My friend always is so depressed. He never has his luck in love. I always tell him we're barely even teens yet and he doesn't know what love is. I always send him links to some good columns o here but he always says he is too depressed to click it. It is getting really annoying. Some of my other friends (including me) talk about how annoy it is and that they don't really know what love is. What should I do to show him this? I rate pretty high.
okay what i think you have a few options here;
A.) tell him that no one you know knows what 'love' feels like and that he will find his love eventually because were styll young
B.) tell him stop being depressed cas hell never find real love if hes depressed cas depression is a turn off
C.) talk to him about how none of you and your friends knows what love is and they will all eventually expireence it
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D.)explain to him that if he feels sorry for himself hes never going to find ssomeone who he can love forever
i think that if you try one of a few of these he should listen ... Im me ne time xohsodifficultx and keep me upstated
xo briana
((i hva a friend just like that))
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Alright..well I consider myself a pretty outgoing person!! But recently people have been telling me how quiet I am! I never realized I was quiet...lol I mean I am EXTREMELY outgoing and crazy with people I know...but if I just meet someone I am shy but sooner or later I warm up to them! I am afraid people will think I am snobby if I first meet them and I'm shy..you know? I want to be able to be outgoing around everyone...not just people I know! Also this is around the same problem...when I am with my boyfriend (if I have one at the time) I am shy too and I don't know why! I could know him for a while but I get shy and quiet! Don't get me wrong I am not COMPLETELY quiet around them...like I do get majorly hyper and stuff but I mean it seems my relationships go slow because I never make any moves...I want to be able to go faster...and it be ME making th first move...Anyone have anything to help me?
i think you should just relax. i mean when your around new people adn your boyfriend you want to leave a good impression... u cant think about that too much . just stay relaxed and calmn and be yourself!!!
xo briana
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Hey yall im in need of help. I cant explain how i feel fo my friend riana. but i cant stand when people talk bad bout her.plz help and tell me whats goin on i think im in love. but i dont know if she likes me.what should i do.
well ... i think that you should jsut tell her how you feel about her .. cas you never know . .she mite feel the same. and if not then you can learn to get over her. as for people talking bad about her .. stick up for her. i mean wat kinda girl wants a guy who woodnt risk getting in fights with his friends for her honor?
hope i helped .. xo Briana .. lol .. similar names .. i like it
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Ok...so i asked a question before and you really helped me so im counting on u again...this one's longer but here is goes...ok so i have this friend right? well he's so sweet hes hysterically funny and just one of the best people to be around....well i've started to like him but i still act the same...like a friend... i don't flirt with him or anything because now my other friend likes him...and it just so happens he likes her and they are going out...well my friend knows that i kind of like him and she never really minded much...but now shes all over me because i made this away message that said call me and then the kids name ...she got super pissed and started saying stuff like i won't talk to you anymore if u keep trying to take MY man and you bitch you no he likes me why you got to have him call you so now i'm like crap shes mad over my away message that really meant nothing....so now tomorrow when we go back to school i dont know what her reaction is goin to be or if shes goin to talk to me or if shes goin to do something serious like punch me in the face cause thats how mad she got with me... you gotta help me bri...i dont no what i'm suppose to do or say to her...she thinks i'm trying to steal her man but im really not...i mean what kind of friend does that?....
help me out!! ...thanks bunches ...
well im glad my last advice helped and i hope this one is just as good! i think you should apologize to your friend and tell her that your sorry that she thought that you were trying to steal her man .. lol. . but always explain to her that you and her b/f are friends! be like 'dont i talk on the phone with my friends? i mean he is jsut a friend n you are my friend too so i wood never want to steal your man' let her know that you are not there to steal her b/f and even though you like him you wish them the best of luck! to avoid other situations like this... dont talk about him a lot and dont put up a.m that seys call me ____ ! lmao .. i mean imm not saying dont talk to this kid, but just dont make it seem like you want him even thought you do. if that makes sense to you
xo briana =)
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i know this girl, and i care about her more than anything in the world, but i can tell shes going down the wrong road, i can notice changes in her that i've made, in a good way, but its not enough, shes getting into alchohol now, and that could lead to anything, i've tried talking to her about it but i just cant let out how i feel, PLZ HELP!!! SOS
i know how you feel .. my friend was going down the wrong road and im not sure if she still is but anyway.. just keep talking to her .. let her know that your there for you and she doesnt need to resort to alchoal or anything like that. if it still seems to not improve, tell an adult. teacher parent guidence counselor ... jsut let her know your there for here, throught thick and thin!! your a good friend for worrying! lol
xo briana
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Hey Bri...gotsa question 4 ya...
Okay well one of my friendsis goin out with sumbody and hes so cool hes funny n just great to hang around with. and then my friend omg weve been best friends for life since kindergarden and were like the best best friends ever lol well like whenever me and my friend 3way him or if the 3 of us r talking in school she starts acting all different. its the weirdest thing ever cause like shell be laughing hysterically with me like 2 seconds before that and then when we like call him she like starts acting like shes perfect...i dunno why shes doin that cause shell always side with him and somtimes like make fun of me...i know shes kidding but shes acting like a totally different person..i dont know whats up with her i hate when she does it though wut shood i do? thanks
she probobly is just doing that cas she really likes the kid! i mean who doesnt do that? just talk to her about it. be like listen i dont want to sound like a bitch but... ur acting different when your around him and its weird. if shes ur best friend like you say she is she will understand! so just talk to her =)
hope this helped you .. xo briana
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Hi im a thirteen year old girl and i am asking for help..i just got through my boyfriend and i think i was in love its hard to date other guys...wat should i do..
Ps i got to third base with this last guy and i dont think after him i can ever kiss anyone ever again
your not over him yet. jsut give it some time. yea itll take a while but ull eventually get over him! dont worry too much. stay single and just try to forget about him. itll b hard but itll eventually get better.
briana
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Me & my friends played a prank on this girl in my school that was picking on me, and she turned us in. Yesterday, I wasn't in school and the guidance conselor called all my friends down to the office, turns out EVERYONE was sayen I did it, even my best friends. I did do most of it, but not all of it. & I admitted to it. Are they real friends?
they are your real friends they just didnt want to get caught for the little of the prank they did. dont worry talk to them about it and let them tell you why they didnt stick up for you! dont worry there probobly jsut goody goodys and didnt wanna get in trouble .. i mean who wood wanna?
xo briana =)
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theres this girl that has been following me around since 7th grade she never talks or when she can you can't hear her.I dont like feeling like I have a shodow its emberassing when I talk to people and they try and talk to her but she just wont talk. Its the most annoying feeling so thats why i dont even enjoy lunch anymore id rather go to my next class. even if i say to someone "i need to tell you something in private" and walk away she still follows me. Shes the shyest person EVER and i would feel bad hurting her feelings. BUT I CANT TAKE IT ANY LONGER. pleaseee help i'll rate 5's
thanks
oh man ... sorry to hear that. i think tryign to talk to her is a good thing. and if someone wants to talk to you in private and she starts to follow you, just say oh can you stay here a minute i have to talk to him/her. and if she still doesnt listen start to get a little attitude. if she doesnt listen by then you scream! but it shoudlnt go that far. just keep tryin to talk to her and try to let her know she can talk to you. make her feel comfortable. i know it can be annoying but jsut give it one last shot!
xo briana
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okay i have this friend who ive only known for like a year and weve only been good friends for like a couple months but anyways he is going out with my bestfriend ..and i mean i hate when people my age (14) say i love you if you can tell they dont mean it but i KNOW they do and i hangout with them like everyday and i have so much fun with them they are the two people i can honestly say i trust i love them both to death they are my bestfriends... but this kid got charged for raping these two girls..but he didnt do anything like that he would never do that...they are just stupid and try to start shit and thats not something to joke around with and so he was locked up for 2 months until he went to court...and his gf's (my bff) mom found out she said she wanted her to have NOTHING to do with him..he got out and we were over there everyday and she had been lying to her mom but then we got cought the other day and her mom was bullshit and told my mom the whole story and now we cant see him because neither of them want us going over there...my mom says i can talk on the phone with him and stuff and maybe go over in a little while when he gets off house arrest but i feel so bad he is my bestfriend and she loves him and he is the only one she has besides like me and a few others.... please helpp
find out who the girls were! make them tell the truth! if they end up not gettin raped, all cahrges will b dropped.. DID he get foudn guilty tho? if he didnt tell ur mom that, but if he did, then u neeed to tell him that u cant talk to him for a while..after week, talk to ur mom about how much u miss talkin w/ him n stuff, tell her that he wood never rape ne bodi n tose dumb hoez were lieing for attention. hopefully ur mom will understand and u guys can hang out together. As for ur freind, tell her to do the same thing! lay low n then ask! cas if u lie n go behind ur parents baq there never gunna let u hang out w/ him! specially if he does end up doing something bad!!1
hope this works out oaky...
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Hi, i have a friend who has bad b/o. I'm not that kind of person who can say "Would u mind putting on some deoderent?" I could never do that to a friend. I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to tell her without hurting her feelings. Please my b-day party is coming up and shes coming, i dont want to afend my other friends. Please, I really need some help.
wat you shood do....is get a gift basket n fill it w/ deoderents, shampoos, and conditoners, perfume n crap. then hav one fo ur freinds giv it to u for ur b day party. then, b like omg " freinds name " i got all this stuff alredi...i dont need it, u want it? i mean i hav this exacpt basket at mi house or in my bathroom or w/e. then ur freind will take it n shell use it!
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Hey im 14 and this guy is 16 .. Soo we hang out all the time but my BEST friend hates him and thinks hes bad and stuff.. but whenever his around me hes really sweet my friend just says .. Oh he just wants a piece of ass and all this other stuff.. and i think my friends parents are itimated that he can drive ( because he drives me places). Were not going out by the way but everyone thinks we are becuz we act like it. hes a drinker too =/ liike he has this rep that he always goes to parties and gets drunk and throws up everywhere ! .. so yea =/ what should i do? should i stick with him.. i mean i like him but my friends hate him =/ PLEASE HELP
i think that if hes nice around u, u shood hang w/ him! im 13 n i talk to a 16 yr old all the time! were not as close as u n ur friend r but hey! i think that u shood def talk to him about his drinking habits! u dont want to end up gettin in his car w/ himw en hes drunk n like get in an accident! but tell ur freinds how he is! maybe u cood all hang out sumtime so they cood get to no him!
briana
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Sorry this ones loge but i need help
I'm in a really big social group at school and my 2 neighbors r in it. ive know them since i've moved in and we became really good friend. when school started 1 of my neighbors bff was at my school. right away we hated each other and i don't no why. about a week ago my neighbors and the bff started a book that no one was aloud to see. it really pissed me off and made me realize that every one i surrond my self with are a bunch of backstabing, secret telling liars. i got in to a big fight with 1 of my neighbors and iots sort of resolved but after that was over the bff wrote me a note calling me a poser and a tramp and talking shit about my bf. i was soo pissed off. now i don't want to hang out w/any off them but there like the only people i no.
p.s. me other friend feels the same
i think u and ur other friends should hang out more often instead of ur neighbors. i think that if they wanna b like that let them but dont let them giv u ne b/s. tell ur bff that u were reli hurt by her letter n that u styll wanna b freinds w/ her ( if u do ) other than that...def start hanging out w/ ppl u like more!
briana
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i have 2 really close friends. Ones a guy and one's a girl, if that really matters. And they say they love me all the time, but i just dont feel it. i just dont feel loved, i feel upset all the time. Does anyone kno y i feel this way? i think it's b/c i'm so lonely, i dont have a bf and never have. Anyone have sum tips?
i think that you should reli start being happier! wen that kicks in ull see that ur friends reli do love tyou nad guys will def notice and start to like you! if u hav a reli hard time getting happy, ask ur doctor for anti depressentts i no it sounds reli drastic, but it can and will help!
hope everything works out for you...briana
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For starters in 14/f... I did something really bad with a friend's boyfriend. About a month or so ago, my bf and I broke up after dating all summer because he liked her, we'll call her Sam. I knew she led him on and that's why he was being such an idiot towards me. (He was my first real bf, him being 16) I couldn't take the jealousy anymore, and after we broke up she still talked to him and lead him on, even when she was dating one of my friends, call him Bob. About a week ago Bob, 2 of my other friends, and I were all hanging out. I don't know how it happened, but i was still so upset with Sam for doing what she did, and I don't have feelings for Bob or anything, but I gave him head just because that was something we both wanted to get out of the way for the first time. (While the other 2 friends did the same thing too..)
Everything was okay, and I regretted it but we all agreed not to tell *anyone* and forget it ever happened... Bob slipped to one of his friends and Sam found out. Now she's so mad and I don't blame her. Now, the ex that I've been trying to patch things up with won't talk to me, and Sam only blames me for what happened. I'm an awful person I know that... I should never have done that to her, but it was just all so hard after stealing my bf from me. Someone please just help me here.
okay...wow...apologize to ur friend n tell her that u were jsut upset and u r sorry n it wood never happen again...tell ur ex the same thing! tell bob to keep it on the down low so no1 else finds out n starts calling u a slut.
hope everything turns out fine.....briana
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This might be hard to understand, but Mods please don't delete until I have at least 1 answer! Please...
lately all my friends have been getting into fights, it's a middle school thing i guess. one problem, there is a HUGE fight going opn between this girl who stayed back and my best friend. so the gilr who stayed back is 15 we are all 13 and my best friend and her are in a figt. its a really bad one tho. we've contacted the superintendant of my city to give you an idea of how bad it is. she is concstanly beign harassed and now everyoen else is in minor fights becaus eof the big one, we are falling apart what do i do? i've tried talking it out, is the problem just to big? and my best friend is leaving the school next week : ( help
go to a school guidence counsler. he/she will call down both sides and you will settle it. if it still doesnt stop, contact police and tell them to make the other side baq off...they cood get in trouble for harrasment and stuff. if u ahvnt alredi tell the pricipal...they could suspend the bad person for bullying and harrasing. dont worry all bad things must come to an end!!
hope this helps...briana
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i have a firend named briana and shes wierd and has a stupid advice web site what the hell sould she do to stop her from being even mmore wierd
well i dont think u shood b mad or upset w/ her! shes trying to send a message that shes here to help ppl!
hey my names briana too~
lmfao...me
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Ok well I like this girl, but she's my friend and I'm not sure if I should tell anybody cuz it may screw up the relationship we do or did have not sure which it is yet O_O. I don't know wut to do HEEELLLPPPP
well u should def tell her! its the way u goa bout it is the tricky part. u tell her i gatta tell u sumthing...but u promise it cant change ne thing between us..n then shell go oaky wat u can tell me anything....n then u go i like u..n then shell go awww how cute! n its a good ending!! well most of the time! but if shes ur friend she wood styll b friends w/ u no matter wat...weather she likes u baq or not. girls rnt shallow n r like omg ew ic ant b friends w/ sum1 who likes me...ther not like that at all! so go ahead tell her! dont b afriad!
hope this helps...briana
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