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Well Hello everyone.My Name is Bridgette Martinez.i have not bee on this Website in a million years.But newayys.im 15 years old.living in a little town called c-town.im a freshmann at wnhs.i have a wonderfull boyfriend.his names is stephen.he is the most awesomestt boyfriend ever.i love him with my lifee.my familyy is the most awesome thing everr.i love my mom with my life.. : ).and then theres my hobbys.!i love to get on myspaceee. : )its addictingg.if you wanna add me on myspace my account is myspace.com/pinkroks
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lately my best friend and i haven't been having the most fun. she's much more outgoing than me, and i often get left out in the dust. also, even though several people don't like her because of her loud, bossy style, she's convinced she's better than me. i really want to make the friendship work, because from grades 3-6 we've been the best of friends, but i've been working hard to keep it together for almost 2 years now, and she hardly ever talks to me anymore. i don't know what to do anymore. should i try to work more at the friendship, because sometimes we do have a lot of fun, or should i give up, or should i just spend less time with her but still keep her as a friend? i'm sorry this question is so long, but please answer anyways. thanks=D

well yopu guys sound like you can ork this little thing out..maybe you shouild trying talking to her..i know that you amy not change to be just like her..but just loosen up a little..you said that she was leaving you out in the dust..then get out of t he dust and go hang out with her..i know you may not be having the best time with her but atleats you guys are together..and maybe you shouild point out to he r that you knda sometimes feel left out..because what your telling me you shiuild tell her..because she wont know until you tell her..so try talking to her and putting your self hanging out with her..and see what happens...
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101>Bridgette

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My friend played a joke on me and I know she was kidding..but I took it too seriously.I yelled at her in class..and then she was trying to talk to me after school but I ignored her and got in my car..I feel so horrible but I'm still mad..What should I do?

well if you know she was kidding then why did you get mad at her??did you ask your self that..and if was just a joke dont take it seriously..i think you shouild call your friend up and tell her that you and her cool..and you didnt mean to take it so serious..just loosen up a little..dont be so mad at a joke..and if she was your firend then im sure she didnt mean for you take it serious..im sure she didnt know..come on call her up and tell her that you and her are cool..and you didnt mean to take it so serious!!
hope in helped..
~Love Always*
*ilovepink101

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Well my friend is having her sweet 16 party and shes inviting all kinds of people are going to be there (including the kid i like who is one of my really good friends, and he knows i like him too) so anyways hes going to be there.. and so is the girl he likes and he seems to always leave me to go talk to her and he just kind of ignores me... any ideas on what to do? please help.. i hate high!

well you shouild talk to him about it..and it kinda sounds to me that your kinda jealous...but thats fine..just dont let it get out of hand..but you shouild try talking to the guy..and you know trying asking him whats up with him..why does he always ditch you..and ask him what toy feel..and you know tell him your feelings for him..and maybe he will feel the same way about you..and you naver know there might be a suprise..behind all this..but hopefully its a good suprise..
hope i helped...
love always,
*ilovepinkl01*>Bridgette

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I move here about 11 months ago,and i made friends. Everything was good until the ending of the year. My friends became friends with this girl,and she seemed to make them not pay attension to me,not that she didnt like me,she just would push me away. And i got all sad about that.Well i gave up being there friends,i dont know why.I've been longing to move back to my city and my mom said she would.I keep avioding my so called "frineds" here any only playing with the ones from my old city. I find it easyer to have fun. But there's this grudge and i dont know why i have it,im starting to get really depressed and longing to move back everday. How can i fix this?!!? (no matter what i am moving back though...my mom is decideing and if she cant find a house im going to live with me dad when he moves to my city)

well you cant run away from your problems or friends..and if you see that girl kinda moving you out you need to point it out to her..and you said you were moving..well you dont want to rember your last days there depressing..and you want to rember the good times with your friends..you guys shouild be going to the mall and movies and stuff like that..do what friends do..and you need to point out to that girl that you lonely..and you feel very left out..maybe she doesnt realize it..and she maybe does like you..and do what you can do..and i hope you dont get hurt from your friends..and have fun when you mave back home!!!
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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my best friend who i love like a sister ran away today to MY house! i told her to go back. but she wouldnt. finally i got her to call her dad and then a police officer came to pick her up and bring her home. now her mom and dad hate me because they think i told her to come to my house. i wasnt expecting her at all!! one minute i was talking to her on AIM then her away message said out. wont be back any time soon. then i heard a knock. but how can i get *especially her mom* to like me again? HELP! any useless answers will recieve a 1. any good answers will recieve a 5.

well i hope you didnt tell her to runaway..but you shouild talk to her mom and tell her that you no idea what was going on..and your friend shouild be backing you up and saying that you didnt do it and that you made her call heer dad..and her parents shouild atleast give you one more chance..its pretty screwed up your friend got you in the middle of this..but thats the only thing i have on my mind!!is that your friend shouild be telling her parents that you ran awya on your her own and she decided to go to your house..well i hope you get it cool with her parents..
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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Ever since I was a little kid, for some reason, no one respected me. From 3rd-8th grade people made fun of me non stop. My 3rd and 5th grade teachers hated me, and many of my 7th and 8th grade teachers hated me too. From 9th-11th grade, people made fun of me "just kidding around" whenever I am with my friends they don't treat me with respect. The only real friend I have right now is my sister, and tonight for some reason she didn't want to hang out with me tonight, but she did want to hang out with her other friend. That is the last straw. I really don't know what to do. I am so lonely, and I am such a nice person! I have never had a boyfriend and I just feel like my childhood is being flushed down the drain. Due to people constantly making fun of me, I have ABSOLUTELY no confidence to go out and meet new people. I just don't know what to do anymore, I can't go on like this. I need to be a normal 17 year old girl. Can someone help?

well you shouildnt let anyone bring you down.you are who you are..and if no one likes that then screw them..dont let them bring you own like you let them..just because your sister didnt wanna hang thats fine..you guys are sisters..you can hang any time you want..but you need to get out there a really find some friends..you are feeling sorry for your self and you shouildnt be..theres no reason to..just because people make fun of you..i no it hurts alot when people make fun of you..im going to the 8th grade..i got made fun of in 6th and 7th grade some much..but you no what??you cant waste time listening to them and leting them get to you..and this never had a boyfriend thing!!well you need to go out and get you one..you need to go to the mall and talk to some people..or when you go to school you need to try to talk people and try to nake friends..i have alot friends but some are bitches..and those kinda friends you shouild care less about..but you just approach people..and theyll be cool with you..but you no that your 17 and thats to old to not being having and no friends..so just go to the mall and just you no..do what you gotta do..or even in school..try to find friends..and dont worry about your sister..she just proably wanted to hang with her other friends that night..dont worry..you dont ever let anyone put you down.im sure your alot better then that..so you go do what you gotta do!!have fun at it!!
hope i helped!!!!
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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I wish i had best friends but i dont. I want to be friends with certain people but i dont know how to fit into heir group.

well you shouild try to appraching people..you know that people now a day are rude and crap..but not all..theres still some nice people left on earth..but you shouild just try talking to the people you want to hang out with..you never know..you guys may become good or maybe best friends..its hard for me to make friends becasue im really picky..but you just apprach who you can and start making friends..
hope i helped..
hope you make alot of friends...
*love alwyas*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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how to get popular girls to ask me to hang out. AND dont say you shouldnt hang out with them bc they are popular or stuff liek that.. its what i want

well you shouild go hang with them..you no they wont hang with you!!but just try talking to them..but honestley im going to say this, you shouildnt want 2 hang with the popular girls just because there popular..you shouild be you and only you..popular girls are mostley preps..and they betrade you ..and there just bitches..but you no that your you..so you do what you want..all you got to do is apprach them and just try to start talking to them..but you know that they may turn you down..so be ready for it..
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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My best friend and I have been friends for about 8 years and we go together like pb and j. Now I'm starting to feel jealous of her because she's got a lot more friends than me and I think she's a lot prettier and skinnier and funnier and all that. I KNOW she won't abandon me no matter how many other friends she has, but I just hate being jealous.

o gosh..please dont be jealous..thats a really bad thing..i was jealous of my best friend and my sister being friends and my best friend didnt talk to me for a long time..but you no that your friend sounds like a really good person..but you no that your one of those friends with many others..but it doesnt matter..you all couild be good friends..you no..yall can hang together and stuff like that..well i have never seen you but im ure you are so pretty..and you may not see that but im sure other peple do..i no that some boys may like your friend more than you..but thats fine..his lost..you dont ever putn your self down like that..you no thats life if boys dont like you..and i dont no how muvch you weigh and stuff..butt if your friends skinner so what!you no..why do you want to look like her..you need to look like you..and you may be funier then her in your own ways..what does it matter..dont compare your self to anybody..so what if someones prettier or skinner..i dont care..and either shouild you..it really doesnt matter..and your friends sounds like she loves you alot..and cares for you..and thats good she wouildnt leave you like other snobbs in this hecteck world!!but you be you and nobody body else..
hope i helped..sorry if i didnt..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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There are these two boys and they came to live with us they are getting on my nerves hitting my sister yelling in the house and being mean to the animals I need some help any one that answers this question I will give you a five please help me

well you need to set that boy straight..you need to show him whos boss..and you shouild discipline him..no i dont mean hit him..but like ground him or put them in there room if there bad...and when they hit your sister you shouild tell them to stop and send them to there room..and when you send them tho there room tell them to think about what they have done..and leave them in there..lets say the boys 6, you live him in his room for 6 minutes..if hes 9 ,you leave him in his room for 9 minutes..depends how old he is to stay in his room..every year counts as 1 minute..then you go in t here and tell him what he did wrong and tell him not ot do it again..and you dont let him hurt your animals..i wanna be a vet when im older..so it hurts when i hear there hurting an animal!!
hope i helped!!
*love always*
ilovepink101

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i have a problem my friends and there parents are calling me a slut and they think that i've already had sex before when i never did!what can i do to show them that im neither of these things?!? please help me!!

well thats prettyn rude!!that your friends parents are calling you that..well you shouild talk to them and tell them that your not what they think you are..and maybe its because the way you act...now i dont no you at all..but your friends might be telling there parents stuff about you...because why else wouild they call you that stuff..unless they see you acting like that..which i hope they dont..well i hope i helped..and just try to prove to the parents your not what they think you are..
love always,
ilovepink101

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i basicly have three friends. all of them run in different circles and they all have very different personalities. up until now i have been able to divide my time between them equally, but latly its getting harder and harder. because they're so different i never get to be with all of them at the same time and theres only so much time i can spend with my friends. i just have no idea how i can be with them all without making one of them feel ignored. what are some ways that i can divide my time with all of them without playing favorites?

well you shouild try to get all of the friends to tyr to hang out eith each other...i no they might hate each other..but explain to them thats its really hard to have good friends like them and barely spen anytime with them...and tell them that you like them all equally and they shouild atleast to try to get along..and you shouild try to have a day with just you girls like go on a shopping spree....and maybe they will actually like each other..but i under stand how hard it is for you to have friends and hey all have diffrent personalites..but yo no you gotta pull it along and try your hardest!!ok..
wish you good luck!!!
hope i helped,

love always,
ilovepink101

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13/f

ok so my best guy friend is moving. i used to like him but now im trying not to b/c he's moving and i no it won't work out. but i still want to be friends. how can i still be friend's with him if he's moving like 2 hours away. will being friend's work with him so far away?

yeah..you guys can i.m. each other..you guys can e-mail each other..i no if you call him that will cost you long distance..but you no you hsve a computer and hopefully he does and you guys can always plan a time to be on and you guys can always tal like old times..now you guys wont be as close but youll no its still him..and maybe if you guys get to liken the keep in touch thing maybe yall will go out..but dont count on it..and dont count on him always being online when you are..and you guys will get a little seperated but you no thats how it goes when your bestfriend leaves..trust me ive moved alot!!!!
well i hope i helped...
love always,
ilovepink101

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Me and my best friend have been best friends for ages.but now i feel she is going off with another girl.If i talk to her about it she goes your my best friend not her,but yet she still goes off with her.
what shall i do?

well it sounds like some one is a friend hog..well dont worry about it becsuse im just like you..well maybe you shouild talk to them both and tell them that you feel kinda left out..and maybe you shouild try hanging out with them..maybe it will be mare fun than you think..im sure your best friend doest realize that shes actually hurting your feelings..but if you try to hang out with them for once than you all might be able to be good friends.thats how i cam this year...my best friend went to this other girl and never even talked to me..i couild of cared less about the girl she was hanging out with..so i wouild always pull her aside and try to take her away from them..but she finally told me.."why dont we all hang out ,i no that you will like her and she will like you as the same.."i finally gacve it shoot and now me and that girl are best friends and we talk every day on the phone and we always go places to gether...so just give it a try and if you dont like it i don what to tell you!!
hope i helped,
love always,
ilovepink101

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theres this girl and her mom died like in november and i live right down the street from her and she is seriosly every where i turn: my house, school, swim team, bus,my brain, i mean seriously she ia everywhere. she is so weird and annoying but when she was at my house once she said that i am her very best friend so now i cant do anything about that because my mom would kill me, id feel guilty, and id practically be the meanest person on the planet. i really do not want to be her friend anymore but i cant get away from her. any suggestions? ill rate you

well you no you cant be mean..because you no tht she proably lost her best firend!!...her mom...and im sure her and her mom were very close..so shes trying to get over the fact that her mom is gone and trying to find a friend..and thats the number one thing she needs right now is a friend..its really hrd to get over that your best firend died..and she may never get over that..but you hlft to break it down to her..you shouild tell her to cool it on coming over..and tell he r that you dont need to see her as much..and just say something that you wouild say to your self..my mom always told me to treat others like you want to be treated..just put your self in her shoes..with a mother gone and im sure no friends...the least she couild have is you..so try to be nice and dont scare her off...e-mil me anytime you want and tell me how it goes ok!!
hope i helped!!!
love always,
ilovepink101

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I'm moving schools this summer. I went to visit my new school, and very few ppl were nice to me. Everyone else knows that i just came from a privite school, so they hate me and treat me like garbage. I no that all privite school students are different, and i know that i am! I really don't care what other ppl think, but i really want to make friends at my new school. How can i show them that i'm a normal person and not a snobby rich student they think i am? I really want to make friends their, but it's so hard when they don't know the real me. How can i show them?

well all those people are jelous..and dont try to change for them..trust em you will make friends...and those people are obviously the snobbs you no.and they will like you...they dont even no you and some people are nicer than others..maybe some of the girls will give you a chance..but you no your just like me i am moving to another school this year..but i didnt visit the shcool..and so what you came from a priviate school..it shouildnt matter if you just got out of jail they shouild stil give you a chance..and its true people always think private school girls are snobbs..and half of them are not..but you be you and you dont change for those people at the shcool...qnd dont forget to be good and have a good school year..e-mail me so we can keep in touch..so e-mail me soon...
hope i helped...
love always,
ilovepink101

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my parents are way overprotective. like my friends are allowed to stay out til 11 or later, and i have to be back before dark! what can i do?

well sit down with your parents and talk to them about you curfew..ask them why dont they let you stay out till like 9 or 9:30.. and i no 1 thing there going to tel you is that your not your friends partents and that your parents are protective and your friends parents can do whatever they want..well just try 1 more time with them and if they still say no then i wouild give up lol...welll just let them o that they can trust you being out late ..hope i helped...
love always,
ilovepink101

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ohk well im 13 and colombian (spic) woot woot yeah i know lol. anyways my mom and my dad asked me what i want to have a sweet 15 or a sweet 16.. its kinda early but they wanna start saving up since they wanna have my party at the hilton ... but the thing is that most if my friends that im going to invite are white or black and like 6 are spanish ... and i think that they will enjoy a sweet 16 better , but i mean its a tradition for a spanish girl to have a sweet 15 ? im confused help me out

i no what your talking about girl..!!!im a latina to.. im cuban...well you shouild do your hispanic tradition..i wanted to do both..but you no..and my parents said it cost like 20 tousand dollars..so my opion you go and show off wjat you are..and you ca do your spanish tradition..im sure your parents will be happy with the spaish tradton..well about the invited people..you shouild bring whoever uyou wnat to bring its your party.. no matter if there white balck purple pink, girl its you party..bring who you want to bring!!!hope i helped...
love always,
ilovepink101

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Sorry its a little standard but i will try to make it quick, My mate likes a guy, who only likes her as a friend. She acted like she didnt mind but i think it hurt a bit. Anyway, today i found out he likes me, but i only like him as a friend, plus he is a year younger than me. so 3 questions, do i tell her? If so how do i tell her? and how do i let him down gently?

wel you shouild tell him that your friend really likes him and that you think its wrong to do that to your good friend..and yes you shouild tell your tell your friend that that boy likes you...you guys shouild never keep stuff from each other..just sit her down and tell her its very hard to tell her this and tell her that boy doesnt like her and he likes you..and tell her that you rejected him because you couild never be a bad friend and let her down like that..she will be sad for a while but she will get over him once she sees that he likes other girls...well hope i helped...
love always,
ilovepink101

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