not herself. I dont think I did anything wrong to her and I dont know what to do?!? Should I just ask her whats up or what?! By the way .... u are veryyyyyyyy pretty!! =)
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Maybe she is just in a bad mood lately. If I were you, I would talk to her about the whole thing. Something could be bothering her! Good luck and thank you very much!
-Brianna
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Well i new my bff for 9 years now, and i was moved away in a different state for seven of them (but we kept in touch, i visited constintly) but now we are losing a bff style, like whenever i call she has to go, or if she doesnt she'll proply hang up on me in a few minutes anyway. i cant trust her because she always lies to me and brakes promises and tells secrets.i am really starting to dislike her, but never the less i have known her and was her bff for 9 years now, and she used to be so kind and sweet to me (its only been a year where she was rude to me) i miss her being the way she was. please help me! (link)
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Aww, I am sorry to hear that. Talk to her about how you feel and tell her that you don't like her making up excuses, lieing to you, and telling your secrets. She isn't a friend if she does all that to you!
-Brianna
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im way confused right now. my 8th grade year is almost up and me and my frineds are driftin apart because of me. i really like this guy that my friend likes but we never had a problem with it. now all i do is talk to him because he likes to flrt with me a lot and so i kinda leave my friends so i can only talk to him. now there kinda driftin apert from me. i no its my falt and i feel really bad. i just really like this guy and i like the kinda attention he gives me. i dont want to not be friends with my other friends i just dont no wat to do because i cant stop flirtin with that one guy i cant do it i like the attention to much. what should i do. (link)
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You should never put a guy before a friend. Yeah sure you like the attention he gives you, but will he always be there for you? Chances are he won't. But, your friends most likely will. If you are drifting apart from your friends now and you stop liking that guy, who will you have then?
-Brianna
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Its my birthday in may, and i dont no what to do. Any ideas? my mum said garden party think that would be a good idea??
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Have a pool party if you have a pool. If you like gardening, then yea have a garden party. You can always have a slumber party too. Those are always fun.
-Brianna
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Yeah...so my friend is staying at my house for a week because her parents are out of town. But my house is so....BORING! And the TV is broken, so that pretty much stinks. =( Any ideas what we can do??? ITS SOOOO BORING!!!! lol
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Talk abut girl things, paint your nails, go on the computer, go shopping, go to the movies, have pillow fights. It won't be that hard to think of things!
-Brianna
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My friend and I used to be really close and we told each other everything. Recently she changed her personality, her type of music, her interest in types of clothes. She also has began slagging people she doesn't even know. She says she hates people who judge and stereotype but she does it 24/7. She slags of all my mates, which hurts my feelings(yes I know that sounds gay.) She now has new friends "Skater mates" (sorry for stereotyping)which I don't mind but I don't slag them of if they piss me of like her. I feel really out of place when I'm with her and her new friends. Somethings I wonder if this drifting apart is due to me being a guy(16) anf her being a girl (14.) Maybe that one of my excuses. Any gental tips that I could say to her to make her stop slagging and to realise that her changes have effected me. That sounds shallow sorry! (link)
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Talk to her about how she is "slagging" on your friends and that you don't do it to hers. Also, tell her she is being hypocritical about the whole thing. All you really can do is talk to her about her changes and how she treats your friends! Sorry and good luck.
-Brianna
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I was talking to this girl from my class on the phone today and I realized that she is pretty cool and I want to be friends with her. The thing is that she is not very popular and I'm afraid that if I start hanging out with her, my other friends won't want to hang with me and might diss me. Am I being shallow or stupid? And what should I do? (link)
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Yea, you are being a little shallow. Maybe they will be assholes to you, but that is just because they don't know her. They are your friends though, they shouldn't get mad at you for stuff like that. Be friends with whoever you want.
-Brianna
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ok..i really screwed up, i know. heres my story. my BEST friend was going out with this guy for like 4 months, then they broke up for no particular reason, just that it wasnt really working out. but i became sort of friends with him while they were together. all my other friends said during the time they were together that the way he looked at me was as if he liked me and all that. i took no notice because i didnt want my to hurt my friend. once they broke up... and about 2 months later he called me and asked me if he could come over. i said yes. we rented some movies and watched them. then we started fooling around and one thing led to another and we were all over each other and making out! we didnt have sex though. he left and i felt enormous amounts of guilt because i promised myself and my best friend that nothing would ever happen between me and him. i didnt want to tell her but i figured she had a right to know. i asked other people about what to do and almost all of them said that i should tell her. so 4 days later i did. she didnt take it so well. she hasnt talked to me since. she has sent me messages of abuse, turned my other friends against me, wont talk to me about it. i say to her that i will talk when shes ready to talk- she says shes not ready yet..then sends me messages saying that i am avoiding her- i am just giving her the space she needs or wants rather. all i am asking is what should the next step that i take be?? should i confront her to her face and tell her that we are talking about this now whether you like it or not...or just leave it!!?? Please help me! i am really stuck. (link)
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I think you should give it more time and let her cool down, then talk to her whether she likes it or not. She already knows, so why can't she just talk about it? Good luck.
-Brianna
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okay well my so called best friend has been ignoring me and talking a bunch of shit and calling me a bitch and everything like that and she's been doing this for like 2 weeks now. and i asked her why she called me a bitch and she started spazzing out about how me and my other friend ditch her all the time but i couldn't have been ditching her because she won't give me the time of day to do that she does this to me every year she can hang out with whoever she wants but when i start to hang out with someone else she gets all pissy about it..i don't know what to do anymore? i rate good/ (link)
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She sounds like a terrible friend. She just sounds jealous. A real friend wouldn't get pissed because you are hanging out with someone that is not her then talk behind your back. Just ask her why she can hang out with whoever she wants but you can't and why she can talk behind your back about it! Good luck.
-Brianna
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gey well my good friend monica likes my ex boyfriend jeremy well jeremmy likes her and i dont want them to go out b/c the thought about my best friend and my ex it hurts okay she has alwaysed liked him and hel iked her to but i am with this guy and i cant get jeremy out of my head we have been broke up for a week now. so anyways how can i not let it bother me see he wants a girlfriend so he can get his mind off me and i am all he thinks about and i told him if you go out with monica it will harder for you to get over me b/c she is my best friend well one of them. see what i really need help on is should i let them go out and if i do will i stop our friendship b/c she knows that i still have feelings for him and she knows it kills me but do you think i can get through it? i mean i know i have a boyfriend and everything but he is 4 yrs older than me and i am 16 and jeremy is 16 monica is 16 so i want him back but if monica goes out with him do i need to break off our friendship? i am so confused plz help (link)
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Ugh that sucks. If she knows that you still like him, she would deff. not go out with him. Friends are not suppose to go out with their best friends ex boyfriend! Tell her how you feel, and if she still does go for him, she is no a true friend. Hope I've helped.
-Brianna
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My friends and I are trying to get this one boy from my classical music class to start to appreciate rock music and rap music, pop music etc. He isn't responding to most of it and is giving answers to rap music like, "You don't know what he's saying!!" Is there an easy way to introduce him to this type of music? (link)
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You can't make someone like a certain type of music.
-Brianna
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I'm a shy girl (13/f) and I always feel lonely. I was wondering what's an easy way to make new friends? (link)
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Try overcoming your fear of being shy I guess. Just don't think about being nervous or shy when talking to some one!
-Brianna
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