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My ex just friended me on facebook, what should I do?
My ex and I dated for a year and we were close and really happy together. We would talk all the time and spend time together and he really seemed to care about me. Then over the summer going into senior year he broke up with me out of the blue saying he just lost feeling. so two weeks later he calls me and tells me he made a mistake and he wants me back so i get back together and we are fine and happy but then he breaks up with me a second time.. i know wow a jerk but idk he seems really confused about what he wants. so three months go by and we see each other on halloween and we end up getting back together, I KNOW SAD but look through that k well we dated a month and i get a phonecall ending it again so im done and i dont talk to him since. well just recently he saw me at church and then tuesday i get a friend request from him. k so he had deleted me on fb so i wrote him a message and he blocked me so a week goes by and he unblocks me, than an month he friends me... i think hes just really confused or idk what... y is he friending me? what should I do?
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wow, you must be really confused too, i mean, hes definetely not sure about anything he does and he seems to be one of those "in the moment" kind of guys.
if i were you, i wouldnt re-add him until you got some answers from him. i mean, he blocks you and all of that, then suddenly wants you to be his facebook friend again.. somethings up.
message him, and ask him whats up. you have a right to know. hes toying with your emotions and you head. and he clearly doesnt know what he wants in life.
but really, you deserve much more than him. you deserve someone who is going to want to be with you for a long time and not someone who wants to be off and on and hurting you on a daily basis. and he is probably friending you because he saw you, wants to know what youre up to.. if you have a boyfriend, and then start the cycle all over again.
history repeats itself. and im sure that he'll try to get you to be with him again and promise that "this time things will be different.." when, it most likely wont be.
but everyone deserves a fair chance to explain themselves, so message him and give him one last chance to tell you what he's up to this time around.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.
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It might be best just to ignore this guy. He may be confused, he may just be a wacko. Either way, you don't need that.
Making facebook friends with someone isn't that big of a deal for most people. You need to consider though if you want him knowing what you are up too.
Its hard to say why he'd be wanting to friend you.
The decision is yours to make, but I think I'd just ignore it.
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Your ex seems to be playing games with you, Not only is he acting like a jerk but toying with your feelings at the same time. If he broke up with you all these times what makes you think that this isn't just another one of his immature games? Give him a piece of his own game and tell him that you've moved on. Frankly, You deserve better anyway
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