I move here about 11 months ago,and i made friends. Everything was good until the ending of the year. My friends became friends with this girl,and she seemed to make them not pay attension to me,not that she didnt like me,she just would push me away. And i got all sad about that.Well i gave up being there friends,i dont know why.I've been longing to move back to my city and my mom said she would.I keep avioding my so called "frineds" here any only playing with the ones from my old city. I find it easyer to have fun. But there's this grudge and i dont know why i have it,im starting to get really depressed and longing to move back everday. How can i fix this?!!? (no matter what i am moving back though...my mom is decideing and if she cant find a house im going to live with me dad when he moves to my city)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? lOstNcOnfuSed answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 10:19 am: ive gone through the same thing when my friends started hanging out with a new girl they would always ignore me but it doesnt matter if they do all that stuff to you and leave you for her than that means they werent truly friends find someone you kno wwho can stick with you it doesnt always fix the problem by moving back that just means your missing on the new friends you could have...but it helps by cooling down and jjust ignoring them and the will just wonder y you arnt tryin anymore but old friends are alwats a pleasure to have in ur life so do whats best for you and what u think is good for you
ilovepink101 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 9:19 am: well you cant run away from your problems or friends..and if you see that girl kinda moving you out you need to point it out to her..and you said you were moving..well you dont want to rember your last days there depressing..and you want to rember the good times with your friends..you guys shouild be going to the mall and movies and stuff like that..do what friends do..and you need to point out to that girl that you lonely..and you feel very left out..maybe she doesnt realize it..and she maybe does like you..and do what you can do..and i hope you dont get hurt from your friends..and have fun when you mave back home!!!
hope i helped..
*love always*
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Look2Linh answered Monday August 1 2005, 3:06 am: i'm sorry that girl took your friends. it happens all tha time. try making new and different friends. or if not, all you need is one good friend and that would help a whole lot. dont think about wanting to move back. keep your head on the positives of this place first because you want to make ur current location as comfortable as possible. i hope everything works out ok [ Look2Linh's advice column | Ask Look2Linh A Question ]
JustAskAlli answered Sunday July 31 2005, 8:31 pm: Well, it kind of sucks how that girl just took your friends away like that. Theres nothing wrong with your friends having new friends. You should have told your friends that you would like them to make time for you, and stop ignoring you. Its a great thing that you have friends that care about you back at your old house, my advice would be, talk to your new friends..tell them whatsup, and stick with the friends at the old home that have already embraced you. Fix it by talking to your new friends.
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