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My boyfriend has sexual intercourse with my best friend..
Ok...So last friday there was this pool party at my friend esmereldas house...&& i noticed my boyfriend Julio, && my best friend go into the bathroom together...I heard screaming && moaning...so i slammed the door open...Then i seen them havin sex...&& i started cryin' But then my bf said "Hey bbi yu wanna join" I said "Fuck yu"...&& Ran off...My bestie told me she waz sryy...But i still hate her..&& Julio.!!>:(( Wht do i do.?!! Please please help me.! :'(
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Think about this simply:
What happened? Your best friend and your boyfriend had sex. By doing so, he violated your trust and so did your best friend. So you need to send both of them packing. Tell the best friend that it isn't healthy for you to have someone around who betrayed you like that and tell the boyfriend to never contact you again.
This removes A LOT of drama from your life. Always be in control of your life by deciding where your boundaries are and what your deal breakers are. Then follow through on enforcing them.
Btw, there is a guy who is just looking for someone like you to cherish. You just have to be paying attention and then go for it when the opportunity strikes. So don't get caught up in petty bs and try to live your life simply and rationally.
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Get rid of the both of them
They betrayed you, Disrespected you, Lied too you,
Friends don't betray friends, No matter how sorry she is it was 100% WRONG of her. Your boyfriend Julio is a dirt bag who doesn't deserve you and never did.
This isn't your fault but my best advise is too stay clear of these assholes. There are people out there who will treat you like gold and if he cheated on you with her, I can almost promise you he will cheat on her with someone else. This guy is a loser, Your friend is a loser.
I agree with Ninja, If you been having sexual contact I highly suggest getting checked out.
Cut contact with the both of them, They don't deserve your friendship. Screw them
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dump him.
and forget her.
if she was so sorry and really your best friend, she wouldnt have been having sex with him in the first place. and if he loved you, he wouldnt have even THOUGHT about doing that, especially with your "best friend."
people make mistakes, yeah, but this was intentional. and he is an asshole.
move on.
im so sorry this happened to you :[ :/ feel better. youll find someone else soooo much better, i promise. and for your friend ? dont even talk to her, neither of them deserve you. youre too good for them.
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.
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Ditch them both, and if you've been having any sexual contact with him get yourself tested for STIs. You've caught him being a dirty ho-bag once. Who knows what else he's done that you don't know about.
You can't trust him, and you can't trust her. There's no point in having friends that you can't trust. They're both scummy for doing that to you.
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