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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo.
"i refuse to sink."

advice

Okay, so me and my friends plus others fraught all last semester, and things have just been settled. I suggested a clique to ensure that we all get along and that our group is tighter and more united-we think there will be much less drama then. We're a group of four girls, and we have different styles. I need names like Flirtatologist or Glossy Posse or something like that. And please, don't tell me that cliques are overrated. I've seen Mean Girls and all the chic flicks, and really, that's what's going on at every school. Thanks!

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Me and my friend Rylee have been friends since 2nd grade now we are sophmores in highschool and we have growen distent she always picks boys over me and i always invite her to my birthdays and she and she hasnt invited me to one of here since 5th grade. When I go to her house i always want to talk and go jump on the trampoline and she is always busy on the internet. What could this mean help me please

it seems like yo guys are growing apart and you both are at different stages of your lives.
but it doesnt mean you guys arent friends, just n not as close as you both used to be.
you have to realize that as people get older, things change about them and about the friendships/relationships. sometimes, you need to let people go and fine someone else or another group of friends to hang out with that want to do a lot of the stuff you do.
you should talk to her about it, and tell her how you feel. communication is key. but growing apart is a factor of life.. but it doesnt mean you guys will stop being friends.. anything can change. no one can predict the future :]
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.

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Ok...So last friday there was this pool party at my friend esmereldas house...&& i noticed my boyfriend Julio, && my best friend go into the bathroom together...I heard screaming && moaning...so i slammed the door open...Then i seen them havin sex...&& i started cryin' But then my bf said "Hey bbi yu wanna join" I said "Fuck yu"...&& Ran off...My bestie told me she waz sryy...But i still hate her..&& Julio.!!>:(( Wht do i do.?!! Please please help me.! :'(

dump him.
and forget her.
if she was so sorry and really your best friend, she wouldnt have been having sex with him in the first place. and if he loved you, he wouldnt have even THOUGHT about doing that, especially with your "best friend."
people make mistakes, yeah, but this was intentional. and he is an asshole.
move on.
im so sorry this happened to you :[ :/ feel better. youll find someone else soooo much better, i promise. and for your friend ? dont even talk to her, neither of them deserve you. youre too good for them.
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.

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Me and my friend had a sleepover last night and he wanted to cuddle with me and we started kissing and we had sex ! He's my best friend and were not even dating we were just playing with each other. But I do have a boyfriend. How do I tell him i slept with another guy ? What should I do ?

you cheated.
its something you need to come to terms with.

and you now you need to tell your boyfriend what happened. if you dont tell him and he finds out later on from you or someone else, it will end very badly.. it always does.
and yes, when you tell him, he MIGHT break up with you, but he will be hurt, especially if he loves you. if he doesnt love you, he'll just shrug it off.. because he wont care.
but you need to do this in person.. over tex, or the phone will make it worse. you have to have the courage to say it to his face or he'll think you dont respect him even more. you just need to ask him to hang out, somewhere private like your house or his or something.. maybe even a secluded park, because he might freak out.. i know i would. but be gentle, and own up to EXACTLY what you did.. never ever try to make it sound less than what it actually was.

the fact of the matter is still that you made a mistake. people make mistakes, youre only human, but remember to put yourself in his shoes and ask yourself what you would want him to say/do if he did this to you.
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.

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I am a thirteen year old girl, and he is a fourteen year old guy and we are both in the eighth grade (almost Freshmen)

So, my best friend and I got in a fight for the twentieth time this month it seems, but he claims it is always ME. that starts it. We are project partners for a 30 minute documentary that is due next week, and I have done ALL the work. he has gone off ice skating while I filmed, and so many other times has he blown me off. He also left me for the ENTIRE science project, which I did an A+ job on and he got credit. I calmly asked him to help in the project more, thinking that he would be cool about the situation but no. He literally YELLS at me in the hallway, and making me embarrassed in front of everyone in the hallway.

I simply asked him a question for him to help more, and he hasn't talked to me since calling me dramatic to other people. all of his friends are against me, which is practically the whole eighth grade. Should I apologize, or should I just be brave and stay like this for the last eight days of school?

i know EXACTLY how you feel [about the whole yelling at you in the hallways and embarassing you in front of everyone, ugh.]
honestly. he seems like a slacker and if hes your best friend, then this is not the way to show it.
if i were you, i would stand up for myself. your best friend is publicly humiliating you, blaming you for things that are HIS fault, and not taking responsibility for anything. YOU have nothing to apologize for.
so i think that you should stand up for yourself and not let this slide.. but if you dont want to do that, then just let it go.. only 8 days left.. right ? :]
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.

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I always feel negative about people. I think im being selfish and crab mental. Im pretty much aware of what im thinking and it bothers me alot when its already not good. like, I dont like when someone has a higher grade than me. i dont like someone being praised. i always want everything to be me, the beautuful, the smart! what a i gonna do?

You just have to remember that there will always be someone in life thats going to be your competition or someone who can do something better than you.. its just life.
if you spend every waking moment you have on trying to accomplish the impossible [and when i say impossible, i mean being perfect] then you are going to be unhappy.
Just focus on being the best person you can be, without thinking about the negatives or what you can improve on.

good luck ! hope i helped, xxo :]

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I am always afraid of what others would think of me.
I am restrained in doing things i want just because i might disappoint others and would break their expectation with me. what am i going to do?

You just have to think of you..
i know, i know, youre probably thinking, "easy for you to say." but its not. everyone goes through this, its human nature.. even if people dont admit it, everyone wants to please someone else, not themselves.
my boyfriend is actually sorta going through this right now. and you really have to just get your priorities straight. you have to think about what you want out of life. do you want to be that person who changes all of the time depending on who youre around ? do you want to waste all of your energy on trying to be what you think people want you to be ?
look at it this way: youre not being fair to you or anyone else when you restain yourself in doing things because you dont want to maybe dissapoint anyone with your actions.. its kind of like one big web of lies.. and at some point, that web is going to either get so big that you dont even know who you are, or its going to fall apart.
my advice is to just take some time alone right now, and get to know who you are. you need to know that yeah, people will judge you no matter what you do, so why not just be you ? and the people who want to stick around are awesome, and those who dont werent good for you in the first place.
this is all up to you. do you want to keep living the way you are ? .. its not going to change in a matter of days, its going to take time, but you can do it.
good luck, hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.

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So , I had this best friend for four years. All of a sudden she stopped talking to me. She does this sometimes but never this long. It's been since about January or February since we've talked. I don't understand why she doesn't talk to me. Maybe because I found other best friends. I don't know. What should I do ?

a lot of girls get jealous, especially when they have a best friend who they think has the potential to have "other friends"
its sort of like a possesive thing, she always wants you to NEED her friendship and then they get kind of jealous. this has happened to me before, and she actually still doesnt talk to me, but i did find out why she does what she does.
what you should do is let her come to you. if you go to her, she'll try to bluntly or sneakily make you ditch your new best friends. and what she is doing [not talking to you] is NOT being a "best friend" its being an immature little girl who cant stand that YOU have actual REAL friends. its not right that she is doing this to you, and you just have to let it go. people change, just like the seasons change. and your new best friends havent ditched you, so talk to them about this and what is happening with your "best friend" that hasnt talked to you since january. if she really was your best friend, she wouldnt have stopped talking to you.
you should just let it go for now. if you talk to her, drama might start, and i know that drama is NOT fun at all. just have a good time with your new friends and let things be :] since shes done this before for no reason, then it will keep on happening no matter what you do. talking wont help, and she cant be reasoned with at this point. its been a very long time since youve both talked and if she wanted to talk to you or be your friend, then she would.
you have people who love you and care about you and will ALWAYS be there for you. so unless she talks to you, ignore it. things will work out on their own, i promise :]
good luck ! have fun with your life and just be you. you didnt do ANYTHING wrong, so dont worry. none of this is your fault. hope i helped, if you need anything else, you know how to reach me :] xxo.

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My bestfriend asked me if she could go out wit my ex-boyfriend whom i had dated 4 about 10 months before we broke up. I wondered why she would take interest in someone she barely knew. Later i found out that she had been talking to him behind my back. So i told her we couldnt be friends anymore and i haven't talked 2 her 4 about a year and my ex-boyfriend, whom i still remained friends with after the breakup, is not apart of my circle of friends any longer. So my question is "Did I Do The Right Thing By Cutting Them Both Off?"

i mean, 10 months IS a long time. so you had a right to be mad, and you felt like she betrayed you.. which she did.
she was talking to him behind your back and then when the opportunity came to be in a relatonship with him, she THEN asked you if she could be his girlfriend .. like, thats low. if she wanted to keep the both of you in her life, she would have told you right off the bat that she was talking to him BEFORE she wanted more.
and its kind of an unspoken rule for your best friends to NOT go out with your exboyfriends of like, 10 months. its just not right and obviously, its going to be awkward and make you mad/upset.
so in my oppinion, yes, you did do the right thing by cutting them both off. never second guess yourself. you followed your heart and cut them off so you could feel better. but my opinion doesnt matter, the only thing that matters is if YOU think you did the right thing. but again, yes, i think you did the right thing. i believe that anyone in your situation would have done exactly what you did .. including me.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, you know how to reach me :] xxo.

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Thank you so much. i believed this is 100% true. am just going to let her be . am not even going to connfront her or any of that . Thats not going to fix anything.. since she has anger problems ..what i aslo think is that she is hardly in school and she does bad in classes,and she is a senior, i really dont think she is going to graduate..so since this is happening she probably wants to fight me so then people could think she is not graduating because she fought..which is really pathetic. !

exactly ! and thats clearly so not you to start a fight, you're better than that, so good for you. i give you alot of credit for letting this go. obviously just stay stellar :] and im glad to help anytime, xxo.

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So today I got asked to prom. I don't know the guy who asked me that well, but we're kind of in the same friend "circle"

Well anyway, when he asked me it was reallyyyy awkward, and that just got me thinking, how awkward will it be on prom night??
I'm really scared!! I mean I have to dance with him and everything, and I already act dumb enough around guys on a typical day, so I cannot imagine how embarrassing I will act.

So do you guys have any tips? Like how I can calm my nerves, or maybe get to know him better?
ANYTHING is appreciated! Thank you so much! :]

awww :] okay well, first of all, take a deep breath and let it out. you are going to be fine, and it will only be awkward if you THINK it will be. [mind over matter]
and also know that you will be with ALOT of other people.. all of your classmates and friends. you're not going to be alone with him and you wont have to dance with him or be with just him the whole time. most people venture off with their friends for a while and chill with them, just becase you were asked by him does not, by any means, make you obligated to be glued to him the entire night.
with that said, dont think about it so much. youre going to drive yourself insane. i mean, im sure he is just as nervous as you, even though your probably think that hes not. these things can be nerver racking for both people, but you have to just go with the flow. he asked YOU because he wants to go with you and obviously get to know you better. so just chill out for now :]
but you can get to know him better by now until prom. just talk to him alot ! get his number, e-mail, facebook.. anything like that and just talk to him :] find him in school, and walk around together. the longer you talk to him, the more at ease you will be when the time comes. and by the way, when guys ask girls to the prom, it is usually really awkward for both people; he had a lot of guts to ask you so if he could do that, prom will be a piece of cake :]
dont be scared, i promise that everything will be okay. at first it might be a little awkward [as everything usually is] but dont let that get you nervous.. it wont stay that way for long. before you know it, the conversation between the two of you will be flowing.. i mean, something you could do is play 20 questions with him and ask him random stuff about himself. "favorite color, favorite sport, coolest place to go on vacation, what is one thing you want to do before you die,.. ?" just things like that are fun and can really take the awkward out of any situation. you'll be fine, trust me :]
good luck ! have fun [which you will, dont worry] hoep i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.

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hey! am sorry if this is too long..i just need some help! ok am a girl and there is this girl that hates me so much. ok this is how it all started. we were in school in algebra and before algebra we have lunch. when we come back from lunch this girl is always late to class. the door of the classroom is always locked. she always comes late and expect somebody to opened the door for her. well me and my friend always sit next to the door but we dont open it for people because they should get to class in time. well when somebody opened the door for her she came in and started saying this "stupid B****** dont open the F***** door . they are so R*******"..she just kept on arguing. we just ignored her. this all happened on november of 2009. now she always stares at me in class,and sometimes when am walking down the hallway she looks at me or when am sitting down and she comes inside the classrrom she stares at me..and i herd her talked about me..i really dont know what is her problem seriously..i dont want to go up to her because i know something will ahppen because she has anger issues and so do i..so can you please tell me a good advice because this girl is getting on my nerves :(

wow. people can be so immature. you're totally right though, everyone should get to class on time.. its not your fault she was late, so her problem with you is basically just because she just cannot admit that she was wrong. just because you sit by the door doesnt mean that you are the one who has to open it. this girl is outta control.
my advice would be to ignore her and be the bigger person. all she wants you to do is feed into her anger so she can get a rise out of you. trust me, she WANTS this to bother you, but if you dont let her get to you.. she loses once again and you come out on top. dont stoop to her level or confront her or any of that. let her stare at you. let her talk about you. people will just get tired of hearing about it and she'll get a bad repuatation.. if she doesnt already have one.
just be yourself, and thats all anyone can ask for. if you let it bother you, she wins and this is obviously a game for her.. dont play along. im telling you, just smiling and not letting her glares or crap talking get to you will kill her more than anything. but if things get really bad, and she either gets physical or is harassing you, tell an adult like a school counselor or your guardians.. because bullying is NOT okay, on any terms, and thats when action should be taken.
good luck ! if you need anything else, you know how to reach me :] hope i helped, xxo.

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my friend keeps trying to make me drink but i dont want to. what do i do?

she cant make you do anything you dont want to do, so just stand your ground. if shes pressuring you to drink tell her NO. [bluntly, she'll get the point and stop]
and bring a bottled water wherever you go, and just be like, "im good thanks :]"
you dont need to get drunk to have a good time. and i give you a lot of credit for not giving in to her peer pressure. just dont give in :] keep being awesome and stay alcohol-free !
good luck, hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.

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today, i was hanging out with my new friend, we get along real well and i was telling her my life story and all the pain and struggles that i went through and my friend starts crying and telling me that i dont deserve any of this, i dont know about that but i am really insecure person and i have a low self esteem i really dont know why she cried because she didnt go through any of this, any clue on why?

some people are very emotional and what you told her effected her in a HUGE way. even though she didnt go through what you went through.. she still cares about you so it hurt her to think that such a good person like you had to go through all of that.
its like, if one of your family members or pet or friend gets hurt and needs to be taken to the ermengency room or needs to have surgery.. some peoples first reaction is to cry because its SAD and they feel helpless and wish they could have done something or prevented it.
basically, thats why your friend cried when you told her your life story.
hope i helped, and good luck ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.

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so i have this crush who's obviously not into me at all but i kept having this hope that maybe one day he would be. but anywaytoday my friend was like do you still want to go out with him and i was like not as much as he used to. i would if he wanted to go out with me first and she said sorry but i really doubt that would happen. it kind of hurt my feeings for some reason. am i right to feel this way? thanks for the help :)

yes, you have every right in the world to be pissed off and to be hurt. that was a rude comment directed to you and hurting your feelings. she should not have said that. she might have said that out of anger that you're still hung up on him, or maybe even jealous, OR maybe both. but nonetheless, you have a right to feel this way. you didnt deserve that comment, if you want him.. go get him ;] dont give up or feel like theres no hope just because of that comment.
good luck, hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.

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okay your advice was sooo great. its really nice to be able to talk to someone who doesnt know him or hasn't been listening to me talk about him... i think you're right about something is up... i mean he goes through all this deleting just to add me again?.... i don't know why he's adding me again all of a sudden. he is definitely in the moment kind of guy cuz he tells me he feels happy to be with me but then as time goes on i don't know what happens.... he is very persuaded by other people and can't seen to make decisions on his own. I mean he told me how his mom had a bf who kept breaking up with her and how it was too hard to work out and she was hurt when her bf kept breaking up... i am tired of him toying with my emotions because i care about him but have lost a lot of respect for him because the third time we got back together he seemed more immature weird ahahah and he didnt seem to respect me as much but sometimes he was just the amazing bf i had seen when i first dated him. do you think hes trying to get back together cuz he misses me( because i have heard that excuse way too many times. Do you think he still has feelings?... hes full of excuses but i will give him a chance to explain himself because we had dated over a year and ill let him explain... or i may see him sat because we may both be volunteering at this 5k... i havent added him yet because i want to know y he is doing this.... i dont know if i really want to hear what he says... but i dont know how about talking to him, because i dont want him to no talk to me and then I look ridiculous...

no problem :]
and okay. i really think he doesnt want it to be awkward between you guys anymore.. I mean, he SAW you and probably got that pain in his chest like, "man, i really screwed up and i cant believe i let her go again."
but then again, that seems like a theme for him. he has you, then he doesnt want you. its like he wants what he doesnt have and he likes to have you chasing after him all at the same time. which obvioously can cause huge problems like this back and forth thing he has going with you.. which is totally his fault by ALL means, so dont feel like any of this is remotely your fault.. even getting back with him wasnt your fault.. you care about him and thats why you were drawn back in.
if he doesnt have a mind of his own and people can easily persuade him, thats a very bad sign. [i would know.] he is basically choosing other people over you because its the majority against the minority. and i understand that you have lost respect for him, and im sure you have lost some feelings you had for him too.
and even if you still want to be his friend or even more than that, the aspect of trust comes into play. are you going to be able to trust what he tells you when you ask him what hes up to now? because thats up to you.
and yes, i do think he misses you.. if he didnt, he wouldnt be trying to re-add you. but i also think that everything that has happened before [the breaking up, him wanting you back, hurting you..etc] is going to start again. and i really dont think he is worth your time. but he at least deserves a chance, like i said before, to explain himself.
so just message him on facebook and say something like, "hey, want to tell me why you're adding me on facebook after you de-friended me and then proceeded to block me? like whats up with you? this is your chance to explain.."
you just have to be straight up with him and he will be straight up with you. no funny business this time around. straight to the point, straight to the possible souloution.
usually, i would say talk to him in person, but under your circumstances, that would probably be awkward and uncomfortable for you, so do it over facebook either after the 5k or before. you might want to wait until after the 5k to see if he approaches you or tries to talk to you and then take it from there.
hope i helped ! and if you need anything else, you know where to reach me :] good luck and stay strong, xxo.

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My ex and I dated for a year and we were close and really happy together. We would talk all the time and spend time together and he really seemed to care about me. Then over the summer going into senior year he broke up with me out of the blue saying he just lost feeling. so two weeks later he calls me and tells me he made a mistake and he wants me back so i get back together and we are fine and happy but then he breaks up with me a second time.. i know wow a jerk but idk he seems really confused about what he wants. so three months go by and we see each other on halloween and we end up getting back together, I KNOW SAD but look through that k well we dated a month and i get a phonecall ending it again so im done and i dont talk to him since. well just recently he saw me at church and then tuesday i get a friend request from him. k so he had deleted me on fb so i wrote him a message and he blocked me so a week goes by and he unblocks me, than an month he friends me... i think hes just really confused or idk what... y is he friending me? what should I do?

wow, you must be really confused too, i mean, hes definetely not sure about anything he does and he seems to be one of those "in the moment" kind of guys.
if i were you, i wouldnt re-add him until you got some answers from him. i mean, he blocks you and all of that, then suddenly wants you to be his facebook friend again.. somethings up.
message him, and ask him whats up. you have a right to know. hes toying with your emotions and you head. and he clearly doesnt know what he wants in life.
but really, you deserve much more than him. you deserve someone who is going to want to be with you for a long time and not someone who wants to be off and on and hurting you on a daily basis. and he is probably friending you because he saw you, wants to know what youre up to.. if you have a boyfriend, and then start the cycle all over again.
history repeats itself. and im sure that he'll try to get you to be with him again and promise that "this time things will be different.." when, it most likely wont be.
but everyone deserves a fair chance to explain themselves, so message him and give him one last chance to tell you what he's up to this time around.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.

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so im not the best at startin conversations no matter who im with, an i can tell it annoys me best friend and i dont wont her think im boring. so anyone got any tips on how to start an interesting convo ?

this might sound stupid or weird or whatever, but when i want to start a conversation [an INTERESTING one] i usually strike up a conversation with "would you rather..." it is like the best way to start conversations and i promise, it will lead into different conversations. you could be like, "i know this is so random, but would you rather be able to fly or be invisible?" [stuff like that haha]
and the "what ifs.." conversations are always good. like, "what if robet pattinson just showed up right now?"
you could always talk about dreams youve had too. theyre always crazy topics and she'll contibute also. like, "last night i had this dream and it was so freaky!!..." [then tell her what it was about]
randomness is the cure for bordem. trust me.
if you need anything else or any more ideas, i have sooo many, so just inbox me :] good luck, have fun ! hope i helped, xxo.

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16/ f
okay , sorry if this is reallllly long & confusing.
so me & this girl named Ally became really good friends last summer.
But, when we started to hang out a lot in the beginning, her current bestfriend (Sally) like just got ignored by Ally.
But once me and Ally became really good friends,
then Sally and me started to become pretty close too.
then, soooo much drama occured like SO much.
Ally is the one who caused probably 90% of all the drama. She'd tell me one thing about Sally, and tell Sally something about me. She constantly tried to get me and Sally to hate each other. Sooner or later, it worked. We both fell for Allys lies, ally is such a good liar its hard to tell when she is or isnt.
But one day, Sally and I got tired of Ally's crap and decided we didnt want ANYTHING to do with her .
we simply : befriended her ?

but , instead of accepting that fact :
she made it into a lot bigger deal then it should've been. she tried getting people at school mad at us , which didnt work. because at that time everyone disliked ally alot , because she lies & makes up shit all the time .
its ridiculous.

but monthes passed ,
and i finally forgave her
( i cannnot hold a grudge to save my life )
so , then Sally decided to might as well forgive her to.
then now, all the same crap that happened at the beginning, is replaying.

its insane .
i jusst dont know what to do ?

i dont want to not be friends with either of them because it'd be pointless and cause even more drama.

gah , dont you just loooove high school ?

alright, i know that you said itd be pointless to not be friends with either of them because it would cause alot of drama, but think about those couple months when you WERENT friends with ally.. they were pretty drama free, werent they ? except for the fact that ally tried to turn people agaiunst you [which didnt work] there wasnt much going on.
by being friends with ally again you are ASKING for drama. obviously that girl is full of it. my number one advice i could give you is to just be friends with sally and not ally. and i know that might not be what you want to do because you want to be the bigger person, but think about it.
but if you really want to be friends with both of them, then heres my suggestion.. talk to sally and tell her how you feel. that youre maybe thinking of becoming friends with ally again, but that you dont want sally to listen to anything ally says because you both know that she is a liar. and maybe you can be FRIENDLY to ally but not hang out with her outside of school and stuff. you dont have to ignore her or be mean to her, but i would really sugest not hanging out with her. because you also get a reputation and she will lie again.
another thing you could do would be to talk to aly about why she lies so much.. maybe she lies because of problems she has that she wants to forget, so she makes problems with you because she wants others to feel her pain. or she could just be a trouble maker and theres no point in talking to her about it, but it could be worth a shot.
good luck, hope i helped ! and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.

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thankx for the great advice :-) but she said shes not at the point yet where she can be happy and live life. I understand this because its still pretty fresh (just a year) but she is away at college so theres no way to really have fun together. i was thinking of making her something to send through the computer any ideas?

no problem :] you can use those ideas in the future ;]
and yeah ! definetly, i have some ideas..

- you could send her an e-mail. i know, not very original, but its classic. you can just write her a letter that starts off about how youll always be here for her and if she ever needs to talk.. youll be there.
- you could also send her song lyrics or a song from youtube or something that is abut friendship or something that relates to her situation and how a person will never be forgotten.. maybe something like forever young.
- you could make a powerpoint with pictures of her and her friend and you and her and be sentimental.
- send her a fun video game .. and just be like thining of you throug this hard time..
- maybe suggest this site to her so she can ask for help.. sometimes giving them a place to go will make them realize theyre not alone and that you care.
- or you could combine everything together and send it to her :]

anything is possible :] good luck ! have fun, and hope i helped. if you need anything else, im here :] xxo.

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