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a girl i dont know that well, but is good friends with my good friends invited me 2 her b-day party, but i was gonna be on vacation, so i told her that and said i couldn't come. she called me a month later and invited me to another party, but i was really really mad at the moment. and i bitchily said "i'm busy" halfway through her sentance and she was like "oh... ok" and i said "bye" and hung up. i called back and apologized once i had cooled down a bit, and explained it was just my mood. but she's been telling her friends (mine too) that she thinks i hate her. any suggestions to make her realize i have nothing against her (and start getting invited to her parties again, because it sucks, cuz she has them all the time and i'm never invited anymore)
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Just tell "look I'm really sorry about my moods and I'm am really sorry that I made you think I hate you. But I don't, can you forgive."
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well a few people have told you to talk things out with her, which im sure youve thought of, so heres my suggestion, invite her to a party. doesnt have to be one of yours, just one youre going to.
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Explain to her that you don't hate her and that you had to go on vacation the first time. Then tell her you were in a very bad mood the second time. Tell her you want to be invited to her parties.
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Tell her you don't hate her and would love to come to her parties. It's that simple. You've already apologized for your bad mood, but its not suprising she still thinks you have something against her. Spread the word to your friends too, they'll help you convince her.
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Hi! ...Maybe if you asked her if she wanted to hang out during lunch. And if she accepts tell her "so, how was that party you had?" (the one she invited you but you didn't go to) "was it fun? I really wanted to go but I couldn't because I had to go on vacation that week" (or say whatever the reason you couldn't go was) Then she will tell you that she is having another party soon and she will ask you if you'd like to go, and you should answer "I'd love to!" and that will undo that crappy vibe she got from you. Another thing to do is whenever you see her say "hi" or offer her bubble gum or something. Also, if you have her phone number, try calling her every so often just to say "hi" and that will make you guys be friends and she will remember you whenever she has parties and invite you. Seriously, try it and IT WILL WORK! Well my best wishes!!
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