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backstabbbber
16/ f
okay , sorry if this is reallllly long & confusing.
so me & this girl named Ally became really good friends last summer.
But, when we started to hang out a lot in the beginning, her current bestfriend (Sally) like just got ignored by Ally.
But once me and Ally became really good friends,
then Sally and me started to become pretty close too.
then, soooo much drama occured like SO much.
Ally is the one who caused probably 90% of all the drama. She'd tell me one thing about Sally, and tell Sally something about me. She constantly tried to get me and Sally to hate each other. Sooner or later, it worked. We both fell for Allys lies, ally is such a good liar its hard to tell when she is or isnt.
But one day, Sally and I got tired of Ally's crap and decided we didnt want ANYTHING to do with her .
we simply : befriended her ?
but , instead of accepting that fact :
she made it into a lot bigger deal then it should've been. she tried getting people at school mad at us , which didnt work. because at that time everyone disliked ally alot , because she lies & makes up shit all the time .
its ridiculous.
but monthes passed ,
and i finally forgave her
( i cannnot hold a grudge to save my life )
so , then Sally decided to might as well forgive her to.
then now, all the same crap that happened at the beginning, is replaying.
its insane .
i jusst dont know what to do ?
i dont want to not be friends with either of them because it'd be pointless and cause even more drama.
gah , dont you just loooove high school ?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
If you and Sally know that she is lying and whatever she is going to say, you guys won't beileve her.
You can forgive her for what she did but that doesn't completely mean you have to talk to her. Just ignore her and tell Sally to do so too.
You guys have your life and let her go spread lies and lie as much as she likes. Let her be like that.
When she comes up to you and talks about Sally simply tell her "Ok" and ignore her. Tell Sally to do the same thing, I guess she'll eventually get tired and leave you guys alone.
But don't let a simple lying bitch ruin your friendship, talk through it so no complications or drama.
Good Luck =]
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alright, i know that you said itd be pointless to not be friends with either of them because it would cause alot of drama, but think about those couple months when you WERENT friends with ally.. they were pretty drama free, werent they ? except for the fact that ally tried to turn people agaiunst you [which didnt work] there wasnt much going on.
by being friends with ally again you are ASKING for drama. obviously that girl is full of it. my number one advice i could give you is to just be friends with sally and not ally. and i know that might not be what you want to do because you want to be the bigger person, but think about it.
but if you really want to be friends with both of them, then heres my suggestion.. talk to sally and tell her how you feel. that youre maybe thinking of becoming friends with ally again, but that you dont want sally to listen to anything ally says because you both know that she is a liar. and maybe you can be FRIENDLY to ally but not hang out with her outside of school and stuff. you dont have to ignore her or be mean to her, but i would really sugest not hanging out with her. because you also get a reputation and she will lie again.
another thing you could do would be to talk to aly about why she lies so much.. maybe she lies because of problems she has that she wants to forget, so she makes problems with you because she wants others to feel her pain. or she could just be a trouble maker and theres no point in talking to her about it, but it could be worth a shot.
good luck, hope i helped ! and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.
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I would move on and live your life if you chose to
not be friends with her then leave it at that just be friends with Sally you don't want to cause more drama then get caught up in it again..it's Ally fault for loosing you both as friends so it's her loss there's more important things to be worrying about then drama if you were to be friends with her
then the same thing would happen again so it's better if you aren't friends that way you'll be drama free & you'll be able to focus on what's really important in your life being friends with Ally isn't worth it seeing as she tried turning everyone aganist you(:
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